Are most of your friends female ?

[Kathy4la]

It seems that most or all of my friends are female. I am alot closer to my wife female friends then there husbands. When I was working (retired) all my close friends were female. It just seems that I feel very comfortable around females and not males. Anybody with the same feelings ???

[Avana]

yes.

much to the chagrin of my gf.

[Melissa Jill]

Nope, Im the opposite. Most of my friends are male. Ive always found it difficult to talk to females. I don't know why though, I guess I can never think of anything to talk about.
Hopefully crossdressing will help me there, so I can talk about clothes and such with them.

[TabbyJames]

Yes, Most are female. I can relate to them much better than men.

[Sharon B.]

Same here most are all female friends. Just wish I could come out to them all but that won't happen.
One or two of them wouldn't matter to them but their husbands are a different story and the others it would matter to them.

[Mary Jane]

Yes, I have always been more comfortable in female company.

[RADER]

When I ran the Bingo at my Legion Hall, I had over 200 ladies friends. LOL Rader

[the_me]

My friends are a bunch of big, sweaty, hairy neo-rednecks (for lack of better term)... I would kill for just one close gg friend.

[Lissa Stevens]

I've had more male friends than female but my closet friends are female. I just feel closer and seem to relate to them better.

[Veronica Lacey]

Similar here. Probably a 3:1 ratio of female:male friends.

[Cassandra Lynn]

My brothers are what i would call my friends, i just don't really have ppl that i hang out with. Having said that, like Mary Jane says, i much much prefer female company. I attend meetings on a daily basis (the Bill Dub Club) and i always sit with the ladies. And the guy huggers make me cringe inside.

Cassie

[Kelly Blaine]

My best friend is a gg. I just love being around girls. I feel more comfortable.

[Kim_Bitzflick]

It seems that most or all of my friends are female. I am alot closer to my wife female friends then there husbands. When I was working (retired) all my close friends were female. It just seems that I feel very comfortable around females and not males. Anybody with the same feelings ???

Definately. My ratio is about 5 to 1 (Female to Male friends)

As a side note, when I was 14, I was invited to a party. I arrived to find that I was the ONLY boy invited. I still enjoyed myself - especially when every girl wanted to sit on my lap. I was soooooo naive at that time....

[DebsUK]

I don't have a lot of close friends. I hang with girls at work more than guys and at the gym too, but minly because I do girly classes LOL

[GirlieAmanda]

I have worked with women for years and hang out with them on lunch. My friends are mostly women too. They just seem so much more like me. No problem with men but women rock!

[Kate Lynn]

My best friends are my wife,our dogs,Adolph and Eva both Dutch Shepards,a Manx cat named Poontang,and a ferret named Mr. Slinky,then there are my team members who are also family.

[S. Lisa Smith]

At a party I am usually with the women. I try to cirulate so it's not obvious, but I'm much more interested in being with them!

[KarenSusan]

Nope, Im the opposite. Most of my friends are male. Ive always found it difficult to talk to females. I don't know why though, I guess I can never think of anything to talk about.
Hopefully crossdressing will help me there, so I can talk about clothes and such with them.

I am the same as Melissa. I love women more than men but can't seem to find any as friends. If I had a good gg friend, I think I would confide in her that I am CD. Women seem to be more tolerant than men.

[Charleen]

Yep!

[SarahS1952]

My dearest friends are mostly female, but I have male friends, too.

[Genivieve]

Haha! SO true for me too. She hates it but I keep reminding her its how I met her.

[tanyalynn51]

Seems like although I always have been split evenly, my best friend at most times, even as a kid, were girls. Usually strong, successful women, either in business, or just in life.

[Renee_E]

Yes. Since I was a kid, I always ended up wherever the females congregated. The times I tried to be one of the guys I always wondered what the girls were talking about. I felt more accepted by females than by males.

[Kate Simmons]

Not all of my friends are female but my two best friends just happen to be.:)

[noeleena]

Hi,

Women of cause & why not as im a woman thats not to say i dont have male friends a few , tho i can only relate with men from a woman s way of thinking certinly not as a male i failed that for 50 years . i tryed , i can talk with men if its about trades or work & details & yes that was okay, as a man to man & what males would talk about sorry just a blank i was out of place, or more like a fish out of water.


All tho when i was doing duty for a group feeding out food & tea on a night in the red light distrist, i was able to talk with one guy about foot ball, funny as he thought i knew a lot concerning that so i spos i pulled that off & really was out of my depth never mind i got by. tho i was surprised i did it, oh he like all the others accepted me as a woman even then .

...noeleena...

[Joanne f]

I have the same amount of ether Zero :lol2:

[Aleria]

Almost exclusively female. I can count on one hand the number of males I consider friends. I find men to be disgusting, repulsive creatures...

[erika_s]

Most of my friends are female. I trust women much more than men.

[MaryFran G]

All my friends are exclusivey male.

[Gennifer]

Like many of you, most of my friends are women. With some exceptions, I have always found it easier to socialize, work with, and hang out with women.

[Emily Ann Brown]

At this time I have one male friend, as long as CDs don't count as male.

The story of my life.


Em

[Michaella]

Yes. I think I've always gotten along better with women than men, in general. Even as a kid I seemed to get on better with girls at times. I do have close male friends, but it is not an easy thing for me to be close to males. I am not at all comfortable in all male environments and generally turned off by stereo-typical male behaviour. My male friends do not conform to any sort of pattern, are very much themselves. Interestingly a disproportianally large number of my female friends are bi-sexual or lesbian, and none are in any way femme, nothing at all as femme as me. Don't know what all that means.

Michaella

[joannemarie barker]

Most of mine are male :) I love mens company and they aren't all hairy apes lol :)

[Lorileah]

I asked my three friends and they were equally divided.

Before she died, my wife's friends were my friends and their husbands really didn't talk to me much (her guy friends did talk to me) but that seems more that I really don't follow sports much or hunting or whatever macho mode de jour was popular (I learned to talk "biker" once just so I could look like a guy). I could on the other hand discuss fashion or whatever the women were talking about and they often asked for the male perspective (why of course that skirt isn't too short!).

In High School I had more female friends and absolutely NO female...uh..."friends". because I was the person they came to to complain about guys. Go figure.

Now I have equal male/female friends. I have learned the language of both. My male friends think I really care about how their love life is going and so do my female friends. I think it is just that I have learned to space out on those topics. But at least I have friends....sort of

[Raquelle C]

Haha, funny Lorileah! For me mostly male... I have alot of female friends too, but most are not the type which just us two would hang out if it wasn't a group setting. Make sense?

[VanessaVW]

I have worked with women for years and hang out with them on lunch. My friends are mostly women too. They just seem so much more like me. No problem with men but women rock!

Like Amanda, I eat at the "girls table" at lunch.

[JanetHarper]

Mostly female even if you count my regular golf buddies.

I always end up with the women at gatherings. On new years day I ended up in the kitchen prepping food with the girls while the guys were drooling over a new motorbike in the yard. Women's conversations are just soooo much more interesting.

[Stephanie Anne]

Some of my best friends walk on four legs and have tails.

[Leanne2]

I don't have any friends. I don't hang with guys because I don't have anything (visible) in common with them. I would love to have female friends but that is frowned upon when you are a sixty year old married man. I guess my wife is my best friend but she hates the fact that I am transsexual. So I don't have a single friend that understands me. If we go to a party I hang with the women because I am one. I enjoy their conversations. Their husbands don't know what to think about me. I'm always on the outside looking in. Leanne

[BiancaEstrella]

Dani has 27 female friends and 1 male friend

Daniel's friends are pretty much split 50-50

[Olivia2]

In my own age range -middle age-most of my closest friends are female. Where I work, most of the people there are half my age and there my closest friends/acquaintances are male. I can talk about certain subjects with both that don't cross genders easily but I think the older that males get, the less male friends they have. I'm single, but most married males have wives and kids and work that takes up most of their focus. I think it is a problem that makes life more difficult for males in society not to have enough male friends and something that I hope changes for the better as society moves forward. Many males depend on their wives as their only emotionally significant connection and when that isn't in the best place they have nowhere to turn-except work, sports, alcohol, affairs, etc. I'll get off my soapbox now.

[gungho]

I only have a few people in my life that I would call friend and they're all men. I mean there are girls that I socialize with and could call acquaintances but it's not like I'm calling them up to come hang out with just me.

[Jennifer Marie P.]

Most of my friends are female and just feel more better with them.

[Being Paige]

I have alot more in common with the females, I ejnoy the company and conversation more. I feel way more comfortable being in a group of girls then guys!

[GirlyBits]

95% Of my friends are female. I love them all, however I want to kill them, drink their blood, gain their powers and become them!!! RAWR! :devil:

[Elle1946]

Yes, I would just rather be around females than males. I guess that I have more in common with females and I feel more comfortable with them even though they do not not know my status.

[Kitty Sue]

I used to feel predominantly comfortable with women, however this is slowly changing. As I feel more confident in myself I find I am increasingly comfortable around men too. Today I some very good male friends.

[Debra Jane]

Yes, and that's the way I like it.

I have always laughed at the "never try to understand women" thing, it's the men I can't work out, WTF is this macho ego thing and the need to p*ss on people?

Lately though I'm starting to see younger females in a different light, can't understand why they want to be like the young guy's and drive aggressively, drink til they are way too drunk and use the lowest form of swearing are they breaking the gender stereotype or is it womanhood wasted on fools.

[PretzelGirl]

So another vote for "men?"

Excellent!

I didn't used to think about it until this thread and others like it before, but in the past I always had a male best friend. Since I moved to Utah I haven't and it coincided with my starting to dress. So it could well just be a mindset.

[annabellejorden]

So another vote for "men?"

Most males I know are Jack-somthing-the-rather.
Most of the femails I know are of the look-at-me type.

Both types of people irritate me.

I have 2 really close friends, 1 of each.
I have 3 other friends, 1 gg and 2 male.

I would love to add a GG friend, if you know what I mean.

I am more comfortable around females.

[t-girlxsophie]

Most of my friends do tend to be female,can truthfully say my Best friends are all Female and would trust them with my life.Not that I dont get on with men,I just dont find myself in many situationsto consider them friends,more aqquaintences,but only one that I would say was a close friend

I do think part,well actually most of the reasons I have more Girl Friends than guys has came from my dressing before I became who I am I did have more Male friends.It has polarised my opinion sumwhat on the sexes

:hugs:Sophie

[AmberM]

Most of my friends are women

[BevAndrews]

Yes, most of the good friends I've had in my life have been female, though very few have known that I crossdress.
Sometimes I've had to be very careful not to be too informed about fashion and makeup - or at least I've felt I've had to be carfeful!
Wish I could be more open, but one poor response could upset life not just for me but for my wife and family as well, and it would not be fair for me to take that chance.

[KristaE]

When I was younger, yes... most of my friends were female. But now that I'm married, I think it is inappropriate to have those kinds of relationships. I just don't need to have accusations flying around. I have female friends, but they are usually the wives of guy friends.

[Ashlee]

I would love to have more female friends whether they were friends with benefits or just plain ole female friends.

[gaylegirlify]

I too have had mostly female friends i do like to listen and be around them, i seem to relate to them better and they to me, have only ever told one that i love dressing and being femme and she was really ok with it.

[Virgin1A]

Most of my close friends are male but I usually get on really well with my friend's wives. I never try to talk girly to them but we just seem to have a rapport in movies and books we like etc. The funny thing is that I never seem to hit it off with the husbands of my wife's friends. There's a deeper message here somewhere that I haven't been able to work out. None of my male friends are the coarse macho kind but neither have I ever suspected that any of them maybe like us (not so sure about my little brother though).

[Pythos]

Most of my friends are male, however, they are not typical males. Now saying that, I far prefer the presence of women...they are so much nicer to look upon ;)

Being in a circle of friends consisting of Geeky, perky, Goths, means your friends are not typical. The guys I worked with I have little to no contact with, mostly due to their borrish behavior. If they did not act so reprensibly then I would be more likely to hang out with them. But talking about subject number 1, 75% of the time does nothing for me.

[vickilynn]

Much more comfortable around women, wife doesnt understand why.

[MichelleP]

Many more female than male friends. The usual scenario: party at a firends home, girls in the kitchen, guys in the backyard - guess where I'm at, chatting away?