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Misty G
01-14-2011, 09:51 PM
My biggest dream is just to be me and to go to church as me instead of having to fake it . . . . .

What is yours ? ? ? ? ? ?

Jeannie
01-14-2011, 09:57 PM
I would love to be able to just go out and shop or go to a restaurant without worry about getting laughed at, hassled or be afraid of running in to someone I now. That would be awesome.

Jeannie

sissystephanie
01-14-2011, 09:59 PM
I guess my crossdressing dream is to be me!! I am a man who likes to wear feminine clothing.!! I have no desire to be a woman, just to wear their clothes. Since I am a man, I go to Church dressed as a man. Although I am usually underdressed enfemme!! I have no problems with that, and I don't think God does either!! If other people would think that way we would all be better off!!

Jeanie, I have done everything you said! Never have had a problem, and since my dear wife has passed away I go out without a wig or makeup. Just a guy in a skirt or dress!! No one pays much attention!!

Shelby
01-14-2011, 10:01 PM
My dream would either to wear a cute cheerleader uniform or to get all glammed up in a prom dress and go out on the town with some girlfriends. Someday maybe.

Leyna
01-14-2011, 10:02 PM
Oh, church is one of the biggies for me too. I'd also love to go dancing en femme. Someday I'll get up the nerve.

JohnH
01-14-2011, 10:11 PM
I would like stem-cell breast augmentation, facial hair electrolysis, and then feel free to cross dress whenever I want to. I have a dream that my wife and I would go out as follows: she would wear her usual shirt, pants, and flat shoes and I would wear a dress, hose, and heels.

Johanna

linnea
01-14-2011, 10:15 PM
Like many others, I dream of the complete freedom to dress enfemme and carry on with my life that way. I'm getting closer every day.

JohnH
01-14-2011, 10:15 PM
I would love to be able to just go out and shop or go to a restaurant without worry about getting laughed at, hassled or be afraid of running in to someone I now. That would be awesome.

Jeannie

You just have to go out with a big bouncer type of buddy so he can wipe the smirks off the faces of the hecklers!

Johanna

RADER
01-14-2011, 10:27 PM
Just to go out of the house. A Paul Bunion type does not look good in a dress.
The curse of being a big person. Rader

GaleWarning
01-14-2011, 10:37 PM
That one day we will all be able to dress as we wish and simply think/feel/say this is me, without being judged weird or wonderful by anyone else.

AnnaCalliope
01-14-2011, 10:44 PM
That my family -- all of them, even my father's narrow-minded super Baptist side -- will accept me for who I am when I finally come out and begin transitioning to female.

annabellejorden
01-15-2011, 02:06 AM
My cross dressing dream is the same as my big dream.

I dream for a star trek type of society.

One where every one is accepted, no matter what. All are accepted.
And all are shown the respect that any living sentient being deserves.

Darn you Roddenberry for putting these ideas into my head.

Raychel
01-15-2011, 02:16 AM
Like many others, I dream of the complete freedom to dress enfemme and carry on with my life that way. I'm getting closer every day.

My thoughts exactly

Rachel Mari
01-15-2011, 03:26 AM
My dream would be to dress how ever I felt. If I wanted to go to a party, or to dinner, whatever, dressed in any dress/shoes I wanted and to be accepted and treated as it was just a normal thing.

Ashley Allison
01-15-2011, 04:11 AM
My cross dressing dream is the same as my big dream.

I dream for a star trek type of society.

One where every one is accepted, no matter what. All are accepted.
And all are shown the respect that any living sentient being deserves.

Darn you Roddenberry for putting these ideas into my head.

I couldn't have said it any better. :thumbsup:

cordgrass
01-15-2011, 04:53 AM
For those who want to go to church, consider changing denominations. The Unitarian Church is very accepting of crossdressers and transsexuals.

markinhose
01-15-2011, 05:43 AM
my dream would is to be able to live day to day enfemme as shannon.

Jill M
01-15-2011, 06:56 AM
My dream is to be dressed enfemme and go out with my wife for a weekend of girly fun.

ninapuella
01-15-2011, 07:17 AM
oh there are lots of dreams. But i would love to try dressing 24/7. And i would like to go out.

Amy Hepker
01-15-2011, 07:27 AM
My dream is to pass in public, I am way to tall and big for a Lady and I stick out like a sore thumb. I would also have a Lady that would totally accept me for who I am and would go out with me dressed as a Lady. Not nessacerally in a dress, because I want to fit in as a Female not stick out like a guy in a dress.

eluuzion
01-15-2011, 07:42 AM
My dream is to learn that the results from the blood tests I had done prior to my hernia surgery last March, revealed DNA evidence that proves that I am the illegitimate son produced from a secret love affair between Bill Gates and Oprah many years ago...and they both want to pay me off and keep it quiet.//:heehee:
:love:

suchacutie
01-15-2011, 08:46 AM
My dream is to so very well understand Tina that switching back and forth between genders is completely natural and vertually without thought, completly uninhibited, where Tina has enough time to well-establish herself as the individual she is.

Danielle Gee
01-15-2011, 08:59 AM
My dream is to be an honest-to-goodness housewife. I'd love to stay at home to cook, clean, and try to make a happy home for my spouse. I actually do most of that now, but not "full-time"

Danielle

Morganx
01-15-2011, 09:13 AM
My dream is to be able to be a Morgan as much as possible and to share this side of me with someone special. Over the past month or so, its started to come true! My wife encourages my dressing and loves it as much as I do. We told a few of her girlfriends and though I'm not ready for prime time we do have a lot of fun having girl nights and such.

WandaRae2009
01-15-2011, 01:26 PM
My dream would be acceptance from my wife and do things together like girlfriends.

Stephanie47
01-15-2011, 01:37 PM
I'm kind of like Rader. My absolute dream is to get rid of my 6' 200 pound body and trade it in for 5'7" slender frame. Just to ride to another part of town, park and walk down the street enfemme in DAYLIGHT would be great.

Rianna Humble
01-15-2011, 01:49 PM
I think my dream would be to transition successfully enough to make finding a lesbian partner a more realistic possibility

Holly
01-15-2011, 02:03 PM
I'm living my dream so my dream is to not wake up. :)

t-girlxsophie
01-15-2011, 04:01 PM
My Life can't possibly be Any more dreamy than It is now (I know! pass the sick bucket):)

Well I suppose a walk in wardrobe crammed with designer gear wouldn't go amiss LOL

:hugs:Sophie

Casey
01-15-2011, 04:41 PM
My dream would be to have my wife go shopping with me for panties, bras and a few nice outfits to wear around the house.

Pythos
01-15-2011, 07:24 PM
Well, here is a deep one.

I dream the word and term "Crossdresser" goes the way of the Do do.

What I mean is that the clothing we choose to wear is no longer controlled by our sex or even gender. We can just look and wear what we please. The only "controlling" thing being that the clothing be "appropriate" to the situation.

In other words for a night at the symphony I can as a male choose to wear a gown, or a tux, items that would not be overly appropriate at say an amusement park.

But that is about it as far as limiting factors go.

That isn't too bad a dream, wouldn't you say?

NathalieX66
01-15-2011, 07:29 PM
A year and a month ago, my dream was to go out in public dressed en femme for New Year's Eve. I chickened out.....BUT, this year, I finally did!:) ..... and thus NYE 2011 became a reality.

I guess my dream now would to be a bridesmaid in an actual wedding.

Debutante
01-15-2011, 07:33 PM
My dream is to feminize my look a bit: pierced ares, trimmed eyebrows; and to free myself and dress more outside in different venues.
Being a bridesmaid.... or participating in women's groups (fundraisers, etc.) as a woman, would be so nice!

AmberM
01-15-2011, 07:54 PM
My first dream is to to pass in public and have girls nights out with my fiance. From there I want to dress is as a school girl or wearing a wedding dress.

Stacy L
01-15-2011, 11:40 PM
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When I fall asleep dressed, I don’t remember my dreams when I wake up!
:straightface:

Traci Simmmons
01-15-2011, 11:59 PM
My dream would be to become a real woman with a real woman's body. A beautiful woman like Jaclyn Smith whom I've dreamed of becoming.

Kim Welcher
01-16-2011, 12:42 AM
My dream is to have natural feminine curves and breasts, and to be a bridesmaid.

Jess Marie
01-16-2011, 04:11 AM
My dream is to be with someone who is attracted to my crossdressing too. My girlfriend is accepting and doesn't mind, we have even gone shopping together, but she isn't as big into it as I wish she would be. My dream is like mostly every one here, that we would be accepted for who we are and what we wear and that our partners could be as into it as we are. I like to wear a bra and enhancers, but I would be burned at the stake if my girlfriend found out :/

p.s. I am completely jealous of you ladies who have accepting wives. I remember reading something where someone's wife came home and bought a bra for herself but announced I bought us a new bra. I am completely envious of you.

Kathleen Ann Trees
01-16-2011, 05:37 PM
Occasional Girl's Nights (dinner) Out and Days out (shopping) with my wife and friends.

Kathleen Ann Trees

GirlieAmanda
01-16-2011, 08:38 PM
I have lived a couple of dreams already and am working on another HUGE one. BUT my ultimate dream is to be able to have my own place and be able to do whatever I want in my place. My own girlie sanctuary. That will happen in a few months but yet now I would like to share that with someone as well. Its looking good.

herwannabe
01-16-2011, 09:13 PM
My dream would be >> when I cross dressed I would transform and look 100% female in all eyes

Michelle

Suzette Muguet de Mai
01-16-2011, 09:46 PM
I dream that one day I can be me, to wake and feel free of fear, free of lying to myself and others, free from possible violence, harassment and rejection. I dream I can wake up and chat to my mother in female form, have fun with make up and hairstyles as a young girl and her mother may have done. I dream that one day I can go to a ball dressed in a highly sequined gown with a gorgeous updo and beautiful earings, shoes, necklace and bracelets. I dream that one day I can actually like myself for who I am and not what I want others to believe I am not. I dream that I am actually 18 and my life as a TG is underway. Yes, I do dream to be me.

Lainie
01-16-2011, 10:25 PM
A little more information on the church issue...
Probably you want to go to your current church and be accepted by your current friends. However, if you want to make new friends and find a place that is open to diversity, definitely search for Unitarian Universalist congregations in your area: http://www.uua.org/
Look for one that describes itself as a "welcoming congregation". That means they have completed a certification process to verify that they welcome GLBT visitors and members. My congregation is welcoming, and includes gays & lesbians & PFLAGs. One member's TG (maybe TS?) partner visits occasionally.

Recently we had an online poll about selecting a new minister, and the respondents said they would not have a problem with a gay or lesbian minister. There were some reservations about a TG minister--not opposition, but a recognition that even those who are open and sympathetic still have little experience with TGs.

PretzelGirl
01-16-2011, 10:33 PM
My dream is to learn that the results from the blood tests I had done prior to my hernia surgery last March, revealed DNA evidence that proves that I am the illegitimate son produced from a secret love affair between Bill Gates and Oprah many years ago...and they both want to pay me off and keep it quiet.

Funny, you don't look a bit like Bill.

My dream..... that is tough as I am not a big dreamer. I want to have electrolysis, so I will probably make that happen when the money is right. I want everyone to be accepted; that one is tougher. I have great acceptance, so in light of other family issues, it is hard to think big about CDing when there are other things that I would like to have a wish come true for and improve it.

Tanya C
01-16-2011, 10:33 PM
I have a wonderfully accepting wife who is very supportive and encouraging of my feminine side. We go out all the time to a variety of places and events, and we always have a great time. Also, I'm a member of a terrific TG social club.
I guess my dream would be for all of you to have what I've been fortunate to have.

Tanya

Bethany38
01-16-2011, 10:47 PM
My dream is to be an honest-to-goodness housewife. I'd love to stay at home to cook, clean, and try to make a happy home for my spouse. I actually do most of that now, but not "full-time"

Danielle

I am so with you on this one Danielle.

dizzy
01-16-2011, 11:45 PM
I have two dreams, one would be that we could all be out and about in public wearing whatever we want and not get rediculed, but that we would have complete exceptance from the public. Number 2 would be to be dressed as a bride if and when me and my wife redo our vows.

IwishIwasTracy
01-17-2011, 01:27 AM
Here comes the bride

Christina89
01-17-2011, 01:15 PM
my dream would be to tell my mother i like to crossdress

linda allen
01-17-2011, 05:15 PM
My dream would be acceptance from my wife and do things together like girlfriends.

That would be mine also.

Kaz
01-17-2011, 05:20 PM
I would just love to be able to be Kaz whenever and wherever I want, with no issues or problems from anybody, just loads of support and love.

Jennifer Freeman
01-17-2011, 06:10 PM
All it really needs is self-confidence - not all GG's are beautiful and beauty is only in the eye of the beholder! Most people don't look too closely anyway. My first real fear was when, after a meal in a restaurant, I needed to use a toilet. For Jennifer to go to the men's was out of the question! So going to the ladies' was my only option - confidently! No problem really, and I've done it often since then.
Just be yourself.
Jennifer Freeman

Terry V
01-17-2011, 09:53 PM
To be dressed in a beuitiful wedding gown with all the frills, long line strapless bra, almost there panties, garter belt with silk stockings, loads of petticoats, and 4" heels all in white of course. I think I would be in heaven and I would not want to come back.

tia61
01-19-2011, 12:10 AM
2 dreams. first I wish I had a really accepting female friend that I could talk to and explore my feminine side with, my wife does not accept. and second, I would get really sexy, starting with a nice bath and shaving my legs. paint my finger and toe nails a nice red. do a great make-up job. put on a beautiful soft black dress with sheer hose and a sexy pair of 4 inch black patent leather peep toe pumps and go to dinner and dancing with my friend. DREAMS!!!

Scotty
01-19-2011, 12:55 AM
My pink bikini on a beach in Hawaii.

KateSpade83
01-19-2011, 05:56 AM
I have lived some of your crossdressing dreams:

I have gone to my Roman Catholic church many times in a skirt suit only because I was going shopping afterwards. As long as you blend in and are very passable it would be no bother. You don't need to go to a special church.

I have gone out to the gay parade and my psychiatrist in my best cheerleading outfit.

A dream I had lived was going to a job fair in a skirt suit. I posted a past thread on this.

But my unlivable dream would be to change into a real woman with real tits and a vagina so I can experience periods, childbirth, and a female orgasm.

A dream that could one day be reality is to find an accepting pretty wife my same clothes size. And to go to work in a skirt suit!

GingerLeigh
01-19-2011, 12:36 PM
That it would be socially acceptable everywhere to dress as you please.
Also that everyone on the planet adopts a basic and simple tenet, don't hurt anyone either physically or mentally for any reason, ever.

Ginger

Julogden
01-19-2011, 12:42 PM
I guess that mine would be to find a female partner who loves me because of me being transgendered rather than in spite of it.

Carol

mywifeswoman
01-19-2011, 10:32 PM
My dream is to be dressed enfemme and go out with my wife for a weekend of girly fun.

My thoughts...exactly.

erica12b
01-19-2011, 11:44 PM
my dream would be to have a girls weekend or week , small group of gg's go to a spa get my nails done ,dress full tilt lol go out and blend in have a great time and bejust one of the girls, will never happen i dont look very girly , have never been out dressed

Rachel Morley
01-19-2011, 11:52 PM
I'm living my dream so my dream is to not wake up. :)
Ditto Holly! .... I have so much more that I ever thought possible. Sometimes I think something terrible is going to happen to me or my wife because no one gets it this good for very long.

Jenniferathome
01-20-2011, 01:38 AM
Shopping for dresses and shoes with my wife while in completely dressed up!

Billie Jean
01-21-2011, 11:46 PM
Just to dress as to how I feel like at the moment I want to. Billie Jean

Marjory
01-22-2011, 08:27 AM
To just get dressed in a pair of jeans, a nice top, a pair of ballet flats and just do my everyday things and have it be perfectly acceptable.

Yvonne York
01-22-2011, 08:42 AM
I would just love to be able to be Kaz whenever and wherever I want, with no issues or problems from anybody, just loads of support and love.

Totally agree with Kaz. Must be the Yorkshire in us!

Dena
01-22-2011, 11:54 AM
Mine would be, being the size, and having the head of hair I had when I was 15!

Bethany_Anne_Fae
01-22-2011, 12:37 PM
Mine is a selfish one. I wanna be Queen Elizabeth R (the Blanchet version) for a weekend :)

Charise52
01-22-2011, 01:04 PM
For me, it would be to get to wear skirts outside all the time...
For annabellejorden, I totally agree...
For eluuzion... an interesting comment...
For me, if i could wear skirts in the Winter and dresses in the Summer I would ask nothing more...

Lea
01-22-2011, 04:18 PM
I would love to just be able to dress when I wanted to and go out into the world. To experience life as a woman from the everyday chores of grocery shopping, to a fancy party where I am dressed to the nines.
I would love to be just one of the girls in a group of women.
Then to be able to do this without the fear of being fired if found out or having my family ridiculed.

britneyb
01-22-2011, 08:40 PM
My biggest dream is just to be me and to go to church as me instead of having to fake it . . . . .

What is yours ? ? ? ? ? ?


I also have the same dream over and over, I was dressed as a girl one time at church when I was little. It was the best feeling in the world. I would go Sunday after Sunday looking at all the pretty dresses the girls got to wear.


My dream would either to wear a cute cheerleader uniform or to get all glammed up in a prom dress and go out on the town with some girlfriends. Someday maybe.

This is also my dream to Shelby Girl! I guess we need to start our own cheerleading team! :-)

Fab Karen
01-22-2011, 08:55 PM
If your church is full of hate, find one that isn't ( such as Unitarian or MCC ).

Deanna B
01-29-2011, 02:17 PM
hi . when i get dress up and make up on . i still look like my face has been hit by a lorry . my dream is to look like any of you girl pretty :battingeyelashes::daydreaming:. love deanna :love:

WillowWriter
01-29-2011, 02:25 PM
My crossdressing dream is to be passable and maybe go out on Halloween with my two closest friends. I wanna WOW them. :P

Joann Smith
01-29-2011, 03:10 PM
My dream is to go to the bank ..EnFemme and pay off my house ...then tell then to kiss my purfumed butt..


Joann

Cassiecd
01-29-2011, 11:22 PM
Wow, my dream is rather uncommon on this thread:

I would love to go out and be PASSABLE and to truely experience a womans world.

Mary Morgan
01-30-2011, 12:30 AM
My dream would be that my wife would come to me and tell me that she has finally realized how very attracted she is to me as a woman and that she wants me to be dressed all of the time, in fact, she wants me to begin hormones in order to feminize my body as much as possible. She asks me to go with her to her salon for hair extensions, a complete set of nails and a pedicure. Then it is off for a day of shopping for a new wardrobe. Gotta stay away from Fictionmania!

SusanQ
01-31-2011, 05:54 AM
That I was a much smaller person so that finding womens clothing and shoes that fit me was not such a difficult propostion.

Loni
01-31-2011, 06:32 AM
to just be me and enjoy life as loni.
to be able to go out into the big scary world,
not fear someone screaming and pointing at me,
not have everybody laughing at me,
being able to apply makeup and look like a girl not a big man in a dress.

.

BillieJoEllen
01-31-2011, 01:59 PM
Being trans-sexual and having to present as 'macho' all the time, I would just as soon drop all the camoflage and just be me period.

sally silverfox
01-31-2011, 06:09 PM
To be 100% passable and be accepted by everyone.

Pattie O
01-31-2011, 07:11 PM
Day 1;I would love to have a full make over and then go out to a ball and dance the night away.Day 2. The next day go to the footy in winter attire eg jeans,boots,jacket & scarf . Day 3 ;Go shopping ,out to lunch and then on to a movie in the afternoon. Day 4 ;Relax at home ,spend a day in sleepwear and just lounge around;Day 5;Go to support group and see what other's are doing. Day 5;Go to the races in my best outfit! Day 6;Shopping for bling and maybe the Art Gallery for the afternoon;Day 7 ;Country drive to a cosy pub for a meal just relaxing in comfy but stylish outfit.
At the end of the day I agree with Kaz;just be able to be me and dress whenever I wanted and be accepted.

loserjaxxy
01-31-2011, 07:19 PM
To keep my young fit fem shape and grow my hair out FOREVER!.

Kelly Greene
01-31-2011, 10:38 PM
One of my dreams is t go to he beach and look nice in a skirted bikini.
Another dream is to learn to smile, because those of us that smile look sooooo much better/happier than those of us who don't smile.

J-Chattanooga
02-08-2011, 08:27 PM
I just want to wear what I want to wear whenever I want. Why do women get to wear all of the cutest outfits?!?

J

brassieres
02-08-2011, 09:11 PM
To be made over from head to toe and just hang out with women.

Adelaide
02-08-2011, 11:54 PM
That my wife finally accepts that I'm a CD...and that we go out as 2 girlfriends together.

SweetTransvestite
02-09-2011, 04:32 AM
To perform just like this :daydreaming::
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=avmSzMA2LbE

I live that dream in my room every night, but I want mah audience.

Heck, I'm thinking of starting by going to open-mic karaoke nights en femme.

BillieJoEllen
02-09-2011, 01:05 PM
I just re-read most of the posts in this thread. Some of you would want to go to church all dressed up. When I was three and a half I was baptized after my family reconciled with the church. I was recently shown some pictures of my baptismal garb by an uncle who kept them after my aunt (god-mother) passed away. I was wearing one of the daintiest and frilliest little white dresses you have ever seen! Unfortunately I don't remember anything about that day. Can't imagine what the priest thought. I had seen the pictures many years ago but since my CDing became known all references to it ceased.

Sharon B.
02-09-2011, 08:18 PM
That I would be able to go out and do my shopping as the person I desire to be "Sharon"

tammy tee
02-09-2011, 10:16 PM
I would love to spend every moment totally in fem. Shopping, dressing, makeup, hair and nails. To spend each day living the look would be a dream.

luludoll
02-09-2011, 11:00 PM
A runway model for fashion week!

annie.hawkins428
02-09-2011, 11:55 PM
I want to go to an extravagant horse race wearing the most beautiful dress with a really big hat and cute heels !!!

PinupRanae
02-10-2011, 12:10 AM
to be a (you guessed it) a pinup model!

Gocaps14
02-10-2011, 06:33 AM
I am hoping to open a Valentines card from my wife to find a Victorias Secret gift card inside!

laurajade
02-10-2011, 10:35 AM
I would love to be able to slip into a cute top, skirt, flats, and hose, throw on a little bit of shopping makeup (nothing like I would wear to a party) and just stroll around the mall shopping without some macho guy with too much testosterone giving me a hard time.

Actually, I just remembered something I was kind of hoping for at Christmas. I was thinking it would be so wonderful if my wife pulled me aside and gave me a special Christmas gift. I open it and find a makeup kit with every color imaginable. Cheap stuff, I know, but it's would still make my cry with joy.

Kayla
02-10-2011, 04:07 PM
Go into female mode for a whole weekend....including public places....

michelesil
04-03-2011, 08:54 AM
I would love to spend a weekend all dressed up including a gala party where I would be dressed in a beautiful black dress, high heels and jewelry. Only in my dreams for now...

Jamie14
04-03-2011, 01:40 PM
Vanna White, just for a week or so. All those dresses and heels. Yes, I know they just had a contest for her job for a day. I chickened out when contemplating the video required :(

KINGFISHER
04-03-2011, 02:24 PM
My sentiments too. What more is there to say. Daniel

BLUE ORCHID
04-03-2011, 04:32 PM
My dream would be total acceptance by my wife that we could go out together like sisters.

Orchid

sherib
04-03-2011, 04:43 PM
My dream would be that I could be perfectly dressed so no one could tell I was a guy in a dress and then be able too good out in public.