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Leslie Langford
01-21-2011, 12:15 PM
Piggy-backing on kate dresser's "whats the proper way..." thread on how to use the women's washroom when out en femme, I have a similar question:
When putting on a skirt, do you zip it up in front first and then rotate it so that the zipper ends up on the side or in the back the way it's supposed to go? Or do you just zip it up in place, with the zipper remaining where it is actually meant to be? My wife seems to do it the later way, whereas I find that the "zip and rotate" method is more convenient. The only negative is that if you are wearing a blouse or other type of top that is tucked inside the skirt, that action pulls it out of place, and you then have to rearrange it and smooth everything down again afterwards.
Also, who besides me absolutely *hates* back zips on dresses - especially form-fitting ones - where you can't pull them halfway up your back to complete the zipping action overhand because they are too tight at that point? Those types of dresses are really designed in such a way that you need someone else to help you zip up, or else you have to design a makeshift tool (in my case, a length of fishing line attached to an open-ended paper clip) that you can hook onto the zipper tab to complete the operation.
Not so great a situation to be in when you have to do the "Superman in a phone booth" quick-change-to-drab routine when somebody who you don't want catching you en femme comes home unexpectedly :sad::eek::doh::heehee:.
Karren H
01-21-2011, 12:23 PM
I put it where its suppose to go and zip it up... Most women I have polled say the zipper always goes in the back but I have a couple skirts that just don't hang right so I moved it to the side (and mysteriously the tags are in the back??). Lol. They need a tag that says front or back or put your a$$ right here!! :D
docrobbysherry
01-21-2011, 12:27 PM
I suggest making a proper zipper puller, Leslie. One can be made easily using a metal coat hanger. Use a smaller wire attached to the end of the coat hanger wire for tiny zipper openings!
I prefer a rigid puller, as it's easier to UNZIP the zipper when removing my dresses!
Unfortunately, THAT ONE won't fit in your purse!
KarenSusan
01-21-2011, 12:28 PM
I use the "zip and rotate" method also. The one time I tried to zip in place, I broke off the zipper tab. When I rotate, I hold my hand between the zipper and blouse so that I don't snag the blouse.
Swings and roundabouts come to mind. Some people sit down to put on tights/pantyhose... I do it standing up and so do a lot of GGs. Bras... there are front fasteners and back fasteners... it's all about what works best for you.
What works best for you makes the superman switch so much more effective! Practice, practice, practice!
I can lose the lot; bra, forms, tight fitting skirt in 15 seconds... I plan ahead, and have the pile to put on.. etc....
Some clothes take a lot longer to remove than others... I save those for no risk situations and really enjoy them!
GingerLeigh
01-21-2011, 12:34 PM
Dresses and skirts weren't made to handle the Herculean efforts a male may exert on the little zipper (unless its a GG requesting assistance). I zip and twist.
Ginger
Sally24
01-21-2011, 12:41 PM
I generally zip in place since many of mine are form fitting and not made of a slippery material. I can do the back zip dresses but it takes all of my flexibility!
Julia Welch
01-21-2011, 12:50 PM
I don't think there is a proper way ... just a preffered method ... do whatever works best for you.
Persephone
01-21-2011, 01:09 PM
Bra hooks and zippers don't seem to be my problem. But the little hook at the top of the zipper? Yep, it looks just like a bra hook, but I always have a heck of a time getting it together. The skirt material always seems to get in the way.
Zip in back or zip and turn? Whatever works for you and that particular skirt.
Side zip pants are another item I always struggle with. The zipper always seems to be just beyond the comfort zone for my arms. Side zip skirts you can rotate a bit, but not pants, especially if they are form fitting.
Still, we're a lot better off than women back in history. The zipper really didn't make an appearance on clothes until the 1900's. Prior to that time it was rows of tiny buttons (like on the backs of some wedding dresses) or your maid sewed you into your gown (yes, really!). In those days Superman would have had a problem anyway as the phone booth also didn't really get invented until the early 1900's.
thechic
01-21-2011, 01:26 PM
I just zip in place label always to the back
AllieSF
01-21-2011, 01:38 PM
Zip and twist for me, especially with those pesky little hooks. With a skirt I then pull it up inside out over my belly to pull down the blouse and straighten it. Then the skirt goes down to to be adjusted and I am ready to go. I agree on the label, but I have found some that go on the right or left side. Some of those on Express Internacional skirts.
Michelle 51
01-21-2011, 02:04 PM
I hook' zip and rotate but as you said it is an pain if you've tucked a top in and I put a run in a new pair of pantyhose the other day when the hook caught as I turned the skirt .Only good thing was it was too high to ruin them.
RADER
01-21-2011, 04:13 PM
I zip and rotate myself. Awhile back my wife had this wonderful dress that
zipped in back. I made her a zipping tool; a 24" piece if 1/2 " dowel rod
with an open hook screwed into the bottom. She loved it, I think it is
still around here somewhere, don't need it anymore, dresses just don't come
that way anymore. Just not for us.
herwannabe
01-21-2011, 04:19 PM
The preferred female way, from behind, same as the bra I look for the tag and place it appropriately and ziiiipppppppp it up or snap or hook
Michelle
Dannigirl
01-21-2011, 04:47 PM
depends on the skirt, I zip and rotate tighter skirts, then just lift up my skirt and pull my blouse back down from underneath, works well for me.
fran46
01-21-2011, 05:14 PM
For my money, nothing is more complicated than getting into back-zipper pants. Needless to say, you can't rotate them, as you might with a skirt that zipped in the rear. And unlike side-zip slacks, you can't even see the part of the garment in question, which renders it especially difficult to fasten the little hook at the top. On the other hand, once I've struggled to get them in place, back-zipper pants make me feel deliciously trapped in femininity.
CharleneT
01-21-2011, 05:17 PM
I put it where its suppose to go and zip it up... Most women I have polled say the zipper always goes in the back but I have a couple skirts that just don't hang right so I moved it to the side (and mysteriously the tags are in the back??). Lol. They need a tag that says front or back or put your a$$ right here!! :D
:lol2: I love the "right here" tag idea !
Karren, some skirts are supposed to have the zipper on the side. A lot of mine are that way. The label is almost always in back ( not always, I have a couple where it is on the side). The one thing about women's clothing that I think is a "rule" is that there are no rules . . .
In general, I just zip it where it needs to be when "on". If you have trouble doing a skirt, wait till you try and zip up a fairly tight dress !! Rotating won't help ya'll then :doh: You're going to have to learn to be flexible for women's clothing. On thing that is pretty consistent, is that if there is a side zipper or label etc, it will be on the left side.
sissystephanie
01-21-2011, 06:04 PM
I have to zip in front and rotate because I have a problem with my right arm! And I can't do at all left-handed! For those reasons I don't ever wear back or side zip pants! I also have to skip tight fitting dresses with a back zipper. But I do have some pretty dresses that fit fairly tightly with no zipper!!
joank
01-21-2011, 07:41 PM
I put my skirts on one leg at a time and zip any way it will work. Roatating does cause problems with tucked in blouses but you can go under the skirt to square the blouse away.
Kelly Blaine
01-21-2011, 08:24 PM
zip'n twist
Dresses and skirts weren't made to handle the Herculean efforts a male may exert on the little zipper (unless its a GG requesting assistance). I zip and twist.
Ginger
Tell me. $13 dollars for a new zipper in my favorite skirt.
Rogina B
01-21-2011, 09:14 PM
Back zipper dresses are no problem if they are rigged like some of my wetsuits are...with a lanyard!!lol Otherwise[with skirts]it is zip and then orient in the proper direction..
Rachel Morley
01-21-2011, 10:01 PM
The only negative is that if you are wearing a blouse or other type of top that is tucked inside the skirt, that action pulls it out of place, and you then have to rearrange it and smooth everything down again afterwards.
Exactly ... that's why I always step in with the zipper where it's supposed to go and reach behind and zip it up. Some dresses can be more difficult but if you're flexible enough it's not much of a problem .... except when your wife insists on hooking the the little hook at the top of the zip and then you're trapped! :devil:
Jorja
01-21-2011, 11:09 PM
I used to zip in place. Due to an accident where I broke my shoulder a few years ago, I can no longer just reach around and zip like I used to. Now days its the zip and turn or have someone else help.
Jilmac
01-21-2011, 11:30 PM
For the skirt zipper I usually zip it in place (side or back), and for those pesky back dress zippers I use a shoelace tied to a small key ring. It really comes in handy for a person with arthritis. The only glitch I've found is sometimes I can't remove the key ring from the zipper eye. Alas, what's a poor girl to do?
Leslie Langford
01-22-2011, 01:17 AM
I zip and rotate myself. Awhile back my wife had this wonderful dress that
zipped in back. I made her a zipping tool; a 24" piece if 1/2 " dowel rod
with an open hook screwed into the bottom. She loved it, I think it is
still around here somewhere, don't need it anymore, dresses just don't come
that way anymore. Just not for us.
Sounds like a handy tool, but not exactly something you could easily slip into your purse and take with you into the fitting room when you're out shopping en femme and trying on new dresses :doh:. My fishing line/attached hook solution is more practical in that case. Of course, the best solution of all is when an SA offers to zip you up, which happened to me on one occasion. I was so surprised and ecstatic I could almost hear the angels sing...:eek::heehee::thumbsup:
Pythos
01-22-2011, 03:26 AM
the skirts I have with a zipper are all fairly tight, so zipping at the front and twisting doesn't work. But I have no problem zipping at the back.
When it come to back zip dresses, that cocktail dress I wore was a bear to zip, but I was finally able to get the back to close after much exhaling. LOL
Catsuits are all back zip, and all take some fancy moves to close.
Jane G
01-22-2011, 04:08 AM
It's very much a personnel choice I think. With skirts I used to zip in place, but now I'm a little older and don't wear such tight fitting clothes, I tend to have the zip at the front then spin the skirt into position. With dresses there's not usualy much choice, but to zip up at the back. Easy when your young and flexable, I vaugely recall. Not so easy these days, so I now have a short length of matching colour lace on all of my back zip dresses. Works a treat, but not as much of a treat a having your SO zip you up.
Claire Cook
01-22-2011, 06:57 AM
When putting on a skirt, do you zip it up in front first and then rotate it so that the zipper ends up on the side or in the back the way it's supposed to go? Or do you just zip it up in place, with the zipper remaining where it is actually meant to be? My wife seems to do it the later way, whereas I find that the "zip and rotate" method is more convenient. The only negative is that if you are wearing a blouse or other type of top that is tucked inside the skirt, that action pulls it out of place, and you then have to rearrange it and smooth everything down again afterwards.
Also, who besides me absolutely *hates* back zips on dresses - especially form-fitting ones - where you can't pull them halfway up your back to complete the zipping action overhand because they are too tight at that point? Those types of dresses are really designed in such a way that you need someone else to help you zip up, or else you have to design a makeshift tool (in my case, a length of fishing line attached to an open-ended paper clip) that you can hook onto the zipper tab to complete the operation.
The few back zip skirts I own are on the loose side, so it's easy to zip in front and rotate. I just love back zip dresses for some reason. But this is in part why I shop en femme and try things on with appropriate padding ... just to make sure things aren't too tight. I don't want to "force the issue" with a dress I haven't paid for!
Bra hooks and zippers don't seem to be my problem. But the little hook at the top of the zipper? Yep, it looks just like a bra hook, but I always have a heck of a time getting it together. The skirt material always seems to get in the way.
That's the main reason I "front zip" a rear zip skirt -- I can deal with the hook and eye thingies, or whatever other closures are there.
I just zip in place label always to the back
Same for me too
prom queen
01-24-2011, 01:29 PM
For me it depends on the skirt some I have to zip and twist others I can just zip in place. As for a dress I usually am able to get to at least the middle of my back where I can use a small hook to pull it the rest of the way
Cheryl T
01-24-2011, 07:51 PM
I'm a zip-in-place kid of gal.
The only part that bothers me is that little hook and eye that so many skirts have. They are worse than hooking my bra.
Lynn Marie
01-24-2011, 08:22 PM
I've always been turned on watching women hook their bras behind their back and zip up their skirts behind their backs. To me, it is extraordinarily feminine and sexy. For that reason alone, I learned how to hook and zip things behind my back!
Back zipper dresses are no problem if they are rigged like some of my wetsuits are...with a lanyard!!lol Otherwise[with skirts]it is zip and then orient in the proper direction..
Yes, and the lanyard can be as simple as a loop of thread in a color that matches the garment. Use the thread to pull the zipper shut and then drop the loop inside the garment.
Fiona Lindum
01-25-2011, 03:55 AM
Apart from 2 skirts which I have to zip then twist, on all my other skirts with zips at the back I can manage to zip up behind me. No problem of course with side and front zips.
dominique
01-25-2011, 04:19 AM
I have no problem with zipping up from behind. I have a skirt which zips up from the front.
erickka
01-25-2011, 06:40 AM
I try to zip it where it is supposed to be. A lot of my skirts are fully lined, and a zip and rotate just wads the lining and is a real pain to straighten it out. I also wear a lot of casual tops that look better tucked, and the place and zip makes the shirttails stay where they should be.
DAVIDA
01-25-2011, 07:05 AM
Bursitis in my shoulders really causes trouble with back zippers and hooks.:sad:
That is why I say, "Elastic is our friend"!:D
BevAndrews
01-25-2011, 07:25 AM
Apart from those wonderful elastic waist skirts that enable me to fit my hips first rather than my waist, I zip in place.
I can also usually manage back zips on dresses.
As to getting out of clothes in an emergency, I once managed 2 minutes including makeup when the fire alarm in my hotel went off.
linda allen
01-25-2011, 09:28 AM
For my money, nothing is more complicated than getting into back-zipper pants. Needless to say, you can't rotate them, as you might with a skirt that zipped in the rear. And unlike side-zip slacks, you can't even see the part of the garment in question, which renders it especially difficult to fasten the little hook at the top. On the other hand, once I've struggled to get them in place, back-zipper pants make me feel deliciously trapped in femininity.
Until you have to pee! :heehee:
linda allen
01-25-2011, 09:30 AM
I've always been turned on watching women hook their bras behind their back and zip up their skirts behind their backs. To me, it is extraordinarily feminine and sexy. For that reason alone, I learned how to hook and zip things behind my back!
My wife hooks her bra in front, then turns it. I guess that's why I do it that way. :heehee:
well my joints just do not move as easly or freely as in decades past, so it is zip and twist for me.
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Emma England
01-25-2011, 02:23 PM
It is not difficult to zip a skirt at the back.
If you have trouble doing this, then you are not wearing one enough!
Charise52
01-25-2011, 05:55 PM
I have a sheath dress that zips in back... it is an adventure to zip... side zip slacks and shorts are easy... for skirts, it they have a hook at the top I do them in front and rotate... no hook I just reach behind and zip in normal position
Peta_T
01-25-2011, 06:26 PM
Sounds like a handy tool, but not exactly something you could easily slip into your purse and take with you into the fitting room when you're out shopping en femme and trying on new dresses :doh:. My fishing line/attached hook solution is more practical in that case. Of course, the best solution of all is when an SA offers to zip you up, which happened to me on one occasion. I was so surprised and ecstatic I could almost hear the angels sing...:eek::heehee::thumbsup:
Maybe me need to replace the dowel with one of those extenable metal pointers that they use for presentations and such.
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