Finding Somebody

[Laciegurl]

I've found a boyfriend :battingeyelashes: And I am so excited. I met him on an online dating site and we have been talking for a couple weeks, and really hitting it off. I broke the news to him last night about Lacie and explained to him why and everything. I must have been rambling on trying to explain it to him. He was patient and as always he is a very good listener. Then he stoped me somewhere in my rambles and asked me, "So you want to feel and act like a woman?" And of course I said yes. He admited that it was a shock. When in male mode I'm probably the last person to be expected to be a CD. I was still a nevous wreck cause I really like this guy but I had to be truthful and had my fingers crossed that he would accept me as who I am. And he did whole heartedly too. We talked on into the night last night about this and about that and as we were saying our goodnights he said, "You are truelly one amazing girl Lacie." And bid me sweet dreams, which I had. This morning I awoke to a text message saying goodmorning my sweet princess. I about fell out of bed. I feel like a school girl that just got asked out by the school hunk. I want buy a notebook and write his name all over every page with pretty little hearts floating all around. I'll keep everybody posted on how things go.:daydreaming:

[Lena Teegal]

Lacie that his fantastic heart warming news!!!

[Gina X]

Sounds great from here, keep us posted..............

[Tina B.]

You go girl! Ain't love grand? Lacie, why not get that note book, after all if you could have played the role in high school you would have done it, why miss the chance to have that thrill.
Tina B.

[insearchofme]

good for you, please keep us posted. We all love a sweet love story!

[joannemarie barker]

that's a lovely story :) go girl :)

[Monica Mercury]

I'm so envious! I want a boyfriend like that!

[AllieSF]

Congratulations, maybe your wish has been granted. Good luck and thanks for sharing. Success stories are always wonderful and give others hope.

[suzy1]

This is a lovely thread. Lacie, you must keep us up to date.
If he takes you off into the sunset I will fill up.

Best wishes, SUZY

[Melissa Jill]

Im confused, I thought you had a wife Lacie?

[Laciegurl]

Not any more Melissa I'm happily divorced.

[RADER]

Its Valentine season, It is nice that love is in the air. Rader

[larry]

How nice. Wish you all the best.

[Fab Karen]

That's wonderful. Good luck, and as with ANY relationship discuss things ( like would he be cool with you dressed in the bedroom ).

[Alicia_lynn419]

Wow! Not only are you lovely, but your dreams are coming true! I'm jealous!

[jessica renee]

I wish that I could find someone like that for me. I wouldn't even care if they were male or female even. I'm so happy for you!

[Laciegurl]

I so got to talk to him today. I was so nervous cause a few of his texts to me just wasn't the same, and then he asked if I was free to talk for a minute. He said he wouldn't keep me on the phone long. My heart fell to shoes. I just knew it was gonna be bad. It was bad but not for us. He was having a bad day due to personal family problems. I told him I was so thinking the worst was gonna happen, and he said the world could blow up and that wouldn't get between me and him. I almost cried right there. Thanks everybody for all the sweet posts, and thanks for letting me brag on my new guy. I don't have anybody around me to talk to about these things and it really helps keep my head right about things to talk to y'all. It's still way too early to say he's the one but I feel with him by my side I can open up to the world and pursue my dreams of making my transition. I'd be heart broken if it was to fall apart right now, as I could clearly see today, but he's given me the affirmation that someone can and will love Lacieand all my my many splenders.

[Amanda22]

Lacie, I have my fingers crossed for you that this new relationship will be The One of your life. How exciting!

[Kayla Shadows]

Im glad you met somebody :) I just wasnt sure if he met you as a guy or as Lacie.When you said "break the news" I was just hoping that it wasnt breaking the news that you really werent a woman. Some needed info wasnt there. Just remember though,the only one needed for the pursuit of your dreams is you. You are able to be a independent girl and achieve your dreams as you wish.Nobody makes you,you.Dont forget that.Deep you may dig but everything is inside you

[Kelly Blaine]

Be very very careful. You should have someone that makes you feel like a woman.
I was unlucky and found someone like that and after I read their profile I was sure what they were looking for and it wasn't true love.

I wish the best to you and keep us updated about what is happening because you are a beautiful girl.

[Michelle.M]

This is my favorite kind of thread! We're all waiting to see what happens next . . .

[Melissa Jill]

Not any more Melissa I'm happily divorced.

In that case, congrats!

[christine55]

Lately it has become fairly apparent to me that it would be pretty easy for me if I got up the courage. I go out lots and am getting the courage to go in girl mode to places where
I know GG's who are attracted to me in male mode work.

Hugs, Christine

[Ericka2]

I'm so excited for you sis, I guess we all hope for some day will meet our right partner, you story inspired lots of sisters here, enjoy your moment and I wish you the best.

Love, Ericka

[lisagurl83]

awww that awesome i dont know you but thats truely cool.. you got good man

[cordgrass]

Oh honey, be careful with your heart. It sounds like you've just been talking, you haven't even been intimate yet. I would assume it would be just as difficult for a gay man as a heterosexual woman to be accepting of transitioning. Are you considering SRS?

[Laciegurl]

No we haven't been intamate yet. I don't want to rush into that part of things. I took a bold move and made me a profile on a dating site. I talked to many of the boys on there but this guy is the only one that held my attention. I told him about Lacie after we have been talking for a couple of weeks and I think it made him more interested. I'm trying to guard my heart but I'm afraid I am falling for him. As far as me and my divorce the love has been gone with her for a long time. That's why I haven't been on the forum here in almost a year or so. He is honest when it comes to me being Lacie and he said he'd be all for me transitioning if I kept one part :) I'll quote him, "After all I am gay." He has had a friend of his that has been in transition for some time now. Even though she hasn't had the reassignment surgery yet she is all woman now. He's told me of what she has been through and some of the things I should expect. I gotta run off and go back to work so I'll talk to y'all gals later.

[cordgrass]

Men will say anything to get into your panties. Don't start picking out the wedding china until you've been with him on an intimate basis for at least couple months. I'm just saying. Call me cynical! :)

[joannemarie barker]

I totally agree with cordgrass Hun be careful.the guy I wanted got what he wanted then dumped on me :(

[CaitlynRenee]

Lacie, you're a lovely girl. We care about you and want the best for you. Just remember, if it's real, it will be real through thick and thin and he will love you (AND treat you right) no matter what AND, he will wait as long as need be for you.

Goodluck, guard your heart, be happy, be safe.

[Laciegurl]

I'm making him wait for sure :) I'm going to see him on the 5th of Feb. I booked the hotel and told him that him being a gentleman will bring me back around. I know men try to sweet talkers ( I am one remember ) but he has never brought up sex or anything derogatory like that. I so hope he is a gentleman. Maybe he will even open doors for me :) And I'm not afraid to fight at the drop of a hat so unless he wants beat up by a girl he better be on his best behavior :) Which I truelly think he will. Love all the support here and I do hope everything goes great. Thanks y'all :)

[Maria in heels]

I truly hope that everything works out for you..i have been following your journey, and I can't wait to see what happens on your "date" on Feb 5th !

[IamSara]

I am so happy for you Lacie!! I know about how hard it is to tell your BF about Lacie. I had the same issue with the guy I have been seeing. He is understanding and is excited to meet Sarah and I can't wait for it. Good luck and keep us posted.
Sarah

[MonicaTC]

I sure hope everything goes great for you Lacie, sounds like a great guy. Does he know of any others like him, send him my way, lol (My SO says I really need a boyfriend, I agree lol). Good luck, hoping to read only good things.

Monica