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KrystalA
01-23-2011, 06:05 AM
Yesterday was the day my SO and I had agreed upon for me to dress en femme for the first time in front of her. So after she'd been here a while, I told her I'd be back in a few minutes, and I went in my bedroom and dressed in a mini skirt (which she had requested), a cute ruched top, wig, and white open toed shoes. I said "Ready?" She said "Yep, let's see you". I came into the living room and heard her gasp and whisper "Oh...My...God". Well, I thought this wasn't going well, and then she motioned for me to turn in a circle. When i looked at her again, she had this big smile on her face and she said "You look ADORABLE! You are SO cute!" I said "So you're ok with this?" She came to me and kissed me and said "Oh, we are going to have so much fun with this". So, this afternoon, we're going shopping because she wants to buy some clothes for me. I was hoping she'd accept my CDing, but I never dreamed she'd be as excited about it as she is. We sat and talked about it for hours, and she's as happy about me coming out as I am.
Needless to say, yesterday was one of the very best days of my life. :battingeyelashes: :battingeyelashes:

Cynthia Anne
01-23-2011, 06:41 AM
WOW!! Its vary seldom that I'm lost for words! All I can think of is wow! You are one lucky girl! WOW!

Shari
01-23-2011, 07:09 AM
I can identify with your excitement Krystal.
What's better than finally being able to dress in front of your wife and you get a reaction like you did?
For me it was "Wow!
Come on, turn around.
Wow!"
I thought I'd died and gone to heaven.
Run with it, embrace it, enjoy it.

Mistybtm
01-23-2011, 07:17 AM
Wow I am very happy for you both .

Yvonne York
01-23-2011, 07:27 AM
Absolutely wonderful. Enjoy all the closeness a supportive other half can bring.

sissystephanie
01-23-2011, 07:28 AM
Krystal, that is the kind of response you really want from your S.O.!! I am another one who is very happy for you!! Hope everything goes well on your shopping trip!!

Claire Cook
01-23-2011, 07:32 AM
This is so great -- sounds like you are both very lucky. Enjoy it all!

Danielle Gee
01-23-2011, 07:54 AM
Wow Krystal: Thats wonderful. I remember the first time I appeard "en Femme" in front of my Sweetie, I was sooooooooo scared. It worked out much the same as yours did! So I share yor excitement and wish you all the best.

Danielle

Terricd48
01-23-2011, 07:59 AM
Congrads to the both of you.Know how you feel as the same happened to me.
She even got me to go out dressed fem for my first time.No turning back now.

Terri

Rianna Humble
01-23-2011, 08:09 AM
What a wonderful person your SO is! Will she be helping you with your make-up and so on when you go out together?

What creative ways have you found to show your appreciation?

Noel Chimes
01-23-2011, 08:34 AM
When we are accepted by our peers it is exhilrating feeling.:c9: But when we are accepted by our loved ones it becomes uncontrolled excitement.:jumping: Congradulations Krystal on your new found freedom. Live it love it enjoy it!!!!!!:yahoo:

kaitlin
01-23-2011, 08:49 AM
I am so happy for you, I know you feel like the weight of the world just got lifted off you shoulders! Now you and your SO can open a new page in your lives together!

Tina B.
01-23-2011, 08:58 AM
Wow is right! Great weekend. The best thing I ever did was to tell my wife, life got so much better after that! Congratulations, and have fun both of you.
Tina B.

PretzelGirl
01-23-2011, 10:13 AM
That's awesome Krystal! Enjoy the shopping trip (and give her a hug from all of us).

TGMarla
01-23-2011, 10:24 AM
Good for you! I'm very happy for you.

patti.jean
01-23-2011, 11:13 AM
Kaystal, Thanks for sharing, it is heartwarming to hear your story. Having an accepting partner has been a life changing event for me. I wish you both the very best.

Lucy_Bella
01-23-2011, 11:25 AM
Congrats Kystala,
Hope it stays as new a it was today for both of you.. Remember a few things now that you have opened that door..Try and NOT let the dressing consume you, control the desires and keep it a partnered ordeal ( not to take any wind out of your sail) .. But most of all have fun and go with it.. I just would hate to see another story to where you fall into a "Pink Fog" and over whelm your S.O. have fun shopping make sure you pick a few things out for her as well!!

Jay Cee
01-23-2011, 12:07 PM
I am very happy for you, Krystal. I know how much it means to have a SO who helps and participates with CD'ing - my gf has helped me so much.

It is one of my wishes that every crossdresser could have an understanding and accepting spouse and/or family.

Holly
01-23-2011, 12:23 PM
Add me to the list of those happy for you :). One word of admonition.... beware of the pink fog.

KristaE
01-23-2011, 12:29 PM
Thank you for that joyous update. Congratulations... I'm wondering what kind of "fun" your SO was thinking of. It would be interesting to hear what has been going through her mind throughout all this.

MiamiMarie
01-23-2011, 01:16 PM
That's so awesome!!! Congratulations!!!

patti1569
01-23-2011, 01:24 PM
Congratulations Krystal!!!! I'm sure you are very excited. I'm happy for you. Have fun and make sure you let her know how special she is to you. xx Patti.

randumbness
01-23-2011, 01:26 PM
I am VERY jealous that you found acceptance, but I'm really happy for you! I assume those shopping trips are going to be tons of fun. ;)

Marcia Blue
01-23-2011, 01:34 PM
Kyrstal, I am so happy for you and your GF. Doing things together is fantastic fun.

Raychel
01-23-2011, 02:12 PM
That sounds like a pretty awesome day Krystal.
The type of day that I only dream will happen someday.

Christy_M
01-23-2011, 02:36 PM
That is fantastic. I am so happy for you. I wish you both the best.

Jodygurl
01-23-2011, 03:39 PM
Gosh, that must give you a feeling a peace and joy at being loved that unconditionally. You must have picked a wonderful woman. Bless you both and enjoy.

Amanda22
01-23-2011, 05:48 PM
Isn't is the most wonderful thing imaginable? Not only does your SO tolerate who you really are, but encourages you to blossom and not hide. I believe your SO must truly love you. Where you are right now is exactly how it ought to be, and you do deserve it. Congratulations!

Lena Teegal
01-23-2011, 05:50 PM
I'm so happy for you!!!!

larry
01-23-2011, 06:17 PM
wow second post in 5 minutes where someone is accepted and Happy. Just reading makes me happy. Congratulations and best wishes.

Fab Karen
01-23-2011, 06:30 PM
Once you get a taste of getting your own clothes, you'll have the shopping bug. :)

Jilmac
01-23-2011, 06:53 PM
That's great Krystal, your SO sounds like a real keeper. Have fun with your new found fortune.

Eryn
01-23-2011, 07:09 PM
have fun shopping make sure you pick a few things out for her as well!!

This is the best piece of advice in the thread! I'll go a bit beyond it to say that your SO has given you the gift that just about everybody here puts at the top of their wishlist. Be sure that you do something extra special for her!

Tanya C
01-23-2011, 09:25 PM
I'm very happy for you Krystal because you are going to find that your cding will radically change for the better. I'm not just talking about shopping trips and dressing sessions, but the fact that your marriage will probably benefit greatly. For one thing you have the wonderful comfort of not having to face a TG life alone. The woman you love who is your life's partner is now a part of it.
You are truely blessed.

Nancie64
01-23-2011, 09:55 PM
Sounds exciting and that's great. Makes life a little easier when your mate accepts you for what you are. Always respect her wishes and the boundaries she might establish. Hugs to all.

Cassandra Lynn
01-23-2011, 09:55 PM
How very very wonderful Krystal, and once again i have hope. It is posts like yours that keeps me from giving up hope, Thank you.
Enjoy it and make sure she never ever has a reason to change her mind.

Cassie

Dahlia007
01-23-2011, 10:42 PM
Congrats!!=)

Kate17
01-23-2011, 11:16 PM
That is great ! Be sure to tell her you lover her everyday. PS - she has made a lot of girls envious of you.

JustineFallow
01-23-2011, 11:24 PM
I'm applauding BOTH of you!

CaitlynRenee
01-23-2011, 11:35 PM
Not just an awesome day for you Krystal, but an awesome girl as well............er........uh.......TWO girls. Lovely.

alice clair
01-24-2011, 07:54 AM
Like they say {the truth will set you free}. I am so happy for you, and you look really good too.

linda allen
01-24-2011, 08:32 AM
That's really great. I'm jealous.

kimdl93
01-24-2011, 09:41 AM
That is wonderful. You have a great SO (as do I). She's right - you two are going to have so much fun by sharing this aspect of life. Too bad more women can't learn how much fun it can be to have a special girlfriend!

JulieC
01-24-2011, 01:05 PM
You had better treat her to some very nice surprises over the next few days! She deserves it!

xxprincess_tiffyxx
01-24-2011, 09:45 PM
Congratulations to both of you that's totally awesome. I hope the two of you have as much fun as me and my GF :)