DebsUK
02-14-2011, 09:35 AM
I've been starting to try and push the boundaries of how androgynous I can appear in everyday life with a longer, softer hairstyle and subtle makeup (or more like "invisible really"). This morning I had a meeting with a girl I'm acting as mentor at a local high school. While I was waiting for her to go into a classroom to tell her tutor she was away for the next hour there were a lot of other kids milling around I heard one boy say about me "Is that a boy or a girl?" Now, while I am short and slight and wear "unisex" (I hate that term) glasses, today I had no makeup on and my hair isn't what I'd call feminine or overtly androgynous yet. This teenage boy may just have been being an obnoxious teenage boy, but I must be doing something that's working :)This has happened to me a couple of times in maybe 20 years, but the very first time it's the response I am actually looking for. Wonder how it will start to go down elsewhere when I get pierced ears and have a little enhancing makeup (though this isn't an environment I think it's appropriate to really push the envelope because I'm there as a role model and not to make some point about gender).