Trying to come back out of the closet.

[emilyrose]

I have in the past attempted to come out of the closet, as a full term transgender woman. Went through the counseling, got within 2 wks from getting my letter. But because of closed minded employers, was forced back into the closet, so i can make a living. The concept of living two different lives, as two different personalitys is problematic at best

[AnnaCalliope]

I've heard of a number of girls going up to 4 years into transition without telling their employers, still presenting as male at work and no one being the wiser. I actually have a pre-op friend here in Georgia who's been on HRT for almost 2 years and because she stills dresses as a guy at work, a few people think she's just a gay male. Its definitely possible to start transition and be female every bit of time except while at work, but like actual transition will require a certain level of effort and sacrifice.