Are We Real Women???

[chantelle]

'"YOU ARE WHAT YOU BELIEVE YOU ARE" is the saying that
leads me to asking the following to you all.Are we not real women that
gort wired wrongly at birth.What if we are truly females that need to cross o
over to the other side[sexchange}.Think of live as having steps for
us few dressers.First we are males then we become crossdressers,dressing
full time as women,some become ******** and then the sexchange.[The one thing that
i wish to do in the future.] We live in a real world were we constantly have to make
compromises to live happily.Some of you have to admit that we love dressing more
than anything else in the world.We feel relaxed and ourselves.Even some of you
has erections because of it.Why do we feel it is wrong???Could it be that
the wrongness we feel is the fact that we have male bodies and not female
bodies.Think back on how others made you feel when you dressed up.
Some brilliant person once said that everything is connected and that everything
is simple not complicated.Some of you would instantly change genders[crossing
over] if given the choice.Go and see thread 'red pill or blue pill'.
Before you all stone me to death with emails, i ask only that you think on
what i said and then post replies.We think that we are pretending
to be women.Could it be that we aren't pretending???????????

[Jennifer_Ph]

Well it's an interesting question. But I am sure I am a man. I like being a man. I don't wish I was a girl. What I wish is that men could wear what women wear as women wear what men wear. Men have no clothing choices. Women have them all. Women can make an outfit fun just by adding some shoes. Women can accent a facial feature with makeup. They can style their hair. They can wear a short skirt, long skirt, shorts, pants, capri's... anything that suits their mood. Colorful, or powerful. I don't wish I was a woman - I wish I was simply their equal. Because today I would have worn a short dress and some strappy heels to work and I'd be the happiest person here! Just my humble opinion is all. I can't wait for the day that there is fashion equality!

[nuffsaid]

I love the dual Identity role to switch back and forth. If I were genetically female I know that I wouldn't appreciate it much. Being male is a lot better. You get a better perspective on the other side.

[just_lookin4u2]

Coming from my view as a male who is very attracted to crossdressers, I have always treated my CD friends as the lady I perceive them as. When we are together, they are a complete woman in my eyes and they have my complete respect and attention. The girls I have been with have all responded to my complete acceptance as to who they are. I could never treat them as anything else in my mind and theirs, they are the woman and I love them as they are.

[barbarajeanne]

My love and appreciation of women comes from a male perspective. I have no desire to crossover--inspite of occasional fantasies! I love dressing as a woman--the feel of panties, slips and bras is astonishing; the way a long silk skirt touches my legs when the wind blows;applying lip gloss or mascara at a stoplight; sharing a moment with another girl in a way that men rarely do; noticing the details of a womans face when her make-up has been applied with great care. These make me appreciate and worship women in a way that I never did and I hope to continue this forray into my feminine side, but it will always be a joyous duality--at least for me.

[Amelie]

This is a good question Chantelle, now to try to answer it. For me it's the woman trapped in a man's body dilema. It doesn't matter if I am dressed fem or male I feel the same inside, a female. Dressing does help, in that this is what I want others to see. Even if I am wearing jeans, T-shirt and sneakers, inside I still feel fem. Inside of me, I can not change back and forth. My outer appearance can change from fem to male. Just as a GG's outer appearance can change, inside she is still a fem. There are many different girls here, but this is the way I feel.

Love Amelie

[carolynhcd]

I want to be both and neither, which is to say, something more. Men and women lose power when they limit themselves to just one gender, one orientation. We have to get ourselves back to the garden. I'll bet not many of you know that Adam had a first wife, named Lilith (yes, the same as the Lilith Fair was named for). He tried to dominate her (sexually), though she was in everyway his equal, made of the selfsame clay. She rebelled and left him. He slumped disconsolately against a tree and fell asleep. As he slept, God drew out one of his ribs and fashioned Eve from it: a more obedient and submissive wife. Eve is the product of Adam's dream, a dream girl, a Barbie (serious apologies to all Barbies out there- I wish I looked like Barbie, except life size!). There is a much greater acceptance by society for two women to kiss or make love (it's in every hetero porn movie ever made) but most are still shocked to see two men kissing or a feminized man with anyone. But really, how is any of it different than anything else? Like the Preacher says in The Grapes of Wrath, "Maybe there ain't no right or wrong. Maybe there's just what folks does." Anyone have any thoughts on this? Love, Carolyn