I got hit on

[Michelle James]

My SO and I were at a function the other night as yet another girls night. I always wear a ladies wedding ring when dressed. (which is lately 24/7) Anyway my SO gets up to use the ladies and this guy plops down in her chair and starts chatting me up. "Are you here alone" "Oh I see you are wearing a ring, where's your husband?" That kind of thing. I told him I was married and he said "so am I, does that matter?".

As you can tell from my avatar I'm not attractive so I am confused about this and at the same time a little flattered. I never ever thought that would happen to me. I'm just happy being accepted for the fat girl I present as. And yes my SO can not stop laughing about it.

[Michelle03]

That is great! That must make you feel wonderful. I know it would me.

[Cynthia Anne]

That is so cute! And I thing you are a very pretty lady! Hugs!

[AllieSF]

Enjoy the attention and make sure to shoo them away before the wife returns, and then share the story with her for some good laughs. I would assume that the man was not looking for friendship.

[kristinacd55]

Yea Michelle, I wouldn't read too much into it....enjoy it! Nothing like self esteem day! :)

[msginaadoll]

Well seeing you in person I can understand him seeing you as female.Also fat is so 2010! The politically correct term is fluffy!

[Michelle James]

Well Gina, Fluffy wants to know when are we going to do lunch again? LOL

[RADER]

Did you tell him that your husband was a wrestler? How did you get rid of him?
A real cute story.
Rader

[JenniferForFun]

That's great and only something I could dream of.
And I never date "skinny girls". I like big girls for so many reasons. Ribs are for BBQ's not bikinis!

[Michelle James]

Did you tell him that your husband was a wrestler? How did you get rid of him?
A real cute story.
Rader

My wife came out of the ladies and saw what was happening from across the room. I was mouthing the words "help me" so of course she just stood there and laughed. No help whatsoever! Finally I just got up and excused myself and went and hid in the ladies room. When I came out he was gone and my wife was still laughing her ass off.

[JenniferR771]

Its a problem in our state--snow--we can't jog in the winter. You should be flattered.

[Maria 60]

What do you mean your not attractive, your beautiful.

[Billie Jean]

My SO and I were at a function the other night as yet another girls night. I always wear a ladies wedding ring when dressed. (which is lately 24/7) Anyway my SO gets up to use the ladies and this guy plops down in her chair and starts chatting me up. "Are you here alone" "Oh I see you are wearing a ring, where's your husband?" That kind of thing. I told him I was married and he said "so am I, does that matter?".

As you can tell from my avatar I'm not attractive so I am confused about this and at the same time a little flattered. I never ever thought that would happen to me. I'm just happy being accepted for the fat girl I present as. And yes my SO can not stop laughing about it.Iknow lots of full figure GG's who are pretty and yes I've hit on some of them. You look great to me. If all women were shaped the same then there would be no variety. Billie Jean

[Paula Siemen]

It happened to me too!
I was wearing a red and black dress. The top part of the dress was red with a "V" cut neckline both front and back and a bit low in the front; so low the middle of my red bra was showing. The bottom skirt part of the dress was black with I guess you'd call them horizontal pleats for lack of better description and hit my thigh in about the middle. I had on red patten open-toed, sling-back 4" pumps.
I was walking out of the grocery store after having done a little shopping. The day was a very pleasant spring day just after noon. The sun was shinning, the temp was warm, but not hot, there was just a slight breeze. As I was pushing my cart to my car to unload, I was feeling ever so comfortable and confident in my femeninity, just walking and being very concious of how every move felt and the breeze on my legs. Oh... I felt so good.

Just then, while still walking to my car in the parking lot, an old battered pickup with a couple of old codgers pulled up from behind me and stopped. With the window down, the driver, a rather seedy looking unshaven 60-sh guy called me over to the truck like he needed some directions. He went on, " Excuse me.........How long has it been since you were told you were a .........". I rolled my eyes and turned, walking away towards my car without hearing the rest of the remark and if there was a "proposition" in store. I quickly got to my car and unloaded my sacks as the pickup circled around and drove past my car, thouoghly expecting a more aggressive encounter. Luckily they drove past without any further action or comment.
I've handled stares and hard looks as well as "cat calls" etc. without any difficulties, but this encounter, in broad daylight, in a busy parking lot, at a place where I've frequented enfemme numerous times, did frighten me somewhat. I guess I handled the situation well as it was over as fast as it started, but it did get me to considering my safety and surroundings once again.

Be careful girls, you just never know.

[Tina B.]

Michelle, never heard of chubby chasers? Funny how a wife gets into a situation and expects hubby to come running like the white knight, but when a guy in a dress needs a little help, all she gets is laughed at! Very funny Michelle, and you told it well.
Tina B.

[Debglam]

Michelle - You ought to write a book!

[christinac]

Ribs are for BBQ's not bikinis!

LOL! That is too good!

Michelle, everyone is beautiful in thier own way. I always try to judge by attitude because the most attractive person in the world can suddenly become so ugly when they open thier mouth that they should be made to wear a warning label.

[AnnaCalliope]

I went for a walk with a friend of mine up to the corner store about a week ago. I wore a very casual outfit, tight jeans, knee high flat boots and a pink tee. While she went inside to grab a snack, I stayed outside and smoked my cigarette. After a couple minutes a young mid-30s African American guy came up and said, "Hey sexy, what you up to tonight?" While I am very passable in appearance, I've had a bit of trouble with the voice. So I looked right him, raised an eyebrow and said in my obviously guy voice, "Depends on your level of kink." He blinked and replied, "Damn, you look for real", then shook his head with a stupid grin and walked away.

[linda allen]

I went for a walk with a friend of mine up to the corner store about a week ago. I wore a very casual outfit, tight jeans, knee high flat boots and a pink tee. While she went inside to grab a snack, I stayed outside and smoked my cigarette. After a couple minutes a young mid-30s African American guy came up and said, "Hey sexy, what you up to tonight?" While I am very passable in appearance, I've had a bit of trouble with the voice. So I looked right him, raised an eyebrow and said in my obviously guy voice, "Depends on your level of kink." He blinked and replied, "Damn, you look for real", then shook his head with a stupid grin and walked away.

Now that's a good one!

[Byron]

Wow! Exciting. :D


Its a problem in our state--snow--we can't jog in the winter. You should be flattered.

Yeah, there's not much to do here for about five months but snuggle in front of the Television, or shovel the drive way. ;)

[Kim_Bitzflick]

Michelle,

Pretty is on the inside, not the outside. Obviously you project the pretty part of you to others. It is flattering, I know because I've been there. When it happened to me my SO just said, "You're a big girl. I know you can handle it."

[RADER]

My wife came out of the ladies and saw what was happening from across the room. I was mouthing the words "help me" so of course she just stood there and laughed. No help whatsoever! Finally I just got up and excused myself and went and hid in the ladies room. When I came out he was gone and my wife was still laughing her ass off.

Tell your wife that you would charge for the entertainment, but this time it was on you.
But next time she brings the pop-corn. LOL
Rader

[Suzette Muguet de Mai]

Michelle, you have made my day.

[Loveday]

Michelle, Christinac has it right when she said "everyone is beautiful in thier own way." You have to remember - Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

[Michelle James]

Michelle, Christinac has it right when she said "everyone is beautiful in thier own way." You have to remember - Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

I would rathe he no behold'n anything of mine. LOL

[victoriamwilliams1]

Very nice:) I have been hit on by gas station attendants and they ask about my "husband" as well!

Also you look great!!

[veronica79]

Wow! I can only wish I'd have the courage to go out dressed up, let alone stand there and reply with a comment like that! For a gal, you've got big cajones! LOL. ;)

[CareBearGG]

LoL! Oh man, these posts have me cracking up. I'm sure it can be a rather tense and unnerving situation, but the way you told it, and the response, I think I actually snorted while I was laughing. (That and I also have a vivid imagination so I could picture it clearly in my head) I hope you two continue to go out together and have loads of fun!! *hugs*