The good feeling, when everything is coming into place !!! How is your G-spot???

[Sejd]

I just had a wonderful evening at the local pub with a girlfriend of mine. She's single, looking for a guy, but we connect and had great talks. We went to our local Micro Brew house restaurant and enjoyed ourselves. The Waitress was so kind and accepting of me. You all know what's going through my mind. Am I passable or is it obvious that I'm different?? I did not get that feeling at all and we had such a good time. I thought she was HOT, and somehow, I think she thought the same about me :0) I think that's what we all really want to feel. Acceptance and love.
Sejd

[Marissa]

How nice and glad you had a great time..but not sure, are you hoping for something to click to be more or ? I ask this since you said she was looking for a guy, etc.. But you did have a night that most hope for..even me :) thanks for sharing.

[morgan51]

Good on you both we all deserve some happiness glad it was a pleasurable time for all. Acceptance and love can be fleeting most of the time, be happy enjoy. I hope she enjoyed the time as well. Good friends can make all the difference. Most all the acceptance I've found has been from close friends. Love has a way of eluding.

[Stephenie S]

Sejd dear, aren't you married?

Stephie

[Melody Moore]

Sejd dear, aren't you married?
That's what I was wondering about as well.

Sejd, are you now telling us you fee more acceptance and love from another woman who isn't your wife?

Does you wife know about this yet and what are you planning to do about it?

[Sejd]

Melody, this has nothing to do with my wife :0) and no you got this totally backwards. This was about sitting in a pub having a good time. Not bitching about my life or others lives or cheating on my wife or feeling this bad or that bad. I am surprised you have such negative thoughts always. What's up with that???

[Melody Moore]

Sejd, I don't think I was being negative at all, I was just enquiring because it certainly sounds
like there is a little more interest here with this lady than just being friends after you said...


I thought she was HOT, and somehow, I think she thought the same about me :0)

Stephanie S is also asking the same question as I am because we know that you are married.

[Cynthia Anne]

I think what you said was great and so true! I'm happy for you! Hugs!

[Sejd]

Stephenie. It's news to me that you cannot think another woman in this case a waitress, is HOT without filing for divorce. And it's news to me that one cannot go for a beer with a girlfriend without committing adultery. It's also weird that one cannot share a good moment on this forum without the risk of being cross examined or other girls worrying about the solidity of my marriage. If the case was that I had marital problems, this would be the last place I would seek guidance. But, yeah, this is not the first time I have experienced this on the Forum. A lot of TS wants to read much more into a post than what's really in it.

[Marissa]

Hmmm as much as its fine that you start a thread about having a great time with a friend, notice that I had a question too about it being more..and I did it without knowing you were married..so what does that mean? it means that your choice of words made it 'appear' as if more was going on. And I wasnt sure who was 'hot', the waitress or your friend. Its fine to grab a drink with a gf, its fine that you think the waitress (or your friend) is hot. So no, divorce court is not the next stop. But do realize that as you share parts of your life here in any manner, you will be judged by another. I know it sucks but that is life. Can't blame anyone to think something is going on when you are out with a friend of the opposite sex and its not your wife..and you express so much joy, etc. Your words sort of started it "she is single and looking for a guy"..is that guy you???? well now that I have the rest of the picture..no.. but that was my first thought, only I didn't know you were married..

Anyway.. sorry your moment of sharing has turned.

[CharleneT]

Experiences like that truly can help build confidence - which is of course the most important part ! Congrats on a fun night ;)

[Sejd]

Hi Marissa
I can see that the story could be misunderstood the way I wrote it. To set your mind at ease. I love my wife and we have a fine marriage and total trust in each other, and my girlfriend is a friend of the family. The remark about the waitress was meant as something you say in a bar - that is among yourself and not to the waitress of course. Anyway, that's a lot of explanation for a silly post which clearly rattled some peoples feathers, Sorry about that :0)

[Alicia Ryanne]

Sejd.....I myself have had a similar nice day out with GG friend not too long ago. We both looked hot and told eachother that...but purely as friends. And yes, I can surely admire another woman for her beauty besides my wife, but Im more looking at how she's dressed, how she does her makeup, etc. Still...I can see women in an attractive light, but has no bearing on my marriage. GG women check out guys all the time and gossip about that with their BFF's, doesnt mean they are the least bit unhappy in their marriage.
There are just some on these forums that jump to conclusion about a lot of things very quickly and assume things they have no business even asking about.