Son A Crossdresser Too?

[Joni Thomas]

I have been a lifelong CD. I know over my life time my son has known I CD. He was very much a "Snoop" But I wonder if he has the "CD Gene" like me! I know he has shaved his chest in the past. I just was curious if anyone else has had such thoughts?

[obsessedwithpantyhose]

my dad wasnt a cd but i did have an uncle who did,,i didnt know him very well and who had died while i was younger than 12,,i seen pics,, my own son is 11 and i dont think he is gona be a cd,, as he dont like when daddy dresses fully but is ok with me wearing pantyhose all the time

[Tiffy]

My son does not live with me. And thoes he lives with no nothing of me being a CD. I do worry about him. He has many of my traits already. Which at 5 is scary as hell. But, my mother in law lives right down the road and sees him all the time. So I told her that should the need arise or should he be caught with female clothing to please enlighten his family. Since she knows I believe that she will keep a close eye on my boy. Which is hard for me since I am 800 miles away. I have a daughter as well, atleast she is already a girl. But, I do wonder about them both very often. I do wonder if it can be passed on. Does anyone really know? He already prefers barbie to other things. And I mean the boy has a temper.............playstation gets unpluged and controls get thrown if you beat him. His half sister won a trophy for little league and he got nothing and threw a fit for three days. We shall see what happens.

Kisses, April

[DonnaT]

I've only heard of one confirmed instance of father and son being CDs. If it's inherited, maybe it usually skips a few generations?

[uknowhoo]

Well, I never asked my dad, but I would say I'm about 99.98% he doesn't CD (we can't know for sure without asking, can we).

My son, however, is a different topic. He's only 5. I know youngsters do have a natural curiousity about such things, but it's quite evident that he has a keen interest in all (or most) things fem. Btw, he doesn't know about my dressing, of this I'm sure.

Hmmm, I wonder if fifteen years from now he'll start a post with... "well, I never asked my dad, but I would say I'm about 99..... :D

[Kimberly]

lol.

I'm pretty sure my Dad doesn't CD. And I'd say that shaving his chest isn't a sure-fire way of telling if your son does. Most men shave their chests if they want now-adays.

It's when they shave their legs you've got to watch out!

xx

[Denise01]

My Dad has been gone for a quite a few years now, but I am positive he was never a CD'er and never even entered his mind
I had the desire since my early teens, but it is only in the past 10 years or so it has realy came to be, but I am still in the closet. I dress only at home, and when I am away either on vaction or at a support group meeting


Denise

[Clare]

Well, my son is only three and half years old, so i think it will be a long time before any XDR indicators show!

But I do worry about whether he will become a transgenderist as a he grows up. I know how XDR'ing has affected me as a person in the past and i hope he doesn't have to go through the same emotional turmoil i have for the last thirty years!

He is living with his Mum after they left me, so he'll grow up with just his mum and no Father influence. Maybe that will bring on a curiosity of female clothing?

I don't believe that there is a gentic relationship to family males crossdressing. More likely it is a random aspect of foetal development in the womb.

Christine

[Delila]

from everything I have read CDing does not appear to be genetic. even if you think that your son does not know it is pretty difficult to be certain, unless you have never dressed or had clothing in the same house as him. on that note i would say that if he has ever found out anything that he may be trying to be like dad as boys tend to do. my biggest ? would be if your son is a crossdresser would you support him or try to make him stop?

[MarinaTwelve200]

I dont think there is a genetic factor. I fully beleive that MOST boys, (perhaps 90% even) especially around adolescense, when they begin to be attracted to women have a genuine curiosity concerning either "what would they look like if they had been born a girl" and /or "what does it feel like?"

---Because of the sexuality factor kicking in at this time, the urge to answer these questions may be especially strong. And nearly every boy has been dressed up to some degree (especially around this age) like a girl for halloween or a school play or skit) at least once by then.

I also beleive that the one or two times that most boys do this is usually enough to satisfy the curiosity, and they move on to other things.
The ones that continue to CD (assuming no homo or TS factors are involved) seem to be the ones who are frustrated in achieving the degree of dressing they desire to satisfy their curiosity,( and the goal becomes an obsession) or have found that the CD evokes great unexpected feelings of "release" or sexual excitement. ---Enough so as to induce a habbit or addiction to the act.
But I think its more a matter of the psychological/stress makeup of the individual boy and his life experiences rather than family genetics that make the CD experience so attractive to him---

[Helen MC]

My father certainly is not a CD in any way, indeed even as a very old man he won't wear men's briefs, even Y-Fronts as he considers them a bit "Girly" and "cissy" and still wears those abominable and revolting white undershorts with the vertical peeing slot YEUCH! He has absolutely no idea that I wear women's knickers and have done so for the last 40 years and when I visit him it amuses me to think that under my "drab" very plain and business like suits or functional blue jeans etc I have on pretty panties.

He was and is your typical ordinary bloke, used to go to football etc , sexually unsophisticated , (I had to explain what "Cunnilingus" meant to him when he read the word in a book and he was shocked!). He was NOT however the Butch Macho Ogre Father that many TVs and CDs encounter in their teens and didn't force me to go to football etc with him as he knew I was the more intellectual and bookish type. I do feel that had I ever been caught wearing a pair of my sister's knickers (far less dressed up in her clothes which I only did when I was safely alone at home) he would have gone ballistic but I was ultra cautious not to get caught and always put a few of pairs of Y Fronts in laundry basket every week to allay suspicions. I was never caught but did have a couple of close shaves.

I had a cousin who wore girls knickers. He had a defect in his penis called Hypospadias which meant that the urethra came out at the base of his penis not in the middle of the glans so he sat to pee like a girl, (as I have done myself since I started to wear knickers).