Duana
04-02-2011, 03:18 PM
Until last week, I never owned a dress or a pair of tight low-rise jeans. I'd never walked in sexy red 5" pumps. I'd never been dressed in public, never mind a bar. And in this week, I've had some incredible "aha!" moments.
Here they are:
I finally get why women love shoes. Opening my first order, I was dying with excitement and couldn't wait to try them on. And I've already ordered a pair of 3" black satin mules for my upcoming trip to Cancun. Yesterday at the mall, I found myself window shopping every shoe store we passed. :)
I finally get why women take so long to get ready. Looking sexy and beautiful is a lot of work.
I get why women preen in the mirror a lot. I not only enjoy looking at myself but I want to make sure my makeup and hair still look nice. In the bar, we even went to the ladies room together. I didn't need to pee, just wanted to check myself out.
Walking in 5" heels without looking like an uncoordinated fool on a tightrope, is not easy... And it hurts my feet like hell. But with help from my GF on technique and a lot of late night walks around my apartment complex in them, I'm getting pretty good at it and my feet are getting used to it. Going down stairs is scary. Unlevel ground sucks.
I discovered how it feels to be "hit on" LOL! Honestly, I didn't like it and neither did my girlfriend but it gave me some insight into what its like to be a girl in a bar. And it made me realize a lot of the jealousy I've had as a man when my GF goes out, was completely unwarranted. Now I need to learn how to tactfully but clearly handle those situations.
I think this is making me a better, more understanding man. That's about all for now but I'm sure there will be many more.
PS: I'm sure this is all old news to most of you but just wanted to share.
Here they are:
I finally get why women love shoes. Opening my first order, I was dying with excitement and couldn't wait to try them on. And I've already ordered a pair of 3" black satin mules for my upcoming trip to Cancun. Yesterday at the mall, I found myself window shopping every shoe store we passed. :)
I finally get why women take so long to get ready. Looking sexy and beautiful is a lot of work.
I get why women preen in the mirror a lot. I not only enjoy looking at myself but I want to make sure my makeup and hair still look nice. In the bar, we even went to the ladies room together. I didn't need to pee, just wanted to check myself out.
Walking in 5" heels without looking like an uncoordinated fool on a tightrope, is not easy... And it hurts my feet like hell. But with help from my GF on technique and a lot of late night walks around my apartment complex in them, I'm getting pretty good at it and my feet are getting used to it. Going down stairs is scary. Unlevel ground sucks.
I discovered how it feels to be "hit on" LOL! Honestly, I didn't like it and neither did my girlfriend but it gave me some insight into what its like to be a girl in a bar. And it made me realize a lot of the jealousy I've had as a man when my GF goes out, was completely unwarranted. Now I need to learn how to tactfully but clearly handle those situations.
I think this is making me a better, more understanding man. That's about all for now but I'm sure there will be many more.
PS: I'm sure this is all old news to most of you but just wanted to share.