hello i have no idea where to start

[melissa_lorren]

if any one could help me please point me in the right derection i would be forever greatful for the help:)

[JohnH]

We have to get to know you a bit better before we can give you advice.

Some questions we might ask:
What is the extent of your crossdressing?
How do you feel about your body in its current state?
How are you getting along with your SO (significant other)?
and so on.

Take care,

Johanna

[melissa_lorren]

well i have been out in public cross dressed before but not in a while
i cant stand my male body i feel disgusted when i look at myself and i realy dont like the way i am on the surface of things its way to harsh and mean i dont feel that way on the inside but thats how i appear normaly
my girlfreind says she will stay with me threw this and she loves me no matter what i look like but i feel like i am being selfish and it just makes me hate myself more

[Rianna Humble]

Not everyone will agree with me, but I think you need to look for professional support - possibly start by talking to your doctor and look around for a therapist who has experience with Gender Dysphoria.

You say that you don't like the way you are on the surface but you're not like that inside, are you talking appearance or behaviour, or maybe a bit of both? The more clues you can give us, the better we will be able to try to help.

In your new member introduction you say that you are "soon to be transgender" - could you elaborate on that a little, please?

It is great that you have a girtlfriend and she is willing to support you. Have you mentioned this site to her - she might like to join and get some support from other genetic girls whose partners either cross-dress or are transsexual.

[BreenaDion]

See a psychotherapist that handles transgendered people. Make sure they are a social worker also because all these qualifications in one person would help you emmensely. I would love to be 22 again like you and start HRT, omg the results would be breathtakingly gourgeous.
If your a TS and hate ur male parts then therapy will ease your pain. Give you direction in life. If you decide to start transition you need therapy but also help with the life changes. Granted some therapist aint worth a wooden nickel but get some references. Good luck and ask alot of questions and also read and read , find alot of info online. Just start googling stuff. Also maybe read some books, helps with insight.
Breena.