sister inlaw visit

[marny]

Sorry. Obvious answer. Don't want to upset my wife.
Wanted to ask if I should come out in front of her!

[Marissa]

Did you even ask yourself what would happen if you did??? sorry, but that is the first thing that comes to mind since you didn't give any indictation that you considered this.. so what do you think would happen? and is it worth it? and why would you????

[Vanessa Storrs]

Of course you should! Do not even bother to ask your wife.

You are welcome to stay at my place while your injuries heal.

[Maria in heels]

did you ask your wife? she has a very important role in this...

[Cynthia Anne]

Its best if you talk this over with your wife first! Respect her wishes! I don't blame you for wanting to do this! It could be a lot of fun, or it may make an enemy! Your wife should know her better than you! So let her decide for you! Hugs!

[Taylor186]

Does your wife know yet?

[carhill2mn]

You did not share enough information about your situation in order for someone to give advice. My thoughts are 1) why do you wish to "come out" to your sister-in-law' 2) how much does your wife "know"; 3) would your wife want her sister to know?
I certainly would not do anything that would be a surprise to your wife!

[RADER]

Of course you should! Do not even bother to ask your wife.

You are welcome to stay at my place while your injuries heal.

Did you know about pre-arranged Funerals? They are avable now a days.
Rader

[Stephanie47]

I saw in a previous post that you wife does not you cross dress. So, have you consulted your wife about this? Does she agree with that decision? Are you willing to endure the unintended consequences of your revelation? Will your wife be willing to take heat from family members? Whoever your sister-in-law tells? You have kids? Nieces? Nephews? Once Marny is out of the bottle, you will not be able to stuff her back in!

[alice clair]

My wife has a brother who lives in florida, when she last visited him and his wife she told them about my crossdressing and they were very receptive as they have friends that crossdress and go to those types of lounges and bars often. They will be here in a few weeks and my sister inlaw has told my wife that she is excited about meeting Michelle and can't wait to help me dressup. She also said she is bringing along some of her clothes for me to wear. I am very excited about it and can't wait to have her work with me, she is really pretty and has great taste in fashion. So i will go with the flow and see what happens.
Michelle

[Amy Lynn3]

You may want to test the waters with your sister-in-law first. Ask questions, talk to her about things like what style cloths she likes, then maybe ask her if she thought something like that would look good on you.

The above was my advise.....this is a warning....proceed with caution, if you don't the fight will start and I know who will get beat up.

[Tina B.]

Silly girl, of course you knew the answer. Never tell an in law any thing that might effect the wife with her family, unless she is the one that suggest it. Your family, your choice, her family, her choice, it's the only safe way.
Tina B.

[Maria 60]

My wife had a very close friend and she had broken up with her husband. She was over a lot and when we would go to our summer cabin see would come with us, as our kids were almost the same age. When the kids would go to sleep i would open a bottle of wine and have pantyhose,slip,and panties on under my cloth. My wife and i would drink wine and i got a chance to express myself outside in the dark. Since we started bringing her with us i couldn't dress at night. My wife told me that we could tell her that she is a good friend and she would be cool about it and to her i was one of the girls anyway, plus she could keep a secret. I said ok and that the next time we see her we will tell her. Well i chickened out (thank God) because a few month later they had a fight and now they hate each other and there spreading secrets about themselfs to other friends. So iam still deep in the closet, the only people that know is my wife and all of you on this forum. Be careful who you can trust unless if you don't care if it comes out. Everyone loves dirty laundry.

[Feather Gloves]

Your family, your choice, her family, her choice, it's the only safe way.
Tina B.

That's actually really good advice! I think I'll remember that in case I ever get married :)

But back to the topic, you should toe the line very carefully here, one slip up and interfamily relationships have been known to come crashing down!

[giuseppina]

Marny, if you have to ask, the answer is almost certainly NO if you don't want to cause trouble.

[Nancie64]

I came out to my sister in law, only by accident. We were in Vegas a few years ago over Hallowen and she was with My SO and I and we were getting ready to go out and Nancie walked out from the bedroom fully dressed with wig and make up, ready for the evening. She did a double take and told her she looked nice and than my SO said something and asked Nancie for input. My SO said something like "Nancie what do you think about this"? And my sister in law started asking questions. The next day the 3 of us went shopping wigs and bought Nancie 2 new ones. Alot of input was given by all. Wonderful time..

[marny]

Does your wife know yet?

Only for 8888888888888888 years

[marny]

Did you know about pre-arranged Funerals? They are avable now a days.
Rader

He He! Very good!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[marny]

Marny, if you have to ask, the answer is almost certainly NO if you don't want to cause trouble.

The short answer is, she figured it out and she is coming back in July. Guess it isn't a problem.