What is our goal/mission as crossdressers?

[britney1]

I thought it would be interesting to find out why different people enjoy crossdressing. For me, I like the opportunity to feel incredibly sexy. As a man, the best we can do is a new pair of slacks and a new button up shirt. As a woman, our possibilities are endless. I got my start with an obcession with lipstick and sexy lips. It kind of ballooned from there.

[racquel]

What is our goal/mission as crossdressers?
Mine is to pass and to smooth out the overtly masculine/aggressive personality I seem to display if I am out of character for too long. :o

[MarinaTwelve200]

Do I even Have a "goal"?

When I first started, as a 12/13 year old, I told myself that my goal or reason was to satisfy a real curiosity of "What would I have looked like as a woman.?" It went on for years, with me never really being able to quite get a handle on what I actually DID look like in Fem mode, and constantly being dissatisfied with my attempts to be able to do it----It was like a "principle of the thing" obsession----Later it became a habbit that "felt good", and eventually I discovered why it did and just what I was doing--that is ,I was enjoying the chance to escape my normal male identity and take a mini vacation from my real self---That became the goal and still is the objective today.

Surprisingly, I never did get to see what the real "fem-Me" looked like until early THIS year---as a result of my new wig and new makeup techniques I developed last holloween.---but NOW I CD for the escape reason.

[curlyalmond]

I dress to relieve tension. Taking the time to dress with make-up, sexy clothing, and a great purfume, brings me to a different place. A place where I can express myself as a woman. A woman's expression is able to be so varied, with different colors, sents and clothes. I love this ability to express my feeling in the clothes I wear and the make-up.
I will spend time perfecting a look that is truly a tramp, a princess, or a simple house wife. This is truely the best way to express myself and relieve my inner drive to be both a male and a female. This is very complex but the relief I feel as a woman is worth the effort, but to be a woman full time I think will take away this excitement durring the transformation.

[Tiffy]

I have no real goal as a crossdresser. I am just along for the ride to see where it takes me. There maybe a few small mile markers along the way but not real destionation.

Kisses, April

[Jonien]

What is our goal/mission as crossdressers?

T o be myself I have spent meany years being a male impersinater but now i'v givern that up and perged got rid of all his gear he is no more gone disapered eliminated R I P.

my mission now to be the girl i was born to be :rose:

so I'm no longer a crossdresser

But can I please stay :Pray:

[Bobbie Lee]

not sure if i can pin point the reason, it does make me feel better. seem the older i get he more it pulls me and i think that is the case in most crossdressers. sometimes when i get depressed or under al ot of stress the urge gets stronger and dressing seems to calm me down. as far as a reson i dont have just one.

[cd_isabelle]

what is my goal mission?

well i would say that dressing opens up a new world to me, lets me express a side of me i usually would not be able to while also allowing me to feel sexy and appealing from a different perspective.

as a guy it can be hard to get a girls attention at times but as a girl, you know that it isnt hard to get the attention of anyone in the room.

my personal goal is while dressed, to be as feminine, and passable as possible, meaning doing anything and everything that is typically girly, meaning girls drinks when out, sitting like a girl, all those little things.

i would love to hear the goals of others.

kisses,

cd_isabelle

[Priscilla1018]

To be Emperess of Earth.

[GypsyKaren]

Dressing lets me be myself. Since I'm a woman inside, it opens up and releases my inner beauty, feelings, and emotions. I get to see myself and be how I was meant to be.

It also is quite relaxing for me, the best therapy I've ever found. Whatever stress I feel disappears when I get dressed up. I like to go out as often as possible, whether it's clubbing with my wife or shopping with my girl friend. I don't know, I guess it just makes me feel real.

GypsyKaren

[Katie Ashe]

I have a personal goal... to accept myself as a CD'er and to be myself for once in my life.

[gennee]

I really haven't thought about a goal, but I crossdress because I love to wear women's clothing. It has opened a door into the world of crossdressers and I love it. Crossdressing also cuts against the grain of society, which I gravitate to.

Gennee :)

[CammyT]

Aloha,
I dress because I love the Sensual, Erotic, Sexual sensations I get when I'm dressed En Femme! It's pretty much for pleasure and to satisfy the female psyche in me. Ultimately, I would love an evening out with other girls, or, do I dare dream, a dinner with a gentleman who knows how to "treat me right". :c9:

[Debbie Kong]

My goal is to meet as many people as possible.

Debbie

[KrazyKat]

This quote was in a small notebook that came with my summer Bare Minerals Kit;

"It's time to start living the life you've imagined."
by Henry James

I framed this in my make-up room. Seems fitting for me!

Kat :gorgeous:

[Sophie_A]

I just want to be happy, and i am happiest when im dressed.

[Tiffy]

I have a personal goal... to accept myself as a CD'er and to be myself for once in my life.


I think that may have been the biggest mile marker for me on this ride. But I have finally come to terms with it. Now not only do I accept it, I would not have it any other way. Thanks for reminding me Katie

Kisses, April

[Wendy me]

What is our goal/mission as crossdressers? ok easy for me it's a chance to let wendy out and be who i realy enjoy... see all to often we go through life doing the "right thing" for all the wrong reasons...as well as doing the wrong thing for all the wrong reasons.... in being able to releace me into this part of me ..i can enjoy life and step out of that so called "normal" trap that too manny people have locked them selfes in
life is way too short not to do something that makes you happy and feel good abought who you are.....

[FionaAlexis]

...to boldly go where no man has gone before....

My goals have changed over my life. In the early part of my life my goal was to transition. Now my goal is simply to be as good a female as I can be and to be able to switch back and forth between genders quite freely.

Fiona xx

[Natalie x]

To win Miss World.

Ok, ok, I know it's not realistic. I mean, how many 60 year old women have won that?

My personal goal is to enjoy being the girl I should have been, instead of (as Christina said) impersonating a man as I have been for the first 60 years of my life. I would also like to play a small part in helping to bring transgender issues out to where they can be freed from the stigma they suffer at present.

[Phoebe Reece]

It's sort of like that old Army recruiting song:
"Be all you can be..."

[jennifer easton]

wendy why is it you always have the right thing to say , you inspire me to no end! esp. your atitude, love you girl
jen in KC

[Kimberly]

In the very core of my being, I don't understand why I do this... but things that have orison from my exploration of my dressing:

I want to be feminine - most importantly. This is an ever aching urge, and one that I have lived with and expressed in many different ways for my entire life.
Secondly, I want to be able, or to be free to transcend the gender "boundries" and "conventions" without mocking or abuse. I find the smallest things I do seem to be picked up on... at the moment it's my long hair. But others throughout my life have been: crossing my legs ("the female way"), wanting to play with barbies as a small child etc. But some amazing things have come out of dressing, like the friends and connections I've made with people about my dressing, and their understanding.

Mainly: I want freedom from prejudices against gender.

[Clare]

To completly accept the femme side of my life.

Its as simple as that really!

Christine

[MsEva]

Why? Good question...I really don't know other than it is a true part of me that needs to be expressed..sort of like a musician playing music or a painter with paints...It wasn't always that way..at first it was an autoerotic encounter with some time to feel fem..now it is a fem encounter with some time to feel erotic..go figure. At any rate it is who I am for now..will it change...I don't know..perhaps..but If I can't dress i get stressed and become more withdrawn. If I dressed in secret, my wife would always know because she says you are behaving in a softer and more gentle way even after I transitioned back to male persona..need counseling..maybe. :rolleyes:

[Olesha]

Mainly pure enjoyment in wearing womens clothes, with a slight sexual sensation as well.

[Dixie Darling]

I take a different 'slant' on this question. My personal view as a goal/mission is to help those who are looking for answers to the serious questions they have about crossdressing. Sometimes this is the crossdresser himself, but more often it's a wife, girlfriend, friend, or family member who has just learned that someone they are close to is a crossdresser. Naturally, it's usually a shock to them and they have very serious questions for which they are seeking serious answers. That's the reason I maintain a website and a Yahoo group which are aimed at just such support.

Dixie -- http://www.geocities.com/senorita_cd

[Lawren]

I just love to wear feminine clothes around the house. I love the way they feel on my body as I move around. I seem to get more done around the house because I keep wanting to feel my skirt/dress brushing against my hosiery, my earrings dangling from my ears, etc. I love to walk in heels too. I can only get so much satisfaction out of sitting with my legs crossed and admiring my clothes so I get up and do things that need to be done. Yes, there is a certain amount of "sexual thrill" invovled as well but the longer I xdress, the less the sexual aspect becomes. I also love to sleep in a soft and silky nightie/night gown.

[robyn1114]

Aloha,
I dress because I love the Sensual, Erotic, Sexual sensations I get when I'm dressed En Femme! It's pretty much for pleasure and to satisfy the female psyche in me. Ultimately, I would love an evening out with other girls, or, do I dare dream, a dinner with a gentleman who knows how to "treat me right". :c9:

I think you hit the bullseye Cammy, I dream of a prefect 50/50 between my male & female self

[Diannna]

Don't think I have a goal or mission persay. It has taken me so many years to finally accept my self for what and who I really am......... A crossdresser. I still don't fully understand it all, but I do accept myself now. I enjoy the clothes and what it represents. What I dress like and how I really see my self are two different things. I'm able to dress most often as I want. I live at my house 3 days out of 7. The other 4 days I spend with my gg friend in another town. We do have what we call "girls night" And she will usually let me know before I come up. But I usually go to bed wearing panties and a full slip or night gown with her. So! Goal and mission? I suppose I'm still too much in the closet to have any of those.
Love To All,
Diannna :cute:

[darcyann]

Hello

I am new to this, so as for what my goal is only time will tell, I do know when I have the time to dress up it makes me feel good and relaxes me. And feeling sexy is also a nice feeling for me.


Love


Darcy Ann

[Paula Rae]

What is my Goal Mission?

It didn't start out as my goal or mission, but it seems to be:
Buy one of every style of ladies blouse ever made, plus all the skirts and assessories to match.

Ricki B

[MandyTS]

I can not classify myself as CD but as TS, but my goal in whatever you call it is to discover who I really am and what my future holds for me as a man, woman or like right now, somthing inbetween.

[Donna]

Well I really like looking at myself in the mirror! I like thinking of myself as pretty. I haven't got a good figure but am working on loosing weight. But I have beautiful blue eyes that look great with makeup and a blonde wig!

Pretty Me!

Donna

[BonnieJG]

What is our goal/mission as crossdressers

To be Happy : I just love wear ing feminine clothes around the house. I love the way they feel on my body and the look of the clothes. Dressing lets me be myself. In the back of my mind I'm missing something breast and now I can have it . And mybe one day that I will go outside