"Nice" Compliment Tonight

[Duana]

I dressed and picked up GF at her house late tonight. We wanted to take a walk so we went to a closed grocery store/strip center parking lot. We meandered towards the mall and planned on walking the strip in front of the stores but I spotted 3 cars parked towards one end... high school kids.

So we turned the other way, strolled to the end and then out into the parking lot and back towards the car. As we made our way to the car, the kids were leaving, driving towards one exit and past us at about 50 meters. I told GF, I bet they come in for a closer look and they did not disappoint. lol

They circled back around as we reached the car. We stood by the car as they passed and then I heard one say to a passenger, "Damn, that's one big bitch!" LOL

I'm 6'2 and was wearing 5" heels. I took it as a nice compliment to be called a big bitch :)

[Maria in heels]

I can see exactly what you are talking about Duana...it is a compliment being called a big bitch! It is great that you were able to get out with your GF, and just enjoy the evening alone

[Cynthia Anne]

Very cute story! I guess it's better to be called a big bitch than no bitch at all! Hugs!

[Shelly Preston]

Duana, I bet it took all night to get the smile of your face after hearing that :D

[Stephenie S]

These kinds of stories always worry me a lot. Being out alone at night, or even with another, in a closed and deserted area is extremely dangerous.

Who will help you if those punks decide to do something other than yell at you? And if the cops happen to see you they will immediately haul you in for "working". Especially in (did I read right?) 5" heels.

"Ma. Can you come and get me? I was arrested for prostitution." Can you imagine how that would go down?

A crowded mall in daylight is by far a safer environment.

Stephie

[Pythos]

Stephenie, I think the whole hauling in the OP by the cops is a bit far fetched. A) She was with another woman, and the moment a cop got ID and such he would imediately think it was a couple out having role play fun. They are instructed about these things.

As far as the kids. What utter disrespect. How did it ever become acceptable to refer to a woman in general as a Bitch. I know in their tiny minds that was a compliment, but you know what, that is still damned rude.

[Nisha]

I am with Stephenie on this one. Dangerous situation. Even if it is your home turf.

Deserted area at night. Are you out of your mind? Ever tried running in 5" heels? You have even put your GF in serious harm's way.

You were lucky this time. Don't count on luck always favoring you.

Take care - Nisha.

[Duana]

A) This was not dangerous. It was a lighted grocery store parking lot, complete with cameras.
B) This is in the heart of suburbia. Not that trouble can't happen there but much less likely.
C) If they wanted to push it, my .357 was 2' away in the car.

[Nisha]

.357? Just 2' away?

"Damn, that's one big bitch!" LOL

[Eryn]

Funny the things we take as compliments that would have a GG fuming!

Of course, lots of people were thinking that, but only the teens had the lack of self-control to say it.

[Tina B.]

Well it wasn't Mame, but at least Big Bitch is female. lol As I read it the Big Bitch comment was over heard, not shouted out, it does make a difference, after all at 6'2" AND IN 5" heels, that is a big bitch, with or with out the pistol, I doubt them boys wanted a piece of that action, she might whip there butts.

[cassandra.932]

I think once you have decide to walk out there, don't be bothered with what others have to say. Yes, take it as a compliment. Most importantly, you had a nice time en femme with your very supporting GF. That experience, not many of us here would have. Treasure that and give her a hug.

[Duana]

Cassandra, I hug her everyday and don't take it for granted. We are having a great time with things... went shopping today for some last minute items for our Cancun trip.

Tina, you're correct. It was overheard, not directed towards me. I was not offended. This is Texas and that remark is very typical, especially from young kids, and not meant to be offensive. Its just they way they talk.

[Chickhe]

Gee...you can't live in a shoe... just avoid places woman avoid and you will be fine. Nice to be percieved as you want, but... don't these kids know how to avoid being rude... I mean if you could hear it, so could a sensitively tall woman...they have feelings too!

[Tina B.]

Yes Chickhe, it is rude, but boys will be boys, and you can't let rude ruin your day. Unfortunately rude is not illegal.
Tina B.