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erica12b
04-23-2011, 10:28 AM
Here is a deep thought question, what are the small things that give you a thrill about your dressing, the things that give you a shiver and then you move on in a better mood kind of way (not to be taken as a whole,)

For me dressing , its the feel of the material ,the feel of dangling ear rings, the cool tight feeling on my nails(then the freaking color) , the feel and smell of lipstick, the tightness of a bra, the way I half to think about walking differently in heels (then it becomes easier ) all the new rules I must fallow for doing things, tuck skirt when I sit ,cross legs, no spread eagle lol, no wide jesters, ect all of these small things add up to the great time and feelings and every one of them can be taken by them self and make me feel better as a whole they are my erica

the list is long for me, what are some of your small thrills

karenhunni
04-23-2011, 10:35 AM
all the above huni xx

Misti
04-23-2011, 10:38 AM
Working very hard on the SO so I can get there, too! Did it once, tho! LOL

MichelleStar
04-23-2011, 12:04 PM
Hi,
Yes it is really the feel of the clothes, so different and now the summer is here....well almost in the UK, the clothes will hopefully be cooler to wear.
The walking, in heeled shoes, well I still need some more practice there!
X Michelle

prettytoes
04-23-2011, 12:22 PM
The feel of slippery, silky satin against my skin...love the way it feels rubbing under my jeans. And the look of painted toe nails....love it!

docrobbysherry
04-23-2011, 12:50 PM
Of course, Erica! I've been turned on by ALL of the things you've mentioned and many MORE! At one time or another in my dressing career.

However, these days, not so much! My "thrills" come mostly from viewing Sherry, completely finished and dressed, in my mirror!

Eloise
04-23-2011, 12:55 PM
Getting in a strop and them blaming womens issue's....ok, I never get away with it though...the cat's far too clever.

Cynthia Anne
04-23-2011, 01:29 PM
I have been doing all the above for so long that the only 'thrill' I get is when I'm shopping and I get treated nice!

Ellen James
04-23-2011, 02:06 PM
Erica
Have to say hello to someone else who knows Grand Junction! though I've only visited :)- but I was thinking about sharing today anyway and that clinched it. I enjoy all of the things you mention -though I've not tried wearing heels yet myself.:sad: But I've got a couple of days to myself at home and have been able to dress most of the time, so I'm sitting here in black skirt and blue blouse, jewelry (love necklaces!), red nail polish in all the appropriate places, light makeup and a little perfume (that I really really enjoy so have to remember to NOT overdo it!:heehee:) - but the best part is that my breastforms arrived this week! I've been wearing them without adhesive as recommended in order to try them out and get used to the feel, but while I might eventually replace them I really love them! The weight and feel of them as I sit, walk, do chores gives me goosebumps! Absolutely love it!:battingeyelashes:

AllieSF
04-23-2011, 02:13 PM
You have a great list of little thrills. I do not always notice each and every one, however, at times when the breeze blows up my skirt, or some other small thing feminine makes me notice and smile as I realize I am dressed as a woman and I am out on the real world as if that was the most natural and unnatural thing to do. Makes me wonder sometimes.

carhill2mn
04-23-2011, 02:36 PM
All of the above plus hearing the sound of my heels when walking, the breeze swirling my skirt around my legs, how a skirt flows when I come down steps or when I sit down, seeing my legs and feet in hose and heels, being treated as a lady.

suzy1
04-23-2011, 02:41 PM
I am just reading all these replies and saying to myself, yes…yes….yes… that one too….and that one, O.M.G. defiantly that one!

I wonder sometimes if there is all that much difference between us girls.

But here is my one. I do not have a lot of confidence so when I post a picture and I get a nice comment I am very thrilled.

SUZY

kendra_gurl
04-23-2011, 03:02 PM
I totally agree with everything said so far especially about the completed image I see in the mirror. After years of trial and error with makeup and eye colors, lots of different wig styles, and clothing I'm now very satisfied with the look I am able to achive. I can only add that learning how to create believabe cleavage is the one thing that seem to now make me pass in public more than anything else. Even if someone reads me and thinks I "used to be" a man, they certainly do not think I am still a man

Frédérique
04-23-2011, 03:06 PM
Here is a deep thought question, what are the small things that give you a thrill about your dressing, the things that give you a shiver and then you move on in a better mood kind of way (not to be taken as a whole,)

There’s something about the presence of air in the region of my knees, circulating from one to the other and rising higher. Shorts don’t do it, but I always get a thrill when my feminine garments create a completely different weather pattern, so to say. A lot of things I do (via crossdressng) give me a thrill, but it all starts with that unmistakable movement of air – call it “current events.”
:battingeyelashes:

HannahF6
04-23-2011, 03:10 PM
My small thrill is probably an odd one. I do play the piano, but I love sitting at the piano en femme and taking time to adjust my skirt. I really believe that I play better when I am dressed en femme and I enjoy that thought a lot.

Hannah

Deanna B
04-23-2011, 03:12 PM
hi i'am with suzy and all you girls . and i get a frill when i go to bed . i am allowed to wear my nightie 3 night a week and yes it is a frill because i sleep with my wife and she is not happy with it but she does cuddles me . love deanna B xx:)

sweetjan
04-23-2011, 09:04 PM
I must sat a small thrill is a new pair of panties, putting them on for the first time. :o The real thrill is just to be able to dress.

Alice Torn
04-23-2011, 09:31 PM
The feeling i get when i spill nail polish on my skirt or dress. Sublime! The feelings i get, when i get mascara in my eyes! So special! The sensation i get, when I catch a nail in new hose, and, there's soon "ladders" in them! The "wow" feeling i got, when I tried on a dress, and rrriiiiipped it out, because it was too tight! The joy of wrecking one of my high heel shoes, because I walk different on that foot! The sensation, of having my make up melt away, on a super hot day, as i was stuck in traffic in my old car. Having my clip on earrings not able to stay clipped on. Carving my legs up shaving. Fun! Having the zipper break, on my $20 dress, and knowing it will cost that, just to have it replaced! OK! OK! LOL! Yes, that has happened, but, all the OP mentioned, is so wow!

Fuzzlette
04-23-2011, 10:34 PM
As a drsser in hiding i would have to swy going in ublic and wondering if any one notticeds. I went ut todsy for the first tike eith stockings and suspenders under my jeans

Lorna
04-24-2011, 04:21 AM
So many things....but to pick out a couple: sitting down and standing up!

When I sit down and look at my skirt covering my lap and see the sheen on my stockings......

After a time sitting, when I stand up, feel my girdle and suspenders tighten across my tummy and thighs....

Little things like that.

Kathy4ever
04-24-2011, 05:22 AM
You hit a couple on this one. I also think about the cleavage that was created and how my eyes look painted is another thrill. Wow I could go on all day about this one.

Pythos
04-24-2011, 08:57 AM
Slipping on a new pair of hose. The slight struggle of getting a tight skirt up and over my rear, without popping the zipper. The feel of the hair of the wig as it swooshes from side to side. When I do a real good job on makeup. When the GG said to me I look "sexi".

The last was really a thrill.

Tina B.
04-24-2011, 09:15 AM
Well if it where just one thing, I would say it is a new pair of stilettos, just love a new pair of heels.
Or having the wife tell me I look cute, in what I've put together!
Tina B.

JamieTG
04-24-2011, 10:13 AM
I don't get the real heart pounding thrills anymore but I love the feeling of my smooth skin for the first several hours after shaving.

TGMarla
04-24-2011, 10:23 AM
The feel of putting on hosiery, when the lace hem of my slip falls to just above my knee, stepping into high heeled shoes, the feel of my long pretty hair cascading past my neck and coming to rest on the swell of my breasts. Twirling in a full-skirted dress. Long, pretty fingernails and the waft of perfume across my nose. The sight of my eyes all made up with eyeliner and mascara, the perfect line of my lipstick when it's done just right.

I could go on and on. I get a thrill from all of it.



Say, Kendra's kind of cute, eh? Nice job on the boobies!

t-girlxsophie
04-24-2011, 08:42 PM
lots of little things add up to make the whole experience thrilling,things like glimpsing my hair flowing round my shoulders,th act of sitting in a chair smoothing my skirt as I sit crossing my legs,my heels dangling off my foot,may seem daft to others but each of us has different things that makes us smile

Sophie

Vanessa Storrs
04-24-2011, 08:58 PM
I love it when the young lady at the drive up window of my coffee shop smiles and says, "Hi beautiful."

Julie Denier
04-24-2011, 09:03 PM
For me, the real thrill starts when I slide on my hosiery, especially when I'm taking a new pair out of the package. The next thrill comes when I pull a pretty dress on over my head and it drapes over my mildly enhanced curves and cinched figure, and the skirt brushes against my knees. And I just adore slipping into a cute pair of heels. Then, after finishing my makeup, I pull on my wig and the illusion is nearly complete. I get a little shiver as I brush my tresses aside to clip on my earrings. Then, looking in the mirror, I'm thrilled by the result, knowing that though not passable, I look good enough to really enjoy this side of myself.

erickka
04-25-2011, 05:50 AM
The nice spring breeze blowing under my skirt, and the material gently caressing my nylon clad legs. (This is just for starters, by the way.)

anonymousinmaryland
04-25-2011, 06:56 AM
The approval of my wife when i'm "dressed," (wearing a bra), and she says, "everything's fine. It's not too much."

LoriAnn_CD
04-25-2011, 08:27 AM
For me it is the new things, the firsts. first time with makeup, first time with wig or manicure. I haven't had a pedi, maybe that will be my next new thrill? What other firsts might there be?
LoriAnn

Kerigirl2009
04-25-2011, 09:56 AM
Well, for me I think it is the Eyes after I apply the make up, I love how they shimmer and pop. then of course the difference in the fabric no matter what the fabric is. Even Womens jeans are softer on the skin, the lighter fabric is amazing to which I can't believe women don't notice but I guess that is because they have never had the displeasure of wearing heavy mens clothing. Then last but certainly not least is the fragrances that women apply to themselves. This gives me a feeling inside that can be overwhelming but one that I truly enjoy. OH yes and all that you stated in the OP. Keri

Leslie Langford
04-25-2011, 10:10 AM
I totally agree with everything said so far especially about the completed image I see in the mirror. After years of trial and error with makeup and eye colors, lots of different wig styles, and clothing I'm now very satisfied with the look I am able to achive. I can only add that learning how to create believabe cleavage is the one thing that seem to now make me pass in public more than anything else. Even if someone reads me and thinks I "used to be" a man, they certainly do not think I am still a man

Although you appear to be eminently "passable" in your picture, with that type of cleavage, it really becomes a moot point as to how well your face and overall look bear up under closer scrutiny - we all know where everyone's eyes will be drawn to. :eek::doh::heehee:

gaylegirlify
04-25-2011, 10:26 AM
You look georgous Kendra, if only i could look as good.For me it is make up and putting on nail polish and new lingerie.
lotsa love
Gayle

suchacutie
04-25-2011, 11:08 AM
There are a thousand little sensations as the transformation process proceeds, but when it's all done and you walk out of the room in which you transformed, life is simply different. Voice, body movement, deportment, the use of language, smiling, really smiling from a compliment about how well you've done your eyes, or how great you look, all contribute. Add to it the fact that it is so different from the "guy" you were just an hour before, and then the logical progression of becoming used (again) to all these differences, yet again starting an exploration of a feminine side that is always there, but not on display.

It really is rather amazing!

tina

Julie Denier
04-25-2011, 01:22 PM
There are a thousand little sensations as the transformation process proceeds ... it is so different from the "guy" you were just an hour before ... It really is rather amazing!

What she said ... ;)

kendra_gurl
04-25-2011, 03:15 PM
Wow I just had TWO very nice feminine experiences. I received some compliments on my photo here:battingeyelashes: and I just tried on the new wig I ordered when it was just delivered.

It is so nice to be able to change hair styles so easily, and ladies thanks so much for the compliments

erica12b
04-26-2011, 08:58 AM
Wow. That’s all I can say wow

as a cd I have thought I was out side the normal box, when all of the little things would get to me,
every gg I have tried to explain the little things too has taken them for granted and moved on to more
pressing issues, but for me its the small thrills that make dressing worth the effort, other wise why
go thru all of the time and hassle for two or three hr of fun with a hr prep and a hr clean up, I don’t
like being practical, but I do think gg take all of the little things for granted and as a guy im never
expected to ever notice the little things at all my two cents thoughts Also if I ever get approval from my SO that I dressed well or right or anything, that would put me over
the top, just finding a gg that excepts me would be nice lol so some of you gurls need to make sure you
let your SO know how lucky you are you have them ok

kimdl93
04-26-2011, 09:51 AM
for me, its the simple pleasure of seeing a hint of cleavage when I'm wearing a tank top with my forms. I wish I could look like Kendra, of course ! :)

BillieJoEllen
04-26-2011, 09:57 AM
I love the feel of my longer hair down the back of my neck. I especially love it when I have my extensions in. Then if I'm wearing one of my long pegnoirs with the neckline cut low I just feel so ultra womanly...

erica12b
04-27-2011, 11:21 PM
i sometimes wonder if this "small thrills " experiance is one of the things that sets us apart from others , we can focus down to little things , take some of this and some of that and a little of this and there a cd

Indie Femme
04-28-2011, 11:10 AM
Curling my toes when wearing stockings, crossing my legs, spaghetti straps on my shoulders, my hair falling across my cheek and shoulders, the feel of garters underneath a skirt, the smell of make-up. All that and so much more!

Samantha X
04-28-2011, 02:28 PM
For me definitely it would be the intoxicating feeling of sliding stockings or pantyhose up freshly shaved legs then shimmying into a beautiful satin slip. I think just the feel of silky satin against stockinged legs is to die for. Of course everything else I do when I get dressed feels awesome too.

PS. I am in Grand Junction today on business. Good thing I'm the only one who knows what is under the business suit!!!!

RenneB
04-28-2011, 03:05 PM
It's not what I would call a thrill anymore. I mean back in the day, it was very thrilling. Today, it's just about getting comfy. Jumping out of the shower fully shaved, throughing on the lotion, makeup, forms, bra (do my arms really twist that way?), panties, hose (watch those snags... darn another pair gone), now just added... corset (yes my arms really do twist that way, wow can I really tie a bow behind my back?... yep), then the pick of the top/skirt or dress.

Hold on... need to break out the makeup kits (yes kits -an 18 gallon storage container with three shoe boxes full of stuff for the face), concealer, makeup, eyebrows, maskara, eyelashes, lips, blush, and finally the hair. Three pieces of sticky tape and waaa laaa I'm comfy. Who knew so much work was required just to be comfortable?

Okay, that's about an hour of 'thrills', now sit down at the home office desk and relax.... Okay, now the real thrill begins. What's new on the *bay store?? Did I win?

Here's me after a few 'moments' work with my new favorite material. Acetate and spandex dress with a casmere sweater... Love it.

Renne.....

NyssaF
04-28-2011, 04:16 PM
For me definitely it would be the intoxicating feeling of sliding stockings or pantyhose up freshly shaved legs then shimmying into a beautiful satin slip.

Hey, you stole my answer!!! Well, 'cept for the shaved legs part. :)

Jeannie
04-28-2011, 08:34 PM
My small thrill is being able to dress up anytime I want to and not have to worry about getting caught by my wife and the fact the she doesn't care if I do. Plus all of the reasons abouve.


Jeannie

abigailf
04-28-2011, 08:54 PM
When I am walking past something that reflects my image. I catch a glimpse of myself out of the corner of my eye. I pause and take a good look at myself. It doesn’t matter what I am wearing, even if I am in guy clothes, I see this girl looking back at me. It is the girl I was always supposed to be. I get a chill up my spine. I pivot away from the reflection snapping my head so my hair tosses ever so teasingly and strut my way to where ever I was going with a smile on my face.

Lorna
05-04-2011, 05:03 PM
May I add just one more little thrill that I just remembered this afternoon?

Only on a few occasions have I been able to dress on two consecutive days, leaving my clothes on a chair near the bed last thing at night. So, only a few times have I experienced the joy of waking up to see my bra, girdle, stockings and slip - four of the items most essentially feminine - draped over the chair waiting for me. And, yes.....a pair of medium heels on he floor alongside the chair. For me a great feeling of excitement at getting up and putting my things on again.....but for women, I imagine, no thrill at all!

Lori B
05-04-2011, 05:09 PM
What she said ... ;)

I agree what she said,she said.............:p

Sarahwithanh11
05-05-2011, 03:33 AM
For me it's the feeling I get just before I get out of the car and go somewhere, a store, a restaurant, whatever. I grab my purse, straighten my skirt and head out as a lady...there's nothing quite like that feeling!

Sarasometimes
05-05-2011, 07:27 AM
For me they are the little ones you weren't expecting. The SA who uses the right pronoun when talking to a co worker (Doesn't this colored top make her blue eyes pop?), that earring that subtlely reminds you it is there, your reflection in a store window, the bra strap that slips at just the right moment, and the number one best but not so little things are those unexpected smiles or acts of acceptance by total strangers!! Maybe we could vote for our Letterman top 10?

Natasha Ravenwave
05-05-2011, 08:09 PM
When I catch a man giving me "the look" or...when I catch a woman staring at my outfit with envy.

Absolutely thrilling!

Love,
Natasha

briannacd11
05-05-2011, 08:37 PM
the feel of my shaved legs, slipping into my little black dress and strappy heels and going out and about. feeling the night air on my smooth skin blowing through the fabrick of my dress. And now after years of exercise and dieting the thrill of my thin, feminine body and fitting into the sizes i like.

JamiebiCD
05-05-2011, 10:40 PM
You know the way women "toss" their hair. They do it without giving it a second thought. I've always found that to be incredibly sexy. When I'm wearing one of my wigs I DO give it a second thought and I feel so feminine and sexy when I do it.
This gives me my small but very important feminine thrill.

linda allen
05-06-2011, 08:03 AM
For me the thrill is putting on the "boobs" and the feeling of having them. The biggest thrill was the time I tried taping for cleavage and looked down at my "boobs" with cleavage.

Now if I ever get to leave the house dressed, I'm sure that will be the biggest thrill.

Ginger88
05-10-2011, 10:50 PM
Crossing my legs with sexy heels on!

erica12b
05-13-2011, 12:05 AM
the two things that just make me lol the most are walking in heels ( my but wiggles , girly not trying ) and when i have nail polish on my typing speed increces and my spelling is better lol stupid isnt it lol