How do you feel when you go out?

[GypsyKaren]

When I go out dressed I feel so many things, but it's never overwhelming. I'm calm, relaxed, and nervous at the same time. I always feel so feminine when I'm out in the world, I'm totally Karen. I feel like my feet aren't touching the ground, but I take in everything around me. When I have to go back to being just Gypsy I re-live my times out, going over each moment and each emotion I felt. I feel complete. How do you other girls who go out feel?

GypsyKaren

[Billijo49504]

I know it don't make sense, but if I say confident and scared at the same time. I was walking though the mall a few weeks ago, and some guy tapped me on the shoulder, I almost peed, he wanted to tell me my purse was open. He was very nice and trying to be helpful, but I was ready to jump out of my skin. He appologized for startling me, and I thanked him for letting me know about my purse. But at that moment, all my confidence went right down the drain. Hope that explains it well enough.

[Deidra Cowen]

Its a rush...and like both of you girls say things go from being confident and feeling like I'm pulling it off all the way to the other end of the spectrum where I get nervous and butterflys kick in.

Nightclubs and all that...I have no problems. But going to the mall, drug stores or resturants...I still get nervous. But i think the rush from being nervous kinda feeds my desire to go back out again.

[Gemma Rhodes]

I'll tell you all in 2 weeks time. ;)

[Eileen]

BilliJo,

You must have looked pretty good or he would not have said any thing to you. He was doing a kindness, telling a lady her purse was open. Go girl!

Eileen

[BeckyCath]

I guess it depends on the day, i have confident days and disaster days...

I've stopped feeling nervous now, and the heart isn't pounding any more... Strangely enough i feel more "normal" when out and about as "her" than i do as "him" now, as him, i feel all paranoid and nervy, as her i don't care what others think! How weird is that?

Rebecca

[MsEva]

Its a rush...and like both of you girls say things go from being confident and feeling like I'm pulling it off all the way to the other end of the spectrum where I get nervous and butterflys kick in.

Nightclubs and all that...I have no problems. But going to the mall, drug stores or resturants...I still get nervous. But i think the rush from being nervous kinda feeds my desire to go back out again.

That's because you look fabulous! That builds confidence! Only have been out occasionally, usually for a drive or a walk, but one time travelled back to PA en femme.

[Lisa Golightly]

How do I feel? If I'm going to the post office... bored... the pub... thirsty... the office... stressed... the shops... poor.

[MelindaC]

Just wonderful --- I feel more comfortable and relaxed and like I have been set free!!

[Jasmine Ellis]

When I go out dressed I feel so many things, but it's never overwhelming. I'm calm, relaxed, and nervous at the same time. I always feel so feminine when I'm out in the world, I'm totally Karen. I feel like my feet aren't touching the ground, but I take in everything around me. When I have to go back to being just Gypsy I re-live my times out, going over each moment and each emotion I felt. I feel complete. How do you other girls who go out feel?

GypsyKaren
Hi......
Walking out in my high heels with my long dress on makes me feel complete as a person, if it's raining and windy with my dress blowing it feels so lovely and makes me feel so feminine. Go on girl give it a go.....
Jasmin :angel: :thumbsup:

[mand]

Hello Karen :) How do I feel?...............

Scared, apprehensive, nervous, filled with anxitey. However at the same time I also feel natural, real, true, mixed emotions but the positive ones outweigh the negitive ones ;)


love mand xxx :)

[Sharon]

Weak kneed, constantly looking over my shoulders, fumble fingers when digging through my purse, teeth chattering on the hottest day..., but it's the best feeling in the world.

[FionaAlexis]

Gypsy,

It pretty much depends how confident I am on the day. And how long I go out for. I can sometimes start out very nervous but, after walking passed a few people, I settle down quickly. Then once I get confident it feels quite natural and my whole body relaxes into it. Often I do tune out of being genetic male or maybe just gender - well until I'm approached by someone and then I click back to reality. Recently, I had a week when I could get out quite freely and by the Wednesday or Thursday I became accustomed to coming and going in female mode.

It is also exhilerating, particularly when something nice happens. And there is an adrenylin rush when I pass someone I know unnoticed - there is that 'getting away with it' - aspect.

With school holidays on I have been unable to get out for a couple of weeks and it will be interesting see if I still have that high level of confidence. But I think for me its something I have to work at continuously.

Fiona xx

[Madilyn]

Gypsy,

I feel totally alive and like I can conquer the world. I don't get out often, so when I do it's an event and I make it a big deal. There's nothing better than being all dolled up for a night of dancing. I'd love to hang with you sometime baby.

Kisses,

Maddy :cool: