Bachelor/Bachelorette party

[Kerigirl2009]

So last night my wife and I went to seperate parties, my wife of course went to the bachelorette party while I went to the bachelor party. (she told me I could not come to the same party she is going too, because it is for women) duh.... LOL

Anyway we went our seperate ways, the bachelor party was very mellow as we as in ten of us went bowling and basically ate and drank for a couple hours and then we went back to meet the women and make it a co ed party with karoake and such.

Well I had decided that I was not going to take my bra off before the party. So here I was surrounded by nine guys at a bowling alley wearing panties, bra, tank top, and femme socks. At a Bachelor party. I think I must be losing it.

So of course no man noticed what I was wearing (which is typical) even though all eyes are on you at a bowling alley. BTW I averaged 116 wooo-hoooo

Well to make a long story short, my wife and I where going to leave and my sister looks at me and says your eyebrows are pretty thin. Now I am standing with my wife whom as already stated that she does not like my brows (the only two comments I have ever gotten about by brows are from my wife and sister)

My wife knows I am a CD my sister does not.
So then my sister says so what color silk panties are you wearing and proceeds to check,
Of course I flinched and twisted away (as I was wearing mint green panties)
well where driving home and my wife is CONVINCED that my sister knows I am a CD. I din't thinks so but I have thought about telling her.
However at our last get to gether She informed us that her sister-in-law has a BF who is a transvestite. (I hate that word) anyway she basically thinks that it is sick or gross. (No Understanding)

OH when I left, I did tell her that I was wearing mint green (but I did not show her)
And we joked about wearing heels, I said I could most definately wear and walk in 3 inch heels.
So do you think she knows or suspects that her big brother is a crossdresser?

Other signs, Clean shaven, all over, tighter jeans, talking about hair products with her friend the stylist (how to grow back hair on head) Glossy painted finger nails

So I ask again are my brows to thin? and does she suspect?

[Stephenie S]

Dear Keri,

Sweetie, are you brain dead? Of course she knows. And so do all those guys at the bowling alley. They just don't care.

And I know you're not brain dead, dear. That was just an expression.

99% of the people in this world don't give a sweet flying patootie what you wear. Your wife probably does. Your immediate family probably does. Your pastor might think you are headed for hell in a hand basket. But everyone else? Naah. They just don't care. You're just that weirdo who likes to wear women's underwear. They still like you. Nice score, BTW.

Stephie

[diane51]

It would seem to me your sister knows and prehaps your wife and sister have discussed it too.

[PretzelGirl]

A bra under just a tank top? I don't see how you can hide that. Her comments sure seem to indicate it too. Keri, my vote is that you are clocked (and appear to be inviting it).

[Kaz]

You are out! Accept and enjoy!

[Kerigirl2009]

I guess I should clarify, I also had on a sweater over the tank and bra. trying to conceal the bra lines, but I am sure that when I was bowling the fabric may have been revealing bra lines. But maybe they where watching my bowling ball instead of my backside, I mean they are guys. LOL
As far as my wife discussing my CDing with my sister, I know she has not done that, My wife did discuss this after I first told her with a friend from her work whom I have not met.

Keri

May be out but that would probably be a blessing in disguise.

[Stephenie S]

You are, sweetie. No question. You CAN'T hide a bra. Look around you. If you wear a bra people will notice. That's all there is to it.

Stephie

[docrobbysherry]

She has NO IDEA, Keri! Your, " I can walk in 3" heels", comment should mislead her totally! Lol!

[kimdl93]

Keri, you are so "out". Seriously. Despite what your sister may appear to think about CDs or whatever, when it comes down to her own sibling, I am willing to bet serious $$$ that she will be far more accepting than you imagine. Why do you suppose she asked what color panties you were wearing...come on.!!! Why else would anyone notice your brows? She's on to you and she is waiting for you to own up!

I've been there - and honestly, given the hints she's given, it won't be a bad experience!