Best and/or worst experience while en femme

[danielle512]

I know you ladies have some stories to tell about your best and/or worst experiences while out dressed en femme. Please enlighten us all.

[Kerigirl2009]

Well lets see, I don't have many outings to talk about as I can count them on one hand if you don't count my recent outings while driving. So I guess my best outing was when I realized I don't care if someone sees me that is not a crossdresser. Although when they did I pretty much scurried back to my vehicle. So my best time out was when I was relaxed and just enjoying the sun in mainstream USA. I know It could be topped if my wife would one day accompany me for a relaxing day of whatever she wants to do.

My worst outing would have to be......... I can't think of one as I have enjoyed everyone of them quite a bit, so the worst would be having the outing end and having to find a place to change back before I arrive at my home.

Keri

[Cynthia Anne]

I am going to tell you my worst 'outing' but my best I will save for another thread, when I have the time to write it! So here I am twenty years ago, fully dressed, wearing high heels and walked into a ladies clothesing and shoe store! Just got to the shoe section when two policemen came up to me and said to me'the owner does not want you shopping here'!! O-KAAAY! NO PROBLEM! You can tell the 'owner' that my money will spend in every business in town but never in here! Have a nice day! I left a little red but with my money!

[Kimberly Long]

When I was till working, I was out shopping fully dressed, I was at a dress wrack looking for a new dress. I looked up and two for my female co workers were shopping the same dress wrack. They did not let on that they knew me. I turned around and made a exit from the store.
My best time out is every time I go out.
Love Kimberly

[BillieJoEllen]

Worst time was about twenty years ago also. I was looking especially nice one night and taking a walk down a fairly busy street. (It wasn't busy when I started out!) I moved over to let a couple walk past me and as soon as I did my wig got caught in some low hanging branches. Off it came! I unexpectedly said a few things in my male voice. People looked, people laughed. I couldn't get the wig back on properly. I was about two blocks from my car. It was a looooong two blocks. Fortunately no one recognized me.

[kendra_gurl]

My Best and Worst happened at the same time. Just last fall I was dressed to the nines in a short black sequin dress and 5" heels. Makeup and hair done to perfection complete with long french finger nails. As I was leaving a small club about 1:00AM I had to walk next to a busy lighted street about a block to my Pickup truck. While I am out dressed I never ever drink anything other than just a plain coke. I got to my truck having some difficulty getting into it because of the short dress and heels but proceeded on my way home. A few seconds later I noticed a sheriff's car behind me. Well duh I was driving on my best behavior after noticing him as I continued along for almost a mile before his flashing lights came on. I pulled onto a side street and tried to calm myself down when this sheriffs deputy of at least 50 years old came to my window asking for my drivers license and insurance. As I handed them to him I ask what the problem was and he like thought for a second before saying he noticed me driving left of center a few times and ask if I had been drinking at the club he saw me pull out of. After seeing my male ID and me assuring him that I never drink while I'm out dressed this way he politely said well your in a very high profile truck and it must have just been the wind causing you to drift a little. I was having trouble finding a current insurance verification but had several older ones but he told me to never mind and to have a nice night Mr. K..... Well after thinging about the whole thing I told myself this was just a 50 somthing guy using his ability as a deputy to stop and check out a very sexy girl he noticed comming out of a club and that made my night.

[SusanMarie]

Best...first time a gentleman opened the door for me with a smile.
Worst...when a non-gentleman opened the door for me, followed by a loud, crass remark.

[Nicole Brown]

Oh, this is an easy one. A few years ago the family had gone to the west coast to visit other family leaving me alone. This meant about a week of living as Nicole full time. On one of those evenings I had stopped at the supermarket to pick up a few necessities and when checking out a lovely woman who was the cashier on my lane stepped back from her register, looked me up and down and said "my dear, you are beautiful". That was absolutely the best thing that has happened to be while out as Nicole.

The worst thing was that that same wonderful lady wasn't there the next time I stopped at that same supermarket.

[CarlaWestin]

Oh gosh these stories are great.

My worst time was, as I left a grocery store, one of the employees grabbed me by the arm. He thought my giant breast-forms were actually merchandise I had stolen from the store. I finally wrenched away from him and yelled, "I'm a crossdresser you f_cking a_shole!" Later, I came back to the store and put the manager on notice about his shameful lack of diversity towards gender fluid persons.

One of the best was when I pointed out to the male and female police officers that had just pulled me over that the male officer was actually outnumbered by crossdressers. We all had a good laugh.

And then there was the other 10000 times.

[Vanessa Storrs]

wice I have received rude comments while walking down the street. I continued on my way muttering, "jerk," to myself. That is as bad as it has been so I cannot say that I have really had a bad experience en femme.
I have had many good experiences, the last one brightened my day, I was dressed on my way out of town and stopped at the corner coffee drive through, the pretty girl at the window recognized me smiled and said, "Hi beautiful."

[Cheryl T]

My best was while out shopping with my spouse and a cd friend.
We were in this store and waiting in line to pay for our items and I saw this child's ball (like basketball size) come bouncing towards me. I picked it up and handed it to the lady with the child and she gave it back to him. Moments later, here comes the ball again...repeat returning it. Moments later...again here comes the ball. This time when she hands it to her child she says, "that's enough now, the nice lady doesn't want to play anymore".
Wow, did I feel great. I just gave a big smile, waved at the boy and went to pay for my things.

My worst wasn't bad at all...it was my first time in public and I was scared to death that everyone would know and make comments and point fingers. No one said a thing all day and I was actually a little disappointed that I was noticed. Then I realized that people just don't really care. Now I go anywhere, anytime and never even think about anyone staring or giggling or anything.

[Sallee]

I guess one of the best was years ago. I ventured into a none trans /gay bar that had a band. I seemed to be passing well in my mined and no problems yet. All of a sudden I was asked to dance. It blew me away. I said no. The gentleman stayed to flirt a bit and was very nice I was just a chicken.
The worst, probably getting read by 2 small children maybe 10 yr old's, who promptly announced to all with in ear shot that I was a man. I made quick exit.
The worst experience here don't seem to be all that bad. Why do we all have that fear of going out?

[PretzelGirl]

The best for me was the first time my wife and I were able to go out with my oldest daughter. We went shopping, to dinner, and to a movie. There was no uneasiness from her and we had a great time.

The worst? I will save that label. Everything has been so good, that I don't want to categorize any of them that way.

[leannejames2011]

So far, my best and worse were the same outing. For being the best, it was my first time out. For being the worse, I saw a co-worker there. Since I'm in the closet to the point that I am worred that if my employer finds out, I might be unemployed. I would rather that not happening. It has been over a month since then, and nothing has developed. That doesn't mean that something won't develop over time. So, I am careful on what I say and do at work. Likewise, I'm already planning on going out again as Leanne.

[Karren H]

My worst experience is when security yelled at me for taking photos of myself on the casino floor... Which was no biggie... Other than that they are all good!

[Sarah_Jane]

These are fantastic stories, thanks everyone for sharing, it's great that gals like us don't take the "little things" for granted!!

My best was just going out and not caring what others think, I have yet to have a negative experience but I have only gone out a few times, hopefully nothing too bad will happen!!

[Kim_Bitzflick]

My best is every time I'm out with my wife. My second best was when I was out at a movie and after the show a man hit on me.....it was also very scary.

My worst, hmmmmmm, I haven't had any really bad times out. The worst was in my early days when I passed a co-worker in the mall. I don't think she noticed. She never said a word and was always nice to me.

[SherriePall]

Just remember that a bad day out dressed is better than a good day not.

[Intertwined]

The worst; I was walking through Dana Point harbor, when I passed a couple of gentlemen (cough), that were sitting on a bench, just after I passed them, I hear in a loud voice "OH My God, That's a Guy !", I just kept walking, I wanted to turn and say " DUH ", I keep my head shaved and don't wear a wig or make-up. They followed me through the harbor for about 10 minutes, pointing out to every person we passed going the other way " Did you see him? That's a Dude ", I just thought it was funny that they were embarasing themselves, it's obvious I am a man.

The Best; Was this last Monday, at our Districts Employee of the year ceremony. I was one of the 7 nominees for Employee of the year, and I went to the ceremony in a Mans dress shirt, black tie, pencil skirt, argyle tights & black 5 inch dorsey pumps. All the nominees were called up on stage to shake hands with the Superintendant. It's been said, I hand more people around me at the reception than the winners did, I don't know about that tho.

[Kaz]

Best... checking out of a hotel in Newcastle as Kaz (walking past the housekeeping staff on the floor and sharing a lift with a middle-aged foreign guy), getting in my car, driving to a mall, walking around and window shopping, driving closer to home, filling the car with petrol at a petrol station and driving home. Also... on a different occasion...the hotel lift stopping and the doors opening with me doing my hair in the mirror, I turn round and a really good looking guy smiles at me in a very interesting (and warm) way! I had just been girly!

Worst... I had woken up with all my make-up still on realising that my car was about to be given a parking ticket. I leapt out of bed, mended my make-up, threw on some clothes and legged it to the car park. Did the deed in time and on heading back to the hotel from the car park this black guy looks just too long at me. To this day I don't know what was on his mind, but my "rigidity" is that he clocked me. That excercise saw me pass by lots of people, but his eyes haunt me.

[linda allen]

....... So here I am twenty years ago, fully dressed, wearing high heels and walked into a ladies clothesing and shoe store! Just got to the shoe section when two policemen came up to me and said to me'the owner does not want you shopping here'!! ........!
I'm not sure that's legal. It might have been twenty years ago though.

Idea - if this happens again, next time you make a big purchase somewhere else, photo copy the receipt and mail it to the owner with an explanation. Black out any personal information first.

[StaceyJane]

Best: Going on a short train trip with my daughter while dressed. Going out with my daughter who was 20 at the time meant so much in the way of acceptance.
Worst: Getting into a fender bender while dressed. I just had to suck it up and show my insurance information.

[kimmy p]

Let me start by saying that I only go out at Halloween, it's the agreement I have with my otherwise wonderful wife. So saying I have no bad stories and two really good ones. 2 years ago I decided that we were going out for Halloween. We had been to a party the week before, but we had spent 6 weeks sewing the costumes and I thought it a waste if we didn't use them again. At dinner that night in a restaurant where I am known we were eating dinner when a very young lady shyly comes up to me with a piece of candy. Her Mother says that she loves Snow White (My costume). That was super sweet. I overheard another little girl walk past whispering to her mom "Momma I don't know if that's a boy or a girl".

What perhaps felt best to me though was last year. My wife didn't want me wearing my French Maids costume out (too much tushie hanging out) so I went the other way and dressed to fit in as much as possible. We went to a Irish Pub and enjoyed ourselves immensely, and then walked around downtown and to a local chocolate cafe. Walking in there and having the attendant say "can I help you ladies" was a thrill I will never forget. I could see in her eyes that she didn't know I was a guy. I hope to repeat the feat this year also.

[5150 Girl]

Best, I was getting groceries, and this scary Harly looking man looked me up and down. For a moment, I thought I had been read and was about to die. But instead, he got this serious look on his face and said "OMG mam,,, you are so beautiful"
Worst,, when I first tryed out a blonde wig, out... I got read, and "the teen aged girl treatment" (you know what I mean?) left and right

[Wendy W]

Best - Walking by teenage girls while shopping and they didn't bat an eye or change subjects while talking.

Worst - Nothing yet, and hopefully nothing will!


WW

[Debra Russell]

The best-- waking up my grandaughter (22 yrs) and asking if she wanted to go out with auntie Debbie "h*ll yes" she replied. We went to breakfast at the buffett and shopping at the mall, tried on clothes, bought shoes - I bought her an outfit -- no one suspected or new; just a mother daughter kind of day!! Fantastic

The worst and second best -- My first and only outing with my wife to the casino at the cafe -- dropped my fruit salad trying to juggle my purse, money, phone ect. got an evil look from the older hard core tough looking (lady) cashier, but then a friendly young waitress came over and said "that's OK sweety don't worry here's another one" -- my wife won't do it again!

[KarenCDFL]

What a great thread!

My best experience was at a club several years ago where I was approached by a really hot hunk of a guy who commented how much he loved my legs in heels and my total look. My wife who is always with me when we go out loved all the attention I was getting which she showed me in bed when we got home. For some reason, this really got her motor going!

My worst experience was on a Halloween night were I was accompanied by my wife and one of our GG friends who was overweight at the time. After the club closed at 3:00AM We went to a 24/7 diner to grab a bite before going home. Now picture the three of us all costumed up and I was wearing a beautiful sequined halter gown and 5" heels. The problem occurred when 4 drunk guys sitting at the table next to us started making rude comments about the weight of our GG friend. Obviously this really ticked me off and I got up in my gown and heels to confront them. In heels I was about 6'5". Luckily, the management had been keeping an eye out for any problems and made the 4 rowdy guys leave the diner.

[kendra_gurl]

I've already posted here but reading the responses reminded me of another best I'd like to share

2005 wife and I spent a week in Vegas as girlfriends. One day we were shopping at a small shop on Fremont street when my wife found some souvenirs she wanted to purchase. I handed her my Americanan express card so she could purchase the items herself as I had very little experience in public at that time. I stood just off to the side of her as the cashier said Ma'am I'm sorry we cannot accept this card as it is must be in your husbands name and he would need to be here for us to accept it. I stepped in and in my male voice said I am right here. The look on her face was priceless as she said Oh MY I had no idea, you really are convincing. It make the whole trip much more enjoyable to know I had at least passed to this lady

[NovaScotia]

There is no doubt that the welcome I recieved from the TSK Girls in Denver. My sister encouraged me to join and the ladies and their spouses treated me to a "coming out" party. I will never ever forget one of the biggest events in my life!