out of love

[kathyw]

hi ladys. i hope u dont take this wrong. iv been this way aslong as i can remeber and it still bugs me to death why the man we trust with our live can make us br so different then the rest of the world. when i got back from nam i wanted to get married so maybe i could quite this and i did for a long time but my sex life died when my wife told me she doesnt like haveing sex because it hurts to much. so i started back crossdressing so i wouldnt have to think about having to look else were for sex , now i wish GOD would chang us around so i could please her like i want her to please me. but in my right mind i know it wont happen so all i can hope for god to take me away. love u all kathy

[Danni Renee]

Kathy, I can relate. It was a lack of intimacy (not just sexual, but closeness in general) with my ex-wife, especially after I came back from Iraq the second time, that I think started me back on the way to dressing more often. I have dressed since 13 but was able to control the urges most times. But I do not know if it was the stress from deployment, lack of intimacy, or just changes with age but the desire to dress has become overwhelming. I had the same wishes as you for a while about me and my ex-wife but I eventually moved on. I now have a wonderful woman in my life who accepts me as I am and it has helped me understand myself. I hope you are able to find you way but it is important for you to realize you are not alone.

Danielle

[Deana ♥ Danni]

Hi Kathy,

{{{{Hugs}}}} I wish I had some great words of wisdom.... When I get so down and out the only thing I know to do is to pray and offer my current hardships up â€* I was in a loveless marriage for 21 years... 19 of those were spent pretty much as brother and sister, all the way down to having seperate bedrooms.... Please do not give up hope, just when I had about given up on love and having someone in my life, Danni Renee found me. Is it possible for your wife to go to a doctor and maybe get help so it isn't so painful for her? I do not mean to sound preachy, but the prayer that I take the most comfort in is "Most Sacred Heart of Jesus, I trust in Thee." I hope that maybe it will bring you some comfort too {{{{{HUGS}}}}}

Deana

[Cindygirl65]

Kathy have faith and do not despair. Maybe in his Great Heaven he will change you. I asked him that for myself. We are like this for a reason so lets embrace of girly selves and all of us will figure it out together. Don't let the devil make you feel hopeless. There is always hope. HUGS. Cindy.