My Crossdressing is Back

[Daniel]

For a little while, I thought I was done with crossdressing. The desire got very weak. You may remember a previous thread about this, but it's been a long time and I haven't been here.

But then, it returned! Guess a month isn't enough to safely say it's gone. Hell, a year probably isn't!! I could grow my leg hair all the way back, and it could still come back.

[LucyLondon]

Hi Daniel,

You are what you are, I went thru a sort of non cd'ing phase didn't last long tho, tooooo much fun to be had!

Kisses

[GypsyKaren]

Nothing wrong with taking a break from it, happens to us all from time to time. Anyway, welcome back!

GypsyKaren

[Linda-x]

Welcome back. It happens to me typically in the summer, but I'm feeling all girly again, thank goodness. Even was at a party this weekend as Linda, with 3 othe TG's. Felt really good !!

[Vivian Best]

I've been cding for 56 plus years. During those years I can't come close to a guessing how many times I've quit. In fun, I like to say 1,000 times but realistically it's less than that. I can tell anyone I can quit because I've done it a thousand times. It always came baaccckkkk.....so I don't bother to quit anymore but also I may not dress for weeks. I just don't sweat it anymore. Like someone else said in this thread, I am what I am.

Vivian

[Wendy me]

i am sooooooo happy for you i think i am going shopping...........

[Marlena Dahlstrom]

Welcome back Daniel.

There's nothing wrong with cross-dressing. There's nothing wrong with not cross-dressing. Do whatever feels right for you. The urge may be deep-seated, but you do have control over when and how you choose to express it. Choosing doesn't necessarily mean that guilt is stopping from you, it just means that you've made a choice about whether to do it. We've got a lot of urges that we chose to express or not express in a given situation.

For what it's worth, I've gone a couple years were I probably never dressed and I've got through phases where I've dressed nearly every day. Everyone has their own rhythm.

[size7satin]

I quit yesterday........... Im so glad today came so I could start again :D

[Ibuki_Warpetal]

Sometimes I have to put my crossdressing in a cage, and sometimes I lose the key to the lock.
Like today,
I want to,
but man I am just way too lazy.

[Julie]

We all seem to find a way to convince ourselves we can will this away or that when the feeling wanes it will never come back. I doubt we'd do that if it was socially acceptable but it's not and we do what we have been conditioned to do all our lives - deny it, push the feelings away, force ourselves not to think about it. But we are who we are and that can't be changed, not by us, not by others. I doubt even brain washing would work.

Once we accept ourselves for who we are, life becomes easier. When the desire to dress lessens or vanishes, we know it will return and when it does we find ourselves open to that rather than trying to keep it at bay. This results in a more peaceful life. That's what I've come to know. And that's a comforting feeling.

[gennee]

Welcome back, Daniel. There are times it isn't there but it's still in the blood.

Gennee :)

[Joanne_'jojo']

I quit for six years... well almost, just a little makeup or some nail polish doesnt count does it?
Point is, I purged all my clothes (because I knew that I could stop anytime) and that was what it took to keep me sane.

Actually I became quite good at applying nail tips :) The makeup I had down by the time I was 13.

Jojo