Fathers Day....tg style

[kristinacd55]

Hi all,
Been thinking about this. I had a wonderful Fathers Day with my lovely girls and my Father as well (as a Father lol). My wife's the only one who know's about my at this point, but was wondering of you who are totally out to your families do you still consider this Fathers Day or now are you shifting to a Mothers/Fathers Day mode??

[Sophie86]

My wife informed me back in May that I can't have Mother's Day, cause it's hers. No double-dipping! So it's Father's Day only for me.

I went over to my parents' house this morning in my best Dad-wear, and I even wore boxers instead of panties just for the occasion. I also wore shoes instead of flip-flops to cover up my red toenails. I guess it's a day to conform to my sex-assigned gender role. :)

[Cynthia Anne]

I consider it just as another day with no company! Sorry!

[sissystephanie]

I did go out with my family for Father's Day this evening in drab as usual! The family knows that I CD, but doesn't want to see me dressed! Since my wife is deceased, my daughter is the one for who we celebrate Mother's Day!

[Karren H]

I'm not their mother!! Lol. I'll keep fathers day... And even though I wasn't enfemme today. My son did take me to a Drag race on fathers day!!

[kristinacd55]

I'm not their mother!! Lol. I'll keep fathers day... And even though I wasn't enfemme today. My son did take me to a Drag race on fathers day!!

"Drag" race! Perfect Karren....

[Marie-Elise]

Yesterday was my first Father's Day as a father. It was also a first in another way. My wife suggested we get pedicures since my feet were, in her words, "gnarly". I had never had one before so off we went with the baby. The owner of the salon made a joke about me getting "hot pink" on my toes when we walked in. We all laughed. The salon folks were very nice but a little bit surprised when I said I wanted color on my toes. I got them painted; a first for me. I didn't bring any flip flops and they wanted to give me a disposable pair. But I declined and walked barefoot back to the car, carrying the baby with my wife beside me. Is it strange that I felt sexy doing that?

Anyway, my wife said I was brave to do it. My response was that I am an adult and can do what I want. If anyone has a problem with it, they need to resolve it on their own. I don't have the time.

[Tina B.]

Oh, Karren it must be hard running in those heels! My kids don't know I dress, and I'm happy with being a Father.
Tina B.

[Iskandra]

I have never believed in 'X' day, Now working in retail it confirmed my belief.. A commercial excercise with no true emotion or care!
Heck, every coworker hates it.. Mothersday specially coz you get the clueless 'hubbies' doing their once a year shop asking way too many stupid questions!
Who ever said men don't ask for directions should let the men know!
"hey mate, where are the eggs? oh and whats basil? where can I find it!?" rah rah..
Do you sell bacon with out the chewie bits on? Yeah mate thats called rind, just ask for rindless at the deli.. Btw the deli is over there! (points)

Arg...

Whats wrong with showing how much someone means on any day of the year.. Heck even every day ain't that hard!! (grand final days excluded coz she's too preoccupied anyway!) :heehee:

But to answer the question, I would be the father of any of my children, thus fathersday it would be.. Mothers day is for those that are 'true' women..

[CaitlynRenee]

Had a really nice, Father's Day, in drab mostly, but in panties. Drove to Corpus Christi, enjoyed the beach for the day, had a good meal and then drove back to San Antonio. Just a good day trip. The weather was cooler there, 90 as opposed to 104 and the wind was blowing at about 25-35 knots.

Walked the beach (fairly deserted) with my toes in pink, tan shorts and a pink 'T'. My TG daughter was in shorts and 'T' and barefoot. My straight SO was in a really pretty sundress (can you say 'envy') and barefoot with light peach polish on her sexy toes.

A good time was had by us all. Back home, I forgot and walked into H.E.B. in open toed sandles and I just know some of my sales lady and guy friends noticed my toes. If they cared at all, I couldn't tell.

[Jamie001]

What is H.E.B.? Is it a restaurant or a business?


Had a really nice, Father's Day, in drab mostly, but in panties. Drove to Corpus Christi, enjoyed the beach for the day, had a good meal and then drove back to San Antonio. Just a good day trip. The weather was cooler there, 90 as opposed to 104 and the wind was blowing at about 25-35 knots.

Walked the beach (fairly deserted) with my toes in pink, tan shorts and a pink 'T'. My TG daughter was in shorts and 'T' and barefoot. My straight SO was in a really pretty sundress (can you say 'envy') and barefoot with light peach polish on her sexy toes.

A good time was had by us all. Back home, I forgot and walked into H.E.B. in open toed sandles and I just know some of my sales lady and guy friends noticed my toes. If they cared at all, I couldn't tell.

[PretzelGirl]

I feel that if you aren't full time or transitioned, then your kids probably expect to have a Dad around sometimes. And to take that away on Father's day probably wouldn't be a good thing to present your kids with. Now if your full time, then the dynamics change a lot.

[Debglam]

What is H.E.B.? Is it a restaurant or a business?

LOL. It is a supermarket chain down in Texas. When I first moved there, I started calling it "Heb" like Deb but was corrected that you pronounce the individual letters so it is "H - E - B." Only in Texas. . . Now somebody get me a Whataburger. . .

[Pythos]

Iskandra,

I totally see your point and believe it too be accurate. I hated X days when I worked at the pizza joint. Mostly because it meant "sale days" to draw in more customers. The comercialism in it becomes very very apparent when you work in retail or food service.

I also think more people really need to look at the real reason many of these days became so very important. Here is a hint, the first part of the name....Hall.

I also think we should not need "special days" to show our love for someone. Valentines day is another comercial POS. Sorry, when I am finally hooked up, I would hope I would not need prompting to show I love her. I really dislike how it is always the male that has to show the love. Ever noticed that in the adds. Very rarely is it about the woman showing how much she loves the guy. Never mind same sex couples.

I too would leave mother's day to the mothers. Not just women (I have a female friend who is only a mother through marriage and has so little say in the kids, she doesn't really fit "mother", and yet she celebrates mother's day as if she is the true mother of those kids.)

But in ways I wish such greeting card fueled days would just go away. But that would take people actually looking into what is behind such "holidays"