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zorianacd
06-23-2011, 04:28 PM
I know that this question has been asked numerous times, but I was curious to see if anyone got into crossdressing for reasons similar to my own. I first fell in love with long nails. I bought some Lee Press On Nails in glamour length and wore them whenever I could. In short, I had a nail fetish. Well, it's tough to go out as a guy with crazy long and feminine nails. The only way I could pull off the nails was to dress as a female. I was mostly into stripper platforms and kind of "****ty" clothing initially. But after a couple of makeovers, I saw that I had some potential. Now, I buy fashionable and trendy clothing. Gone are the stripper shoes. I've practiced my makeup and am getting better. Hope to post some pictures soon. So what got you into dressing?

SusanMarie
06-23-2011, 05:20 PM
I have always thought...and still do...that women's clothes...the variety, styles, colors, etc... are way cool.

Melanie Sykes
06-23-2011, 05:32 PM
I remember getting out of the bath one evening when I must have been 6 or 7 years old, and I went into my parents room and there was a pair of tights (pantyhose) and a skirt on the floor. I put them on, and was hooked. Also, I had a beautiful aunt who used to wear really lovely shoes, and I think she inadvertently got me interested in women's footwear!

NicoleScott
06-23-2011, 05:46 PM
Lipstick and high heels. Those are the "what" but I don't know "why". They were just something that I was attracted to and excited me a lot, long before I should have had even a twitch of a sexual impulse (which did come later - ha).

Karren H
06-23-2011, 06:01 PM
After years of my mother telling me I was supposed to have been a girl.... When I was 7.... I invaded her closet one night while she and dad were out. Just so happens it was right after my little sister was born! Coincidence?

jaqueline1
06-23-2011, 06:06 PM
i got started with a pair of panties... but i also got hooked on the stripper platforms and the "****ty" clothing because thats all my friend had and let me borrow

Tora
06-23-2011, 06:09 PM
Girls have better choices. Lingerie, nightgowns, panties, wow it even sound great ! In the wild it is the males with more colorful feathers and style.

Dawn cd
06-23-2011, 06:11 PM
I can't say what "got" me into crossdressing--as if there was a single incident or circumstance that sent me down a different path. I had a pervading sense, even in childhood, that womanhood was "right" for me, and that my designation as male was simply bad fortune. In time I learned how to be male, but all through the years I secretly grieved over that missed opportunity.

Samantha B L
06-23-2011, 06:19 PM
As far back as I can remember I was infatuated with certain women's clothing items and hairstyles. I remember even though "homosexuality" and everything that goes with it was almost never mentioned in polite company back when I was 6,7 or 8. There were sometimes drag queens and female impersonators on those cheezy old TV variety shows like Danny Kaye,Red Skelton,Ed Sullivan,Dean Martin,Hollywood Palace,Milton Berle(!)-(Uncle Miltie's original show was back a couple of years before I was born but he came back for awhile in 1966! Not only did he have the guests,he dressed,too!). It must've been in 1964 or 1965,before puberty,that it dawned on me I was one of those people at age 8.
I knew I should make the best of it as the opportunity arose to get the clothes and stuff as I got older.

Fab Karen
06-23-2011, 06:29 PM
I was walking out of church one day, and one of those roving CD gangs grabbed me. The rest is history.

zorianacd
06-23-2011, 06:36 PM
I was walking out of church one day, and one of those roving CD gangs grabbed me. The rest is history.

Too funny. Thanks for the replies. I didn't always love the clothes, but I do now. Shoes are my second love after nails.

Jilmac
06-23-2011, 07:27 PM
I started on a dare from a cousin. He dared me to wear panties and a dress. I was seven years old and scared but I did it anyway. The panties were pink and silky smooth and the dress was a summer dress, yellow with red and green flower print. I was hooked as soon as I felt the smoothness of the panties against my skin and saw how the dress flowed when I walked.

JamieTG
06-23-2011, 07:51 PM
When I was about 5 years old I saw a pair of my sisters panties laying around and just had an uncontrollable urge to try them on. They were light blue nylon and I loved the silky feel when I put them on. I was hooked immediately and this started me trying on other things of hers. I've always been drawn to the feel of the clothes more than creating the female illusion.

Konfused
06-23-2011, 08:51 PM
As a kid I was for a few years interested in wearing my mom's clothes. I don't feel like that has much to do with my crossdresssing now, because when I crossdress now it is actual a sexual urge, and it certainly wasn't that when I was 6 or 7. I first got started on my modern-day crossdressing when a female friend of mine told me I had a nice ass and would look good in a thong.

CarlaWestin
06-23-2011, 09:19 PM
I simply decided at an early age that it was easier and more satisfying to become the woman of my desire than to pursue the perfect woman. I become the over endowed kinky **** of my dreams every time I dress. And I just love it!

cd_in_de
06-23-2011, 09:33 PM
I got into a playful naked "fight" with an ex-girlfriend when I was about 20 years old (I am 33 now). She took off her bra and panties, threw them at me, and suggested that I put them on. So, I did. I have been hooked ever since.

Farrah Rose
06-23-2011, 09:35 PM
I just stumble on my moms pantyhose and tried them on. And...they just felt so smooth and soft on my skin. I tried her heels and dresses to go with the pantyhose (kinda like a snowball effect) and i liked what i seen in the mirror and i was hooked

hhdave
06-23-2011, 09:50 PM
I always loved women's shoes since I was a boy, and hated that the one guys had to pick from were boring. My ex-wife indulged me and let me try some, then I was hooked. She didn't mind that I was exploring that side of me, and was a little jealous that I could wear heels that she couldn't wear. She even painted my toenails a couple times. We split for reasons other than crossdressing, but she gave me some of her wrap skirts and we remain friends. More recently, I got my ears pierced, and bought some dresses and a denim skirt.

Natalie D
06-23-2011, 09:59 PM
I'm not sure of the 1st time but I was 12/13. I used to try my mums panties at first then her tights, bras until eventually everything. I loved the feel of the clothes on my skin and the feeling wearing them gave me. I still feel the same way today over 30 years later.

Beth-Lock
06-23-2011, 10:04 PM
My First Inkling
When I was around 12 years old, I noticed how the housedresses my mother used to wear to clean the house, hanging up in the basement laundry corner, had a magnetic attraction for me, as they radiated the powerful essence of the feminine. Then, I began to get fascinated with bras freshly washed, in the laundry basket. I fantisized, and within a few years I was trying on women's clothes on the sly.

NathalieX66
06-23-2011, 10:40 PM
I was 8 years old when I started. I always had a predisposition to crossdress, there was no single seminal or pivotal moment, I looked for any opportunity I could.

My female cousins, who were roughly my age, always engaged in fashion, and they bragged about it, and I became jealous.My mom even got a couple of boxes of hand-me-downs from my cousins, and in there I went. I tried on everything.

....beats guys' clothes........boring.

I have no problem being a guy.....I just don't want to look like one .

KrystalA
06-24-2011, 06:14 AM
I started out by 'borrowing' my sister's panties and wearing them under my clothes, but what really got me hooked was the first time I tried on a bra. I think I was about 7 or 8, and from then on, I found it impossible to NOT want to wear girl's clothes.

Kate Simmons
06-24-2011, 06:30 AM
My dog ate my boy clothes.:heehee: Seriously, though, I got me into it. It just always seemed like the natural thing for me to do.:)

Engendered
06-24-2011, 06:35 AM
Genetics/Hormones. Something inately biological.

jessica renee
06-24-2011, 07:13 AM
I don't really remember what got me started. But it sure is fun.

CaitlynRenee
06-24-2011, 07:57 AM
Grandma, age 3/4/5???

Jordan
06-24-2011, 08:05 AM
I just think I always wated to dress like a girl

Jennifer in CO
06-24-2011, 08:08 AM
When I was a small child, when Mom didn't get the laundry done I'd end up in my sisters shorts, tops, pj's or panties...or if it was a cold night one of her flannel nightgowns. At 10, I spent 3 weeks with my (female) cousins. Suitcase got left in the trunk with the parents who were going on a week long second honeymoon...the proverbial crossdressers fantasy. I stayed there 3 weeks...all of it in my cousins "hand-me-downs". The hook was set. Then, the summer I turned 15 I stayed with the grand parents. VERY long story but I spent almost all of it as Jennifer. At 18 I planned on going to college and living as a girl once I got there. In the mountains of Colorado girls don't wear many skirts/dresses but I managed to fit in...for about 2 weeks...then I met this girl... We married when I was 20, with her help I started hormones at 21 (also a long story), transitioned just before I turned 22, lived full time till I was 26 then part time for 2 years before transitioning back "to the dark side" at 28. Went back to full time CD (just passing myself off as a male this time) when I was 40.

What got me started?.....not a clue...

Jenn

deebra
06-24-2011, 08:42 AM
At 4 or 5 years old I was playing with a girl and for some strange reason noticed her shoes and we switched. As soon as I put them on there was a sexual excitement that took over my body. When she wanted her shoes back we had a little argument because they felt so good on I didn't want to take them off. At 11 or 12 wrapping baby blankets around me like a skirt brought that same feeling back. Wife's panties at 19 and then bra's, etc. after we were divorced. Read an article where it suggested that putting on a dress would take that sexual/feminine feeling to a whole new height, so I did it and they were right. Been into it ever since, guess you can say my whole life.

diannecourtney
06-24-2011, 08:44 AM
A beautiful women who I followed into an eatery and could not forget her ankles shaped by stelleto heels.

diannecourtney
06-24-2011, 08:48 AM
A beautiful women who I followed into an eatery recalling her beautiful ankles in stelleto heels. Oh to be believed.

Tina B.
06-24-2011, 08:53 AM
Can't say when I started, the first time I remember, I was around 6 or 7, went into the bathroom to take a bath, and when I closed the door, my sister had left a nylon full slip hanging on the back of the door. I slipped the lock and the slip on at about the same time, why, because it was there!

pantyhoselover
06-24-2011, 09:00 AM
I just stumble on my moms pantyhose and tried them on. And...they just felt so smooth and soft on my skin. I tried her heels and dresses to go with the pantyhose (kinda like a snowball effect) and i liked what i seen in the mirror and i was hooked

Yeah, that's how it was with me! Twas the pantyhose that did me in. It was all downhill from there. Now I love all the other stuff too!
I can also remember a friend's sister commenting how I had such nice long eyelashes, how she was jealous, and how I should try mascara on! Little did she know.
PHlover

naye
06-24-2011, 09:48 PM
a black one piece swimsuit.

NatalieBliss
06-24-2011, 11:36 PM
I was just curious how it felt to wear dresses, heels, nylons etc. With a portion of jealousy.,,, Turns out I quite like it, but that is probably fairly obvious!

Pythos
06-24-2011, 11:47 PM
As long as I can remember I have always liked skirts, and thought it highly unfair that boys could only have short hair and wear pants or shorts, and girls could have short hair, long hair, wear pants, short, dresses, or skirts.
Then I watched my mom get dressed in a pair of pantyhose right in front of me (she did not know I was in the room), and I asked her when I could try a pair on. Her answer was that Boys did not wear them. (it is a long story)
Well a few years later I tried on a pair, and fell in love with the feel. Then tried a dress on over them, and it was then I realized we males had been cheated. LOL. It was the most free feeling while clothed I had ever felt (only to be one upped when I first donned a catsuit).
I only got into full on crossdressing when I realized that males may never gain the freedom of choice in styles, so I decided to see how well I could pass. Also being in the Goth subculture where androgyny was a common thing (sadly not so anymore), I was no stranger to wearing skirts and other "feminine" things.
The full on CD Pythos has only been around for 2 or three years. All other years were androg, or male in leggings or skirts looks.

eluuzion
06-25-2011, 03:26 AM
hiya z,

I have shared my “story” before someplace on this forum...

CDing never crossed my mind until I was about 28 years old. I was picking zucchini in my garden and opened the trash can to toss in some weeds I pulled. There was a plastic bag on top of the trash with a sundress & shoes in it that my “roommate” had obviously discarded. A few minutes later I was in the “barn” (garage) trying them on. They fit! Lucky me...:battingeyelashes: Things progressed from point and I have been dressing ever since that day.

So, obviously simple logic told me that crossdressing is caused by picking zucchini.:D

Life is really not that complicated if you just take a few seconds to apply common sense. :heehee:

:love:

simone irmgard
06-25-2011, 04:50 AM
I'm 25 and crossdressing never crossed my mind until recently. As spring came and the weather got hotter I wanted a pair of shorts and my sister's were just laying there. I want to mention that her shorts are shorter then mine. And much nicer. Then I tried a pink T, then a bra, and although I did this to have some fun, something happend. I liked what I saw. I liked my new self. Since then I use every opportunity to explore my new alter-ego, named Simone.

PetiteDuality
06-25-2011, 05:13 AM
Two things:

* A children encyclopedia that had a book about ballet. I always loved to see the painting of the position and movements, and I remember closing my room's door to hide and practice the movements and positions. Not really crossdressing, but the first time I felt feminine.

* Pantyhose. The feeling is great. Maybe encouraged because my mom used to say that I have beautiful legs.

Jane G
06-25-2011, 05:47 AM
When I was 6 or 7, I used to dream a lot about being a girl. There were two dreams. One were I walked through a magic door and a second, that came along a little later, were a good friend had invented a pill, that turned me into a girl, for as long as I wanted. In these later dreams I always had the option to become a boy again. I'm not sure when I first wore an item of female clothing, but I do recall I used to under dress at junior school. Not some thing I do these days. Perhaps I'm cured doc!:eek: Oh hang on I'm wearing my nighty, Tee Hee:heehee:

FrillyShelly
06-25-2011, 08:37 AM
For me there was a very definite seminal moment!

I think I was about 11/12 where I was chosen to play a girls part in an end of year Christmas play for the boy scouts........ Of course I had to borrow a pink dress, shoes and even a hair ribbon (no panties though) from my sister for the play & Mum did my make-up. WELL !! a door was not only opened, but blown to pieces !! I just loved the soft feel & flow of the dress and the feel of the ribbon in my hair, the taste of the lipstick - even the small heel on the shoes felt new and exciting.

I was TOTALLY embarrassed doing the play in front of everyone though............. but there was no looking back from there.

PretzelGirl
06-25-2011, 10:55 AM
So, obviously simple logic told me that crossdressing is caused by picking zucchini.:D

And here I thought you were going to say it came from rummaging through the trash. :battingeyelashes:

Cullaby
06-25-2011, 10:56 AM
Ran out of excuses not to.

joannemarie barker
06-25-2011, 12:02 PM
I always say it was at 11 with my sisters swimsuit but I have a faint memory of stealing a really cute pair of frilly pink and White gingham panties at a much younger age

Loveday
06-25-2011, 02:10 PM
Doctor said to start wearing pantyhose for my health. After many years I tried it. The rest is history. After the pantyhose I said I should try a skirt and did. The steps just goes on and on and here I am.

Cheryl T
06-26-2011, 06:49 PM
I wish I knew what began this journey, but I can't identify the actual moment or item or act.
I was 7 or 8 and that's all I can remember.

rhonda
06-26-2011, 07:05 PM
I about ten years I tried on a slip and dress and from there I was hooked and wanted to wear more womens clothes , now I'm able to dress anytime I wan't

michelleky53
06-26-2011, 07:52 PM
I remember being about 8 and slipping under the covers in my parents bed and slipping on Mom's stockings and girdle.

Leanne2
06-26-2011, 08:05 PM
When I was 3 or 4 I felt like I should have been a girl. My aunt had a daughter slightly bigger than me. The hand me downs were brought to our house for my younger sister. Because they were too big for her they were stored in a closet where I found them. The rest is history. Leanne

BLUE ORCHID
06-26-2011, 09:41 PM
Well it probably all started about sixty nine years ago when my mom put me in
that little white receiveing gown when they brought me home from thr hospital.

Orchid