Got out last nite - got maam'd and miss'd!!!!

[Kaitlyn Michele]

HI all- i've posted before..last nite i got out again..i cant explain but i got lucky with makeup and padding(of course no camera last nite) - i ve posted pics before if you want to see my "look"...

but i thought i really looked my best..
another thing, i'm 6'1 and fairly slim.. i do go out but i avoid people as best i can and i have a bunch of public places where there are usually sparse amounts of chance encounters

so last nite i put on a berry business outfit skirt/silk tee/suit...black strappy business pumps.. and went to the mall at closing time..
it was about 920ish and so i kind of didmy usual thing..let people clear out then mozy in to lord and taylor... love the fact there are lots of mirrors, and love the click/clack of heels on the floor...i checked out the pantyhose, and some of those cute shawls that will never fit me!...they announced the store was closing but i inched in and started looking at the purses...i was really into it and losing myself in just being michele...checking out pricese, etc..

then out of nowhere a woman says...excuse me maam, we're closing.... well i just melted/dies heartbeat is now 250+...so i whisper "oh" and put the purse back and start walking...she's right behind me and says, what door are you leaving by...then giggles and says oh never mind ...then she follows me, i'm trying not to look at her and she's right behind my shoulder and she starts gushing about how its sooooo much fun to shop right at the close and she always gets lucky and finds the best bargains, and telling me next time come a little earlier hahaha....and then she is walking in front of me and shows me some pants she found...and tells me she cant beleive they're only 20 dollars.....

wow....now i'm not saying i "passed" i know she took me for a woman at first...but she was so nice and so friendly it really didnt matter to me in the end if she figured it out ....
for a minute i was a girl...just us girls in the mall, talking about shoppin!!!!!!!!!
she said have a nice nite and i said you too and off i went!!! JACKPOT 1

i went back, got changed into this beautiful purple striped poplin blouse...and a stretch black skirt...my best feature(if i may be so bold) is my BUTT..i have a girls butt, no joke...a little hip pad makes it even nicer.. this outfit really shows it off. so i go into the sheraton, which is usually very quiet, (by now its about 11 pm) they have a back entrance and ballroom area that i really like, and i can go in the ladies room at touch up makeup etc...

so i go in , open the ladies room door and there were 2 cleaning ladies there and they said barely in english,, oh sorry miss...the ladies is closed for the flood...there's water everywhere and then the other girl says, there's another ladies up in the front lobby....i was speechless....TWICE IN ONE NIGHT>.....THIS HAS NEVER HAPPENED TO ME BEFORE EVER.....i floated out into the hall and now i'm so confident i proceed right into the lobby, turn the corner there were like 100 people there!!! gulp...well i just kept looking ahead and walked right thru them... I get to the front door and the doorman smiles at me and opens the door....all he says is "MAAM" and tips his hat

i still dont know why i didnt feint...i was feeling sooooo girly
look, they all might have thought GUY IN A DRESS>..but they didnt treat me like that and i cant describe how feminine i felt and how GOOD that made me feel. it was really wonderful and a good memory for me...

the nite didnt end as well, by the way...i was at another hotel at about 1, and was outside the hotel bar, and the security guard started coming at me, so i walked away and he said hey about 4 times, i ignored him, and he finally said please dont come back!!!!!! YIKES>>>>> i guess he didnt like this tranny!! heck with him

so its fun to share the stories...and let me tell you all, if i can do it, you can do it...i know there are risks and somebody might make fun of you or something but if last nite was any indication, i'm sorry i didnt get bolder sooner

my next try might be to go a teeny bit earlier and actually buy something...if i do it, i'm not sure if i should make it clear i'm a guy(its pretty clear if you look closely hehe) or just go with the flow.....peace

michele

[Julie York]

Congratulations...Ma'am.


:D

[Sheila Francine]

Wow - that must have been such a greatfeeling-you go girl!

[KatieZ]

the nite didnt end as well, by the way...i was at another hotel at about 1, and was outside the hotel bar, and the security guard started coming at me, so i walked away and he said hey about 4 times, i ignored him, and he finally said please dont come back!!!!!! YIKES>>>>> i guess he didnt like this tranny!! heck with him


He wasn't close enough to get a good look at you. He might have thought a lady hanging out outside the hotel bar at 1 in the morning was a prostitute.
So you may well have passed there also. :)

Encouraging story regardless.
Thanx for sharing

Hugs

[Kaitlyn Michele]

you guys are all great, i love reading all the posts about the adventures and seeing the pics..

i am a very pragmatic person...i realize i'm doing something that most people would think is weird at best, but hey its me...and altho i had a great time it is still pretty lonely and this is a really great place to share. making these little connections with you all is good for my mental health

what i really liked about that nite is that i had almost never interacted with anybody dressed and when i had some successful interactions it really made my pretend nite as a woman even more real

and on the prostitute side!!! you made my day ..i was definiteley wearing something atypical for a thursday nite bar scene, hehe very good thought!!

i never thought of trying to pass as a hooker, but you take what you can get!!

michele

[Dragster]

KatieZ,
You took the words right out of my mouth (Quote Meatloaf)

Micheletv
I don't know what you look like wearing your purple striped blouse and stretch skirt (and stilettoes?), but I've seen some pretty glamourous high class hookers in my time, and the fact that you ignored him 4 times may have given him the idea you had something to hide. You did, but not because you were "working"!

Tony

[Kaitlyn Michele]

Lol!

[Stephanie Kay]

Practice makes purrrr-fect! Don't ever stop! Congratulations, ma'am!

Love,
Stephanie Kay

[Rachel Morley]

Fabulous story Michelle. I really enjoy reading about other people's outings.

I have never been Mam'ed myself (yet) but that's because my wife Marla does all the talking (at the moment).

I'm in agreement with others, I think the security guy thought you were a high class hooker because he didn't get to see you close up. Going on what you wrote, I would say that the cleaning ladies in the bathroom that you encountered thought you were a woman, and that the sales person in the store initially thought you were a woman but when they got up close they weren't sure and so continued as if your were one. Either way this was a result!

I know how it feels to be in a very public place, with people all around you, and they're up close, but apparently know one seems to know you're not what you appear to be. It's an awesome feeling and it's one I shall never forget, ever! I think the feeling for me comes from a false sense of acceptance if you know what I mean.

Obviously, some people do know, but they don't do anything about it and so it makes you think you've passed.

Anyway, girlfriend Kudos to you and keep it up. Next time how about a picture before you go out? I would to see what you were wearing :)

[Kaitlyn Michele]

angel-
i enjoy people's stories as well- i read yours on going out shopping great stuff..

i really am mad i had no pics...i just got stuff into storage and realized i left my camera boo hoo!

its great to chat with other's who like be girls for a while.

you seem to have similar feelings as i do...i really like to get completely dressed and get into my persona and just be michele....obviously the more i'm out the more people will know..but the i really love the feeling of knowing that at least for some part of it, i was accepted for what i wanted to be..

i know its all a big fantasy, but its my fantasy!!!>.

michele

[Kaitlyn Michele]

thnx stephanie!!!

[Stephenie]

Being Miss'ed is better than Mam'ed

[Kaitlyn Michele]

stephanie..

you make a very good point
but i'll take either one!

[Kimberly]

YAY, Michelle :D

[HaleyPink2000]

Ok, tell ya about WalMart.

I go there after work one night. Got a cart then to the women’s dress area I did go. I shop like a Woman does anyway. I graze shop for things. Anyway I found 4 dresses I did like, 2 skirts, and two blouses. Up to the try on rooms and asked the girl for a room to try on some clothing. She did count the items, and showed me to a room. I came out, and exchanged several for different sizes several times. Put my items in the cart to then be taken to the checkout. At the checkout one of the girls said Ma'am you know I'd love to have this dress, but they are just to much for me on my paycheck. The other Girl checking my items, told the girl removing the hangers to shush. Then the Cashier said " Ma'am those are pretty". I did smile and said thank you. Used my Debit card and everything.

BTW I was in male clothing, T shirt, jeans, and tennis shoes.

I buy from WalMart all the time with no problems. Try on everything except underwear.

Do Not Be Afraid To Try On Clothing At WalMart! One of my friends works in another town at a WalMart. She is a { M to F } Crossdresser also. She says that She does see many Males come into buy femme clothing. But most draw attention to them selves, skulking around, and looking all over very nervously. She told me, She did stop a CD one evening. She took Him aside and told Him to not be so nervous, as it was drawing attention. To just relax and have a nice time in the store, etc. Told the Guy, that his dressing preffrence did not matter. That WalMart is there to sell to everyone.
Said the Guy did write the store Manager and thank them for a wonderful staff.

I like shopping there, but right now this fall line of theirs is very limited.

Haley

[Kaitlyn Michele]

haley that is a very cool story

i have done some shopping at kohl's recently but feel more comfortable right now "pretending" ALWAYS PRETENDING!! to be shopping for the wife

i bought 2 skirts and a blouse today.. the salesgirl never asked, and didnt care just rang me up and complained about all the rain. no problems

thnx for the note

michele

[robinLynn]

u go girl

[Ginagirl]

hey michele,
how does your wife feel about venturing out? I haven't gone out yet, but I think should would be concerned for me, especially if out at a hotel.

[Ginagirl]

Excuse me i should have first commended you for going out. My apologies, your pic looks great and would like to have been in your shoes.

[Kaitlyn Michele]

GINA -

that is a very loaded question..i finally told my wife in march...since then i really think she has totally emotionally shut me out ....i really thought she would be a teeny bit accepting ormaybe even more, but she was devastated .. so......

i dress more....

and i go out....

and i lie ......

its not going well at all...except for the dressing..i've been out more in the last 2 months than maybe in the last 10 yrs..all i can say is tomorrow is another day

[tari]

Sorry the wife is not onboard. I know that feeling. How I wish they could understand.The gals here whose s/o are accepting are so lucky. I hope they realize how special that is.

[pantiesfortwo]

They are sooooo lucky unblieveable only in my dreams. Alissa:(

[Ginagirl]

Hi Michele
I'm sorry to here that your wife is not onboard. It's too bad and I would imagine very problematic. I hope you continue to try to get her onboard, it's so important for the both of you. Try to keep the communication open and flowing. My wife has accepted my dressing - luckily, but she wants me to go slowly in introducing new things. Maybe this is something that can work for you. You don't want too lose your wife, I'm sure that would be very painful. Try to set some boundaries. Take a step backwards if you have too. See if she's willing to meet you in the middle somewhere. Maybe after she gets comfortable then you can progess from there. If it saves your marriage it will be worth the sacrifice. Make sure you point out that a lot of the traits that she likes about you probably stem from your femme side.

Good Luck - keep us up to date -

On another note, You look Fabulous. I think you have an outragous figure. That probably pushes you to dress more, I know when I see what I like I tend to dress more also. It's kinda a self propagating fenom.

Behave yourself ;)

[uknowhoo]

Thanks for sharing your story, Michele.

How does it feel to be a liberated woman?

Btw, it would seem we may have the same build. I too was blessed w/ a nice girly butt, but no hips, of course. Yesterday I started a thread asking what type of padded panty might work for gals built like us. Both DanaJ and Angela XX recommended a 4 (removable) pad panty from Freddy's. Have you found another product that works quite well for you?

Thanks,

Tammi

[paulaN]

Ma'am so glad you had a good time. it is so much fun to go out. I have to get out again soon, I realy miss the excitment. running around in a dress is so much fun. thanks for telling us about your adventure.

[Kaitlyn Michele]

wow the thread that will not die!

my pads are soooo old..i got them at lee's mardi gras boutique in nyc in the eighties!!!!!! the thing about typical hip pad's (i got a pair from penneys recently) is that they are not long enough on the sides and they sit too high..

i actually tore out the bottom part of the sac that holds the pads on the side and pull the pads down a bit... in a perfect world the pad would start just at the hip point a touch higher then go half way down your legs...look at the pics of clothes models...hands at the side right at the widest part of the hip..thats what i go for. i use TWO waist cinchers...one is very very tight and small...over that i put on something called flexees from penney's and i use the longestone they have..

i use the ipex bra from victoria secret. and i use 2 of those jelly breast enhancers one on top of the other and its really cool because they jiggle, have some weight to them and i imagine feel like real breasts (at least a little??hehe)..

so thats it

hope that helps

michele

[Lauren415]

i was out for breakfast with a GG friend of mine today and the waiter ask what can i get for you ladys i was in drab!