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Jess Marie
07-24-2011, 09:57 PM
My SO and I were at my house alone and my parents called and said they would be heading home and would be about an hour. We got frisky and went upstairs to my room and got intimate. I thought I heard a car door shut, so I quickly dressed and went downstairs to check. It was not them but the food in the oven was going off so I got it out. I went upstairs to find my SO putting away some "accessories" and noticed she was in the wrong bag :x

We went downstairs and as I was scooping her a bowl of food she asked, "who's bras were in that bag?" I could feel my heart beat in my ears. "They are the costumes, sweetie" I quickly shot back. "Nooooo, they were not part of any costume, they were everyday bras" and I said, "ummm..." she got pissed and went upstairs. I ran after her, and she grabbed the bag. She opened it and started going through it, and asked if she saw a wig, i hung my head and said yes. She then proceeded to ask, "was this some kinky bedroom stuff you and your ex did or do you like to dress up?" I said I liked to dress up and she shot me an evil glare, which I totally deserved. She started looking through the bag and held up a dress, 3 bras, fake boobs (enhancers from wally world), make up, and wig. She just said to me, "why would you lie about this, after a year and a half, why?" I just said I was ashamed to tell her and scared of what she would think.

I will fast forward a few days...

We are at her house in the basement watching a movie. I ran to my car, grabbed the duffle with all my clothes in it and brought it downstairs. We went through the bag with EVERYTHING I own and she ended up wanting some of my clothes. She really liked one of my skirts, and took a bra/panty set. She tried on all of my bras and the matching panties, and even put in the fake boobs as well. I was hoping she would want me to dress in front of her or even do a little modeling like she was for me. But the call never came.

To this day, we don't talk about it. She has expressed disapproval and doesn't want to hear about it, but wants me to tell her if I fell the urge to dress.

What are your thoughts? Do I just keep letting things go the way they are? Does she really disapprove or does she not really care? She has had absolutely no problem with me being 24/7 panties for the past year and a half.

Marie-Elise
07-25-2011, 03:50 AM
I would tell her I have the urge one night. At that point, she would have to let you know how she feels about it.

Cynthia Anne
07-25-2011, 04:09 AM
I can only agree with Yangstyle! Let her knowthat you have the 'urge' ad take it from there! And oh yes! Let us know how it goes! Hugs!

ReineD
07-25-2011, 04:27 AM
I agree with the others. Let her know that you need to dress, and ask her if she is willing to find out more about this with you, so that you both can figure out how the CDing will play out in your relationship. Invite her to go through the forum with you so she can read a few threads, and use them as a springboard for any questions she might have.

She is not suggesting that you should dress because she understands very little about this. She probably doesn't know what to do.

(I think I've just set my record for the shortest advice post ever, lol)

Maria in heels
07-25-2011, 04:42 AM
I agree as well. It seems like she wanted to go thru and take some of your clothes, especially the skirt, so that she could wear it in front of you, almost as if to tease Jess, and show you that it was ok...let her know, but don't jump to the conclusion that she will say yes the first tome that she asks.