The perfect Birthday Present

[kendra_gurl]

I have a birthday coming up next month and in the past the wife and I have gone on a few weekend en-femme trips together to celebrate it. We have gone to the theater, to dinner and the casinos but really kept pretty much to ourselves.

Last night she gave me this very serious look then ask What would be your ultimate birthday wish? From start to finish what would make your birthday the most special one you have ever had?

Before I answer my own question I'd love to here from every one here if your wife ask this of you. (knowing that you dress)

[NV Susan]

Win the lottery!!! Then go pick up the money dressed en femme!!! :D

[erica2]

Obviously, I am behind the curve (in more ways than one!) compared to many of the members here, but my birthday just passed. My wife continued to surprise me with the birthday presents she gave. She did this in three steps. The first was buying me two pairs of pumps, and a pair of flats. After a week or so, she found a local place that sells wigs, and insisted I go with her and "at least look at what they have." I went, I came home with new hair - nice new hair too! And the on the day itseelf, there was a gift bag left on the table at breakfast. She asked me if I was going to look (and my thoughts were not on the bag, but on breakfast and COFFEE!), and I said I'd probably wait until our stepdaughter was here later that day. She said that probably wouldn't be a good idea, and handed me one of the items from the bag, telling me I should go ahead and open at least that one. I did, and it was a new dress she had bought after we had been shopping at some point, but was one I mentioned I liked. After opening it, I agreed that it was best to have done this now, and after breakfast I went in and put it on. It fits perfect, I really like it, and I am still in shock that at this age this is the first time I EVER got a dress for my birthday. Of course, I also put on a pair of shoes and the wig. (She said I looked good - however, I think she's a little partial personally.) I know I never have felt like that before.

May not be the perfect fantasy birthday for you, but I assure you, it worked for me!

Good luck with your day of fun, and I hope you have a happy one too!

I am Erica 2
(and a year older)

[Madilyn A.]

For me, the perfect birthday gift would be a week on the road to meet some of my girlfriends on this site. Girls who have become so near and dear to me, who I truly admire. My wife has given me many gifts of clothing, shoes and lingerie of which I am thankful, but my wish would be to meet my girlfriends !!

[sissystephanie]

At my advanced age the perfect birthday gift is to be alive and functioning on that day. It has already passed this year, so I will have to wait for next year!

My late wife did usually give me something very feminine for my birthday, including an occasional dress or fancy skirt!! She usually wore skirts or dresses herself and preferred that I did the same.

[LeannL]

Kendra,

It depends upon your status. If you were out to a number of friends, I think having a real birthday party with all of my friends while dressed would be really nice. The flip side would be a weekend at a spa for the two "girls" with all of the pampering that goes along with it. How about a weekend in Paris en femme (unless, of course, that is where you live then it would be New York or Tokyo)? I am sure someone else can add to this list.

Leann

[Michaela42]

Just one day to go out to a museum, then a nice dinner followed by a visit to the theater or symphony would be divine. Either that or an unlimited credit card at a bunch of stores that carried my sizes. Either or.

[Alice B]

I really can't advise you, but your wife is truly special and I look forward to hearing what you decide and the results

[Jeannie]

For me, the perfect birthday gift would be a week on the road to meet some of my girlfriends on this site. Girls who have become so near and dear to me, who I truly admire. My wife has given me many gifts of clothing, shoes and lingerie of which I am thankful, but my wish would be to meet my girlfriends !!

I like that idea also but if I couldn't do that then just go to the mall and shop without fear of being recognized.

[suchacutie]

I've been thinking that a "makeover" would be just terrific, especially in that it would give someone else a chance to visualize how Tina might present herself.

Soooo, my suggestion would be that each of you get a makeover!

tina

[Persephone]

Ultimate Birthday wish might be for happiness and health for you and your family, but since your wife isn't likely to also be your fairy Godmother, here's a more practical thought:


http://i3.photobucket.com/albums/y53/sandylewiscares/AmericanExpressBlack.jpg

A nice American Express Centurion "Black" card in your femme name.

Hugs,
Persephone.

[susmitha]

it would be best if my wife asks me for a week in which both of us are crossdressed and live in reversed roles.

[Paula Siemen]

How about a pass to Southern Comfort in Atlanta.....with her of course.

[Diane Smith]

I dunno, Persephone, that black card with the Roman dude on it looks awfully butch to me. Don't they have a pink one with flowers or fairies or something?

- Diane

[RichardCD]

My birthday just passed last month in July. If I had a choice mine would be to be with my SO for a weekend ( or week - being greedy ) that we took a trip somewere that we have never been and where I could dress enfem in the hotle room, but able to go out on dinner dates together. I have no want to be out in public dressed.

[Intertwined]

Sure, I could wish for $1,000,000 or World peace, thats not going to happen..

My wish, although unlikely, is possible (may be) To go to the Tattoo parlor with my wife, and we both get tattoos we want. I currently have NO tattoos, my wife has 5.

[kendra_gurl]

Several nice ideas so far. I like the idea of us both going for the spa day together and a total makeover and our nails done for us both.

I got a makeover once about 10 years ago but it was rushed and I was still in my drab clothes until I got home so one done while already my evenings wardrobe might be quite nice.

If a contract I'm waiting for on some commercial property comes through we might be able to make it a week in Vegas event. OH the possibilities there.

I know what ever she plans for us I want to not take any male clothing at all so there will be no way to chicken out of anything.

Last time (and only time) I had nail tips put on in a salon I swore if I ever get them again it must be for at least a week long trip because of the difficulty getting them off.

[kimdl93]

Let's hope the contract comes through - I think a week in Vegas (without any retreat to male attire) sounds like a tremendous birthday event. Particularly if you get the nail tips! Go Kendra!

[kendra_gurl]

Yes Kim I know it would be fun. We were there in 2005 and again in 2009 but I was switching back and forth because some places I was just not real comfortable about being seen. I think it would be very empowering to be forced to deal with those fears and overcome them

[kimdl93]

I think you're absolutely right, Kendra. My guess is you'll quickly overcome the fears and have a great week! My wife and I are contemplating a trip to Costa Rica next year, and at least right now, the plan is a girls vacation...no male clothes allowed! As the day draws nearer, we'll see if my resolve holds up!

[hoselvr]

If I had my wish I would love for my wife to take me for a professional makeover and get some pictures done. Then after that was over, she could take me shopping and then we could finish the night off with some drinks and dinner at a nice restaurant. That would be amazing!

[Rachel Morley]

I know what ever she plans for us I want to not take any male clothing at all so there will be no way to chicken out of anything.
My wife and I have been away for weekends with me being en femme the whole time and it was her who said to me "You can't take any boy clothes so you have to stay as a girl the whole time. I don't want you chickening out of anything!" It made me feel scared and exited at the same time. Gosh, I love that woman of mine :)

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Kendra, The perfect birthday gift would for my wife to accept me dressed up.

Orchid

[5150 Girl]

Win the lottery!!! Then go pick up the money dressed en femme!!! :D


Sounds like a plan to me!!! :)

[Cheryl T]

In terms of dressing...I will be receiving my gift in October. My wife and I will be taking a "girls only" vacation. It will be the first time that I will have spent an entire week as Cheryl. No male things going on the trip.
We plan to sightsee and shop and such, with a few nights out on the town. Still can't decide what dress to wear or what skirts/blouses to take along. All I know is that it is something I've always wanted to do and she is giving me that gift. I can't wait.

[Joann Smith]

to go to concert then dinner afterwards ...on her dime

Joann

[countrygirl]

It would have to be a wedding where I am totally dressed to the nines as the bride and have the full experience in being the bride.

[kendra_gurl]

Cheryl sounds like we both have the perfect wives. I've been thinking a lot about what to tell mine and have just about decided to only say "I will love whatever you plan and promise to do anything and everything you say".

I think after 42years she probably knows what I like better than I do and allowing her to plan it all without me giving her a list of things she may feel pressured to make happen will make us both enjoy it even more

[t-girlxsophie]

To spend all day as Sophie with my Wife doing just everyday things shopping,dining out etc,and enjoying each others company would be the perfect birthday for me,she knows me better than I know myself at times.

Its our 4th Anniversary soon and we are hoping to (much like last year) do such a day/weekend then.

Sophie

[bomba]

wow what a great question, ultamate of any thing else,for me is this.MY WIFE DECIDES TO DOMINATE ME,SHE WANTS TO FEMINISZED ME. BUT I NEED TO TAKE OVER ALL HOUSEHOLD BUSNISS.DISHES LAUNDRY EVERYTHING.SHE DRESSES ME UP (NOING ALL ALONG WERE MY STUFF WAS) HAS ME HELP HER GET READY FOR HER DATE,NAILS HAIR, LAYING OUT HER CLOTHS,THAT SORT OF THING.GIVING ME A LIST OFF CHOIRS BEFORE SHE LEAVES. durning the nite im dressed as a maid,later when she calls telling how hot her guy is,she has me dress in lingeray. later, right before she comes home she calls and has me meet her at the door ready to take her shoes off. she lets me worship her and sevice her as she tells me what a good sissy girl i am. she promisses me she will help me dress to go out with her on the town as her girlfriend.................................will never happen

[Shelly67]

I think my perfect birthday present would have to be stay at home with my partner , have a lovely meal , glass of wine ...... well the rest is up to the imagination .
Speaking of which , imagining a dream birthday ,would love to be dressed to the nines , watching a dance floor erupt as I dj for the crowd .
Or , even better , pilot the Millenium Falcon in a pvc catsuit .
:)