Need advice quick!

[desa ray]

I am currently feaking out :eek:
I have come out to some friends but not all. later some of the friends are coming over and they will meet Desa for the first time as well as find out I'm a C/D, I want to come out to everyone but am so anxious and nervous. my G/GF says go for it and that I look great but I just don't know.
seeking advice from my friends here.
Desa

[Fundy]

Hi Desa

I'm not exactly sure what you want advice about - but if it is how you look in the photos you posted, I think you look great!

[Kaitlyn26]

What's the worst that could happen? After you find the answer to that question, ask yourself if you can live with that in the case that it does happen. Now you have the answer as to what you need to be doing.

[Shelly Preston]

First I would says all those coming need to know about Desa

You should not suddenly appear as Desa as some may not be happy about this even if they understand about your dressing

Knowing is one thing seeing is quite another


If all of those visiting are happy to see Desa then just try and relax

[desa ray]

Hi Desa

I'm not exactly sure what you want advice about - but if it is how you look in the photos you posted, I think you look great!

I'M not sure either. Just panicking a little.

[desa ray]

First I would says all those coming need to know about Desa

You should not suddenly appear as Desa as some may not be happy about this even if they understand about your dressing

Knowing is one thing seeing is quite another

That is a very good point.

[Sara Jessica]

First I would says all those coming need to know about Desa

You should not suddenly appear as Desa as some may not be happy about this even if they understand about your dressing

Knowing is one thing seeing is quite another


If all of those visiting are happy to see Desa then just try and relax

Very good advice.


I have always had in mind that if I were somehow outed to friends, I wouldn't be looking to exploit such knowledge as an excuse to have them meet my better side (short of transitioning, of course). Your friends may be comfortable in knowing of your TG nature but meeting you in girl mode takes things to an entirely new level. It's not something to take on lightly or with haste.

[Tammy V]

You do look great, I hope everything goes well for you. Maybe you should consider just talking to them first , Then showing them when they are ready.

[Joanne f]

First I would says all those coming need to know about Desa

You should not suddenly appear as Desa as some may not be happy about this even if they understand about your dressing

Knowing is one thing seeing is quite another


If all of those visiting are happy to see Desa then just try and relax

I agree with Shelly , and make sure they know what you will be dressed like before hand and decide what is most important to you , being who you are when you like or friendships.

[desa ray]

Thanks all I! I decided to not surprise them. maybe I'll just see if I can bring it up tonight. I hated taking everything off but in the end I agree that its better to ease into it.
Thanks again,
Desa.

[Rachel Mari]

I think it was a good idea not to surprise your friends and to wait until they want to meet Desa Ray.

Let us know it goes when you do bring it up to them.
I haven't told any of my friends but the urge, and desire, is strong to tell someone about myself. This forum is one thing but telling a friend in person is another.

[Rachel Morley]

I you have 100% support from your GG girlfriend then nothing else matters. :)