tanyalynn51
09-06-2011, 11:11 AM
I shared this on another part of the forum, and the moderator suggested i put it out here, so here it is (It isnt the exact entry, but close enough). I havent been on here for 5 months or so. When last I was on here, I was beginning to have some of the problems that I am now, but not nearly as many.
Back then, I was seeing a therapist, and although I had been taken off of HRT due to other physical reasons, there was hope for it, or other possibilities. My biggest problem was that I was working at a Religious homeless shelter. It is the field I want to be in, my calling. But, this is a very conservative place. I definitely cant openly transition while Im there. For reasons I dont remember right now, I dropped out of therapy. But, here is where the worst part comes in. My therapist was having trouble billing my insurance, so she called the HR department at my job to get it taken care of. She couldnt have revealed anything, or I would know and be in serious trouble. But, not only is she the only gender therapist that my insurance covers, she is the one I trusted. I seriously question that now, although on the other hand, I know she had to get paid, too. That ultimately wasnt her fault or mine- it was a screwup on the insurance's part. Now, Im down to only one friend who knows about me. I dont go out, because even in support groups, I may see transgendered people from the streets that I know. Im ready to chuck the whole thing and go back to security, where I made more money anyway. But, I would never be really happy, even if i could transition. There has to be a way to find someway to work with homeless people and transition. And, I need to figure out whether I can trust my old therapist or not, because, I dont know if I want to go through this again. Any ideas, anyone, on either count?
Back then, I was seeing a therapist, and although I had been taken off of HRT due to other physical reasons, there was hope for it, or other possibilities. My biggest problem was that I was working at a Religious homeless shelter. It is the field I want to be in, my calling. But, this is a very conservative place. I definitely cant openly transition while Im there. For reasons I dont remember right now, I dropped out of therapy. But, here is where the worst part comes in. My therapist was having trouble billing my insurance, so she called the HR department at my job to get it taken care of. She couldnt have revealed anything, or I would know and be in serious trouble. But, not only is she the only gender therapist that my insurance covers, she is the one I trusted. I seriously question that now, although on the other hand, I know she had to get paid, too. That ultimately wasnt her fault or mine- it was a screwup on the insurance's part. Now, Im down to only one friend who knows about me. I dont go out, because even in support groups, I may see transgendered people from the streets that I know. Im ready to chuck the whole thing and go back to security, where I made more money anyway. But, I would never be really happy, even if i could transition. There has to be a way to find someway to work with homeless people and transition. And, I need to figure out whether I can trust my old therapist or not, because, I dont know if I want to go through this again. Any ideas, anyone, on either count?