getting friendly with another CD can be dangerous

[DeniseNJ]

When I say dangerous, I mean it as Pun , Yes it is intended:D I need to ask you girls a question. Lately I have been having communications with another girl in here. We both have told intimate details about our wishes and fantacies. I believe I am on the same page as this girl. Here's where it gets scary but thrilling. I can't wait to come home and go to this site and see if she wrote back. As with some Cd's fall and winter is a time where we can be a little more feminine and do things that we don't do in summer. Talking to this girl has got me started in my quest to be more feminine alot early this year. There is talk of possibility meeting and for some reason I want to look good for her, is that normal?? Last night I go out with my girly sandles and jeans, some mascrea and sparkly lip gloss. I first stop at this store that I go to alot and the girl behind the register smiles but don't say a word. I go to payless, I have a light beige color on my toes. One SA says cute sandles. I want to get these sandles called POP Star but the store don't have them. I ask the girl if they can look them up. Just then the young girl whips out her Ipod and looks them up on line, You believe the store can't do that. I admitted to her that I enjoy crossdressing and next thing I know, another girl is leading me to the size 12 womans and suggests some shoes, not into the cork wedges so I just order the sandles , new heels next... feeling good now. I go next door to buy some sexy panties, one thong and 2 lace french cut pair. I hate it when I get a young guy as a SA but he was the only one there. He was looking at me weird as he was checking me out and says HUMM. I paid and away I went. To the beauty supply store and get some actone and 2 shades of Polish PS: Cheap nail enamel is that cheap!!! goes on shinny but looses it shine when it drys. Today I go to another beauty supply store and try on wigs and the mexican girl was having a blast and helped me pick out a sweet long wig, some lip gloss and some eye shadow and away I go. I am a little scared that it is getting easier telling people that I enjoy crossdressing, usually I wait till 2 weeks before Halloween to buy stuff, Yes I used halloween as an excuse before but now I don't need to, the thought of making a new cd friend that pushes the limits too has me excited. I have been wearing bra's more lately and it just feels right , wearing those thongs now and feeling great. I can't wait to try on the new wig I bought with full make-up. I had to buy some cheap clip ons, I might really loose my mind and go have my ear pierced, how I want to wear some large hoops when I go out. So in a nut shell should I be scared, I must say that thought of meeting this gir land what ever could happen after that has my horemones flowing. I could be a little wild and who knows what fanticies might just happen. Thanks for reading this girls , heart pumping , I think I will go polish my toes to calm down! Hugs Denise

[prettytoes]

I have to agree...painting my toes always calms my nerves!

[sandra-leigh]

Why would it be loosing your mind to get your ears pierced?

I will be honest: BP (before piercing) I used to sometimes wear clip-ons in public, and if I was in mixed mode or guy mode, it had to be something small and subtle, preferably normally hidden by my ears. Being "daring" for me involved moving my sideburns a little so that my little earrings were more visible while I rode a bus for a while.

Now, AP (after piercing), I wear dangling female earrings nearly all the time (sometimes I forget to put them in if I took them out to keep them from getting broken while I slept.) I found that studs don't do much for me and tend to pull through my ears (ouch!). Chin level is more common than not for me, and I wear lower sometimes. Really big hoops (such as shoulder level) sometimes but not often... they don't really suit me. More of a problem with the hoops, though, is that the ones I have are cheap metal and the oxide on them hurts my ears.

"nearly all the time" includes work for me. I've worn some pretty obvious earrings at work, including ones that fall a couple of inches below my shoulder.

The number of negative comments I've had about my earrings... ummm, I'm not sure I've ever had any, except my wife asking me to tone things down while she got accustomed to them. Most people don't seem to pay attention to them; some people (mostly GG) specifically mention that they like my earrings.

BP, I don't think I could have imagined wearing dangles at work routinely: I was expecting at most to get to the point of being comfortable with studs at work, switching to more noticeable earrings only when I was Going Out. But it was startling, AP, how quickly I got used to earrings and decided to wear obvious ones in every-day life.

Or is that the scary part, that you are afraid you will love them? ;-)

[MissMarcie]

Or is that the scary part, that you are afraid you will love them? ;-)
I dunno about the OP of this thread, but I can say that's what scares me about getting pierced ears.

[DeniseNJ]

I dunno about the OP of this thread, but I can say that's what scares me about getting pierced ears.


I believe my Job has a policy about Guys with pireced ears, Something about being unprofessional and that is just one ear pierced.:eek: Would I love the feeling of the long dangling ear rings swaying as I walk or better yet buy the nicer one I always wanted but they only came in pierced>> YOU BET

[Wendae]

Pierced ears are the only way to go. Mine are triple pierced and I love it. Fortunately I'm retired and don't have to worry about workplace dress codes.
I've always wanted to make friends with another Cd but something holds me back.