Wish for some help but not strong enough to do it in public....

[CheyenneNicky]

Well... I am moving into a place of my own. here really soon, so i will have my privacy. I always wanted to try CDing but never had the privacy i wanted. well now i do. and was wondering if any girls like Men in their clothes and would help me dress up... like help me pic out outfits. *blushes* i am really nervous and not able to go out in public to look at stuff. but i have looked at some sites such as Feminizeme.com ... so ladys... can you help me get this out of my system cause maybe its just a temp fetish or what not. i would like to have some help,,,,, cause what if my future other is in no way liking what i want to do...plus being in the military and people seeing me like this, would bring to much attention to me

[kimdl93]

before you start advertising for women to dress you up, I'd strongly recommend that you start getting to know women...as human beings, friends, and potentially as companions. Then, if you happen to meet one that works well with you, you might reveal - and with their consent - begin to explore the other parts of your persona.

[CheyenneNicky]

well.. I deffinately know women on a personal level, seeing as how i have lived mostly women all my life. as my father was always deployed, my mother would be at work and i would play with my 3 sisters to include doing their nails for them. and i was that guy that could never get a girlfriend cause i was the guy... ya know the one they would date if they werent friends *sighs*. yeah maybe i will find someone who i could reveal myself too. and its kinda hard to start a persona for me, so much going on that i dont know where to start. so i figured i would start off in my own house with daily chores, relaxing, and deffinately sleeping... (no i dont believe women are only good for those, just want to basically be my own house wife)


I would suggest buying some stuff on Ebay. Consider it a dry run.


:) good idea, but i am not sure if people would want to ship to italy. oh yeah thats another obstical (sorry about spelling) Living here is kinda hard to hang with a women and get that close. either they are military and word spreads fast and im not ready to open up to someone like that, or there is a language barrier

[kimdl93]

I wouldn't start a relationship with a woman by advertising your preferences in attire. Really, you have to get to know someone pretty well before you can have any idea how they might react. By that point, you're entering into a serious relationship, Nicky.

[CheyenneNicky]

right i agree, and i am not ready for a relationship, honestly, I have been hurt big time, by girls... so i am very cautious when i talk to them. but again being Military over seas... i dont know how i could start a relationship with a girl to get to know her to find my own persona. its not that i am asking for someone to go out with me, but suggestions on what i should try. I hope i am making sense, and dont sound rude... my boss is right. I need to take that writing comp class in college before Bio3. lol

[docrobbysherry]

Forget the writing class, Cheyenne. Take that LATER. Rite now, u have more important things on your mind. Like shopping. Go off the base and buy some ladies things. Try on the items you've been dying to try. See if u like them. If so, add some more. If not, try some others. Eventually, you'll figure out who and what u r and what u like! Relax, and enjoy, you've all the time in the world!
If anyone sees your ladies stuff, they'll think you've got a girlfriend!

And, they may be rite!

[eluuzion]

The first thought that popped into my mind after reading your post was...
"Think Less, Act More...Life is Short".:)

"Cd-ing", just like kids...does not come with an operator manual.When things do not come with operator manuals, I just assume they are intended to be an adventure in learning.:heehee:

I am not clear as to what your goal is here...a girlfriend, a fashion consultant or something else.

Online shopping is a great tool. All of the online clothing merchants have lots of models displaying the clothes, which helps you learn coordinating outfits. Most have a "help" feature where you can text questions for clarification on any of their products.

There are myriads of websites and forums on fashion and other areas that you can join and get the opinions/help of "100's" of women for free. (and you don't even have to buy them dinner!)

Italy is not an "island". It is part of the world of E-bay just like everyplace else. In my opinion, you are in a better place than the USA as far as access to style/fashion/clothing.

Clean out one of those foot lockers, pick up your cell phone...and start your adventure!

Have Fun :hugs:

:love:

[CheyenneNicky]

I Love your outlook on it. I want to and i was looking at E-bay. and your right i am looking more for a girlfriend persay, to help me pick out something... and trying to find heels cause i would like a pair

[kassy]

As a fellow military member who likes the feel of the fem clothes would love to talk more. My wife is very supportive though

[CheyenneNicky]

That is totally wonderful ! ^-^ i hope i find a wife that will be the same way
As a fellow military member who likes the feel of the fem clothes would love to talk more. My wife is very supportive though