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titli
09-29-2011, 11:38 PM
Hi!

I have been an inactive member for so long now! Inactive mainly because I am inactive in my dressing and hardly get a chance to be my other self.

Staying with aging parents and growing children in the same house and struggling with your career does not help a lot - even if the wife supports me fully.

But these days I have a 'never before' chance as my whole family excluding me and our dog is sway on a short vacation and I am home alone. I am exploiting this fully. I got chance to have a nice hair-less chest for the first time in my life.

So I am moving around the house being "my wife' and doing her duties... managing my and my dog's breakfast, doing dishes, clothes and other household chores... In turn of course dirtying my (her) clothes, drying my hands with detergent, making my nails filthily... in short not exactly a glamorous woman, but rather a a housewife... And you know what, I am enjoying this immensely...

I will have to be back to my male self during the period when domestic help and my office staff arrives, but apart from that I am able to be 'Titli'

Perhaps not every crossdresser's dream, but surely its my dream come true... In fact, I just wanted to share my joy and feelings with you, hence the post.

~Love &
stay beautiful...

ReineD
09-29-2011, 11:59 PM
Hi Titli, welcome back to the forum! :hugs:

It's amazing to me, no matter what culture, what socio-economic background, what political or religious beliefs, crossdressers' stories are amazingly similar .. same issues, same concerns, same preferences. The TG community really is global, isn't it?

Enjoy your time alone! :)

titli
09-30-2011, 01:11 AM
I swear. I recently discussed the same thing with a friend... no matter where you are in the world, the feeling is identical. In fact it gives a great reassurance to you that 'you are not alone'...
Thanks for the reply, and yes I wish to make the most of this time.

Cynthia Anne
09-30-2011, 07:57 AM
Hi Titli! It's nice to have you with us! It's also nice that your wife supports you in this! I truley hope you find more time to be yourself and enjoy the pleasures of life!! Hugs!

titli
09-30-2011, 08:57 AM
First Row attempt at creating cleavage...
http://i1129.photobucket.com/albums/m514/titlicd/110930-022637.jpg

and a few more shaking steps...
http://i1129.photobucket.com/albums/m514/titlicd/110930-022454.jpg

Thanks a lot Cynthia! I really feel welcome here. Thanks for all the good wishes... I can use every bit of luck and good wishes that I can gather.

xristy
09-30-2011, 09:03 AM
I recently had some time where I was left alone and was able to get some much needed time for myself. As CDers, some of us don't get the time that others do to dress. It seems for me that the longer between times I get to dress, when I do, I go all out. It is something that never goes away and just remains repressed until you get that time.

I wish there were more time to dress and express this side of me.

Great pics and enjoy yourself.

Tina B.
09-30-2011, 09:13 AM
Titli, welcome, it's funny, if you had not shown where you are at, I could have thought you where a neighbor, here in California, USA, it sounds just like you there. I'm glad that you have an understanding wife, it sure makes things easier, doesn't it. But having both older family, and kids, it has to be hard to find anytime to yourself I'll bet. Maybe you could send them off on vacation more often, ha ha. For your first attempt at cleavage, you did a great job, very real looking. Love the necklace by the way. I have to agree with you and Reine, no matter where you are in the world, what we do, and why, seems so familiar, so much the same, I think that shows, it's not cultural, but built in from birth, we can be so different, yet so much a like.
Tina B.

titli
09-30-2011, 09:23 AM
Thanks Tina for all the encouragement. Yes, its is amazing how similar our stories can be.
I would love to send them off to vacation more often. lol. but then I also long to take a break with them.
I am not complaining and wish to make the most of this opportunity. Nice to be able to share feelings with you all. It gives a sense of belonging.
Thanks and all the best in life...

Thanks Xristy and I couldn't agree with you more... I really wish I could do this more often.... But rather than being greedy and wishing for more, I choose to thank my fortunes and my dear wife for this and make the most of it while it lasts....
Love...

kimdl93
09-30-2011, 10:55 AM
Cute top, Titli! I know that a lot of those here are dealing with similar less than ideal circumstances - unemployment, aging and ill parents, etc. I'm glad that you have your wife's support. That makes all the diffence!