Only your hairdresser knows for sure

[marny]

The women who cuts my hair is a friend of more than thirty years. She has seen my toes painted and she has seen me wearing forms. i want to ask her to start femminizing my hair but I'm a little nervous about it. Any advice?

[Shadeauxmarie]

Instead of telling her aloud, why don't you show her a picture? Ask her, "Can you start styling my hair to look more like this?"

[DanaR]

You might just ask her, "what could we do with my hair if I let it grow out a bit"?

[Diane Smith]

People in the beauty industry seem to be an accepting lot as a whole, and many of them actually like the challenge of helping us with our atypical gender presentation. If she's seen you with forms and nail polish, I think the cat is at least 90% of the way out of the bag anyway, and her reaction may well be something like, "I've been waiting for you to ask me that!"

Go for it.

- Diane

[bridget thronton]

Showing her a pic might be a good idea (at least that worked for me)

[bridgetta]

Just say exactly what you want.

[Jonianne]

I told mine I wanted a page style hair cut with bangs and she had no problem and went right to work. As others mentioned, take a pic from one of the fashion mags to show her what you want.

Don't be afraid, just do it.

[Nicole Erin]

So she has seen you with forms and your toes painted?
Why are you scared to ask her for a feminine hairstyle? Not like she will look at you weird.