JanetK
10-21-2011, 10:43 AM
Hello All,
I just wanted to make a couple of observations about some things I have experienced over the past 24 hours:
1. I purchased some Black patent clogs (similar to these: http://www.allheart.com/dsprofpat.html#i) last night for $15 at Burlington Coat Factory (thought they looked cute and they are extremely comfortable). I decided to wear these shoes on the way home (only other femme clothing was panties and pantyhose--male jeans and t for outer clothing). While on the drive, I decided to stop at the Dollar Tree to pick up some items. I wanted to see what people's reactions would be to a man in mens clothing wearing a borderline androgynous but obviously female pair of shoes. The reaction was amazing! There was none! People did not gawk, laugh, make comments, or even pay me any mind while I was in there. I went in there with the attitude that I didn't care if anyone did laugh or comment, and the confidence definitely helped. I did not feel the need to run at all, and actually shopped next to a few people. It was eye opening.
2. I decided to wear my tights today with a pair of womens jeans (sorry Karren--it is jeans Friday so I couldn't wear my slacks :)) for the drive into work (along with a bra and ladies knit shirt). Normally I would stop along the way and change into my mens jeans and shirt. Today I decided to test the waters. For the past 4 hours I have been in the office with my Riders jeans on and my bra still on underneath my t-shirt ( I had to change from the knit shirt and aforementioned clogs) and I do not think anyone has noticed. I have even interacted closely with several people. It is amazing how oblivious others are to what people are wearing. I guess as a CD I pay a little more attention to clothes. :)
I just wanted to make a couple of observations about some things I have experienced over the past 24 hours:
1. I purchased some Black patent clogs (similar to these: http://www.allheart.com/dsprofpat.html#i) last night for $15 at Burlington Coat Factory (thought they looked cute and they are extremely comfortable). I decided to wear these shoes on the way home (only other femme clothing was panties and pantyhose--male jeans and t for outer clothing). While on the drive, I decided to stop at the Dollar Tree to pick up some items. I wanted to see what people's reactions would be to a man in mens clothing wearing a borderline androgynous but obviously female pair of shoes. The reaction was amazing! There was none! People did not gawk, laugh, make comments, or even pay me any mind while I was in there. I went in there with the attitude that I didn't care if anyone did laugh or comment, and the confidence definitely helped. I did not feel the need to run at all, and actually shopped next to a few people. It was eye opening.
2. I decided to wear my tights today with a pair of womens jeans (sorry Karren--it is jeans Friday so I couldn't wear my slacks :)) for the drive into work (along with a bra and ladies knit shirt). Normally I would stop along the way and change into my mens jeans and shirt. Today I decided to test the waters. For the past 4 hours I have been in the office with my Riders jeans on and my bra still on underneath my t-shirt ( I had to change from the knit shirt and aforementioned clogs) and I do not think anyone has noticed. I have even interacted closely with several people. It is amazing how oblivious others are to what people are wearing. I guess as a CD I pay a little more attention to clothes. :)