An Interesting Experience

[Maria Ann]

I spent last weekend with one of my GG friends and her husband, the whole time I was with them I was enfemme( makeup, nails and toe nails were all done and visible, wig). The interesting part of the weekend was when a male friend of theirs came over on two separate occasions and was very obviously hitting on me, the first time I had my wig on, the second time I didn't. And mind you that I am no where near being able to actually pass( how I hate that term, but for a lack of a better one), I do not have a hairless body(back), or the proper voice. I am sure that this has probably happened to many of you, but this is the first time that I have actually been seen by this many people while dressed, not to mention by someone that I didn't know. It was definitely a moral builder for me.

[sissystephanie]

Anna, I have to say that looking at your Avatar you certainly do pass as far as I am concerned.. The only time that I could ever pass was when my late wife did my makeup and fixed my wig. She had the ability to make me totally passible, except for my voice. I have a very definite masculine voice, and cannot get it into a feminine range.

Anyhow it sounds like you really had fun, especially with a man hitting on you!! In all the years that I have been a CD I have never had that happen!! It certainly has to be a morale builder!! Much good luck in your future!!

[Maria Ann]

Thank you Stephanie. I had less makeup on, and I had more skin showing this last weekend than I did in that picture.

[Cynthia Anne]

I agree with Stephani and agree that would be a great moral booster! Shave the unwanted hair and enjoy yourself even more! Hugs!

[Maria Ann]

That is hopefully going to be taken care of this weekend, and thank you Cynthia.

[NV Susan]

So Anna, did you give him your number? Are you going out? Please! give us all the juicy gossip! :battingeyelashes:

[Maria Ann]

Hi Susan, no I didn't give him my number, I don't think that I am really ready for that yet.

[Maria Ann]

Do you ladies think that I should have just went ahead and given him my number?

[Kittyagain]

Do you ladies think that I should have just went ahead and given him my number?

If you were in a bar when you meet him then no but this was with friends. Ask you GG friend this question..

I agree with the others on your picture.

Kitty

[Maria Ann]

Thank you Kitty, I will definitely ask her when I talk to her next.

[SarahLynn]

Do you ladies think that I should have just went ahead and given him my number?

Anna before i can properly answer this question i'd have to ask if you are gay. This is strictly a retorical question. If so and you feel comfortable in company with this man then i'd say, yes give him your number.

When i was dating (I'm most certainly hetro) i always give her my number first thus letting her know i'm open to her contacting me when and if she chooses. This reduces the threat level several hundred percent. I didn't always get a call but i can tell you of the women i dated only one thought i was being forward and every one appriciated the fact i was thinking of her comfort level.

SarahLynn

[docrobbysherry]

Do you ladies think that I should have just went ahead and given him my number?

Why r u asking us? We didn't meet him! Personally, I think you're lucky to have the experience of being "hit on", Anna!

I get hit on online. However, up close and in person, those S eating grins turn into ghastly grimaces!

[Marissa333]

I feel if you are gay, and actually attracted to this person, then go for it. He is obviously aware of who you are (prolly asked your friends about you) so you shouldn't feel inadequate around him as if you are going to surprise him with some revelation. Good for you girl!

I am hetero and I was hit on by guys both times I went out in public (still a mystery to me as I was obviously very mannish at the time). Once I was at Queen Mary's in Hollywood (I believe no longer exists) and once in Hollywood in my car waiting in traffic, that was at a standstill because it was Hollywood on Holloween (any girls who have been in Hollywood on Holloween know what I am talking about). At QM's I was sitting near the bar just sitting back trying to get comfortable, when this dude sits next to me, dressed nice and even though I am hetero I can recognize he is attractive. He was very creepy though and started saying things like "what kind of panty's are you wearing?" and "oooo pull your dress up higher so I can see your thighs" instead of actually talking to me. I got so creeped out that I left after only being there 30 minutes and over an hour drive to get there. Second time when I was in my car, my makeup looked its best, and I had a really pretty real hair wig. Like an ass, this guy starts cat calling at me out the car window. He was saying lude things gross enough for me to forget forever. I act nice and say something like "no thanks" or something like that. Then like he was hit by lightning says loud and very rude "are you a dude? Is that a dude?" I just ignored him, rolled my window up and tried to move the car forward enough to lose eye contact with him.

So I guess that was a very long story to say your experience was much much better LOL.

[Marissa333]

I wanna add that it would be really hot of he is strait, knows you are transgendered, and still pursues you because he can't control how attracted he is to you. The ultimate compliment!

[Maria Ann]

Thank you Sarah, I have thought about that aspect, and am curious about it, but have never acted on it.

[DonnaT]

Some men/women are just attracted to us.

http://www.salon.com/2011/10/21/whats_behind_transsexual_attraction/

[Dawn cd]

It certainly must have helped your morale. Whether it built your morals depends on whether you gave in to his advances.

[Maria Ann]

It was very much a moral booster for me. But there is always that little voice in the back of my mind that was screaming "your not ready to go there yet".

[Maria Ann]

Here is a bit of an update. Apparently the gentleman has been hounding my friend and her husband to find out more about me and when I will be coming over again.

[billie earls]

Maybe it's something in you and not the outer you. I would at least find out about him and then make up your mind, you may be more ready then you think.

[Maria Ann]

Thank you Billie, He has told my friends that there is something about me that he really finds attractive.

[sanderlay]

Do you ladies think that I should have just went ahead and given him my number?



If you were in a bar when you meet him then no but this was with friends. Ask you GG friend this question..

I agree with the others on your picture.

I'm going to assume you're interested if you have to ask the question. But are you ready for that kind of attention if you have to ask the question?

This is a question you must ask yourself. I can't tell from your profile if you just like the clothes and wearing them... or you wish to change how you present your gender. It's such a complex question for all of us because we all do this for different reasons. And I'm being overly simplistic. Who each of are attracted too has nothing to do with the clothing we wear. But I believe it can enhance how we feel about ourselves and present to the other person.

My advise would be to take it slow. Create friendships first... and take it from there.

[Maria Ann]

Thank you Sanderlay. I am wanting to present as female, because I feel more as my self when I am dressed as a woman than when I dress as a male. I am not physically attracted to this individual, but the fact that he is to me is a definet moral booster.