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Danni Renee
11-16-2011, 09:05 AM
Reading a thread about Christmas Lists reminded me of my first Christmas with my ex-wife.

When I first started dressing, the most important piece of jewelry for me was a pearl necklace. There is something about pearls that scream femininity to me in a way even diamonds cannot match. I always wanted my own pearl necklace but would never buy it for myself.

That first Christmas rolled around and me and the ex-wife were rather hard up for money. I managed to save enough to buy her a pearl necklace. I figured that if I liked them that much that all women would like them. Although she was very appreciative of the gift, it turns out she did not like pearls the same way I did. So I ended up buying her something I wanted really bad but now sits for years unworn in her jewlery cabinet :(

Have any of you bought something for your SO that you wish you could have bought for yourself? And continuing with that idea, have any of you bought something for your SO that you really bought for yourself (I have worn the necklace a couple of times but I did not take them when we split)?

Danni

kimdl93
11-16-2011, 09:49 AM
A gold locket...I hope she still has it.

Stephanie47
11-16-2011, 06:21 PM
When my wife finally realized I was a cross dresser, she accused me of buying lingerie for her because I thought about how I would look in it. That torpedoed the idea of buying her intimates for any holiday. Prior to her comment I did buy a slinky nightgown in her size and one in my size. She doesn't know that.

Tina B.
11-16-2011, 07:03 PM
I always buy her what she wants, never what I would want, our taste are different and that just wouldn't work. Luckily I have a wife that has bought me all of those things I would like to have, including a beautiful pearl necklace.
Tina B.

daphne g
11-17-2011, 12:37 AM
no i dont think its fair to buy my so a gift thats really for me
i think she has it bad enough that i am what i am
so the gifts i buy are really for her and her only and i think i know her taste in things
and if i want something myself then i treat myself to it

sicmik
11-18-2011, 12:27 AM
I bought my CDing SO a pricy pair of platform heel boots for Christmas last year & he got me diamond stud earrings. We were both happy & we can share them.. it's a win/win! lol

Marleena
11-18-2011, 12:34 AM
I bought my CDing SO a pricy pair of platform heel boots for Christmas last year & he got me diamond stud earrings. We were both happy & we can share them.. it's a win/win! lol

I like that Mikki, you both can share! From a GG's perspective too.:)

I can honestly say I didn't buy anything for Christmas for the wife that I would like. I did get a makeup mirror for her (us) the other day though.