I don't think so!!

[Kathy4ever]

This is what I was told yesterday by my wife as I was looking through the adds for Black Friday. I forget what stores add I was looking at, but I was on the page for lady's boots. I was not really looking to buy but have contiplated buying some nice boots soon. I chuckled and said I did like the neighbors boots had on the day before. She ignored me and then we went on looking. I wsh my wife would progress to accepting more. I guess I have to just be thankfull for what I do get to do. I wear panties daily, girls jeans or shorts and womans tanks. For Thanksgiving the only thing worn (made for Men) was a pair of socks. I even wore mascara that nobody noticed. HAPPY THANKSGIVING GIRLS!!!!

[sometimes_miss]

I wish my wife would progress to accepting more.
Be happy she accepts you at all! You obviously have no idea how lucky you already are. Many, many of us got kicked to the curb when our wives found out about our crossdressing.

[Cynthia Anne]

Some times we have to accept what we can get! But remember a friendly discussion doesn't hurt as long as it's kept friendly! Hugs!

[jillleanne]

Tamara is quite right. My s/o is totally accepting and I tell how how nice she looks in something, I buy her things she likes, vs. what I like on her, etc. Yes, I look at what others are wearing and usually say nothing, but if I were to comment on them, I would not say how nice they look but rather, ask my s/o what she thinks of the look? There's a difference.
If you appear to be consumed by femme things( which I suspect you are) by your wife, she will quickly become tired of it. If you consume yourself with her instead she will take notice, all women do, other things equal. This will make it much easier for her to accept your gender expressions.

It's important we all understand, particularly when a s/o knows about our gender issues, our s/o is no different than most other women we see on a daily basis. She lives every day of her life as a woman who has to deal with, in many cases, kids, shopping, work, cooking, cleaning, schools, laundry, the list goes on and on and to make things worse, many times without the help of a tenant spouse. So if our s/o does not appear to be overjoyed about the prospect of wearing 5" stelletto boots with hose under a short skirt/jacket and her hair/face done up to the 'nines', it may be because she has other things that need to get done first, like get through the day before the exhaustion hits her. Rubbing it in her face by telling her the neighbor looks 'hot'
(yes, that's how the wife hears it) does nothing to help our case while we are sitting in our chair dreaming about your femme self. Oour wife knows all too well how to 'put on the Ritz' if necessary, but right now, she just needs to get through today, and a little offering of help to do anything, a hug, a compliment, a flirtatious whatever, would go alot farther than mentioning the neighbor.
This is not meant to be a lecture or rude in any way, but just a reality check for us all to realize how important women are to us, particularly the ones closest to us. We need to do whatever it takes within reason to nurture our relationship with them. I know they would appreciate it and the appreciation is generally reciprocated. No one said it would be easy, especially for the gender enhanced.

[noeleena]

Hi ,

Depends on what side of the fence you are on . when you say you like those or that. more so when your S O is hearing this ,

Jos & i have had a few years experance so its good . She has for a very long time asked how she looked just before we would go out, make up clothes & no different now so we do ask each other , of cause we are on the same side of the fence in reguard to clothes make up shoes & what ever we dress in.
& it does make a difference to tell your S O how nice she looks or helping her. choose make up clothes shoes .

So be carefull in what you say she is the woman so tell her so, so turn this around how would you feel standing in her shoes or place looking at you & youll get the idear not quite so nice so think how your S O feels about it all. accepance may come .tho there could be a price .

...noeleena...