Rachel Flowers
11-28-2011, 02:53 PM
Those of you who have read my posts since joining will know that to say Mrs Flowers is accepting of my CDing would be a massive understatement. She is an enthusiastic and sensitive supporter and a very willing partner in dressing, shopping and private activities too.
She has indicated some reservations at my interest in getting a wig and some forms, however. My male alter ego is a furry chap, with just the sort of lovely hairy arms, chest, back, legs and bum I'd go for on a bloke if I weren't in a fantastic exclusive relationship already. Oh and there's the beard too. All this hair is not coming off. This means Rachel is somewhat unlikely to pass in public!
I asked her yesterday if she'd ever consider going out to dinner with Rachel. She took a few moments to ponder it and I began to wonder if I'd finally gone too far and was about to see a major turnaround. Then she said "I think it'd be OK if we were with other people."
"You mean couples? Other CDs and their partners?" This indeed was what she meant. She'd prefer the security of being at a function full of CDs than be somewhere out in public with a man in a dress with a beard. The nearest city to us has a quarterly dinner function in a private room for TGs of all shades - that should fit the bill nicely!
I'm grateful everyday for how lucky I am to have found this treasure right under my nose all this time. I hope my good news stories don't make you ladies jealous and that it gives encouragement (but not recklessness) to those of you who haven't come out to your SOs yet.
Now I have to work out how to defend myself in front of a roomful of CDs and TSs who can't understand why I have a beard! ;)
She has indicated some reservations at my interest in getting a wig and some forms, however. My male alter ego is a furry chap, with just the sort of lovely hairy arms, chest, back, legs and bum I'd go for on a bloke if I weren't in a fantastic exclusive relationship already. Oh and there's the beard too. All this hair is not coming off. This means Rachel is somewhat unlikely to pass in public!
I asked her yesterday if she'd ever consider going out to dinner with Rachel. She took a few moments to ponder it and I began to wonder if I'd finally gone too far and was about to see a major turnaround. Then she said "I think it'd be OK if we were with other people."
"You mean couples? Other CDs and their partners?" This indeed was what she meant. She'd prefer the security of being at a function full of CDs than be somewhere out in public with a man in a dress with a beard. The nearest city to us has a quarterly dinner function in a private room for TGs of all shades - that should fit the bill nicely!
I'm grateful everyday for how lucky I am to have found this treasure right under my nose all this time. I hope my good news stories don't make you ladies jealous and that it gives encouragement (but not recklessness) to those of you who haven't come out to your SOs yet.
Now I have to work out how to defend myself in front of a roomful of CDs and TSs who can't understand why I have a beard! ;)