Anyone Else Have This Problem?

[lmildcd]

Last night I laid out a bra, panties, opaque tights, and a skirt to wear today. I don't have a top to match the skirt so I settled on a boy top. I know it should be a girl top but I can't afford any at this time. Back to my story. I woke up and put the bra and panties on and started to put on the tights. I didn't put one leg in the tights. I took off the bra and panties and put on boy clothes expect for shoes. I've had opportunities to dress at home lately, but can't seem to fully dress. The best that I can do is wear shoes or panties all day.

I'm not planning on throwing anything out in the near future. I could be losing my desire to dress but I don't want to throw anything away. I'm just wondering if anyone else has had this problem.

[*Vanessa*]

I think we have all been on that train. Ya don't throw yourself out in the trash at lest for awhile... lol

[TGMarla]

It happens. Dressing is a choice, not an obligation. Do it because you want to, not because you have to.

[gabimartini]

The eternal CDing rollercoaster... we've all been here before, dear. But don't despair, sure enough, when you least expect it, you'll find yourself in the middle of a thick pink fog. When that day comes, you'll then be asking for directions on how to get out... ;)

[Renee W]

I think we have all had our lazy days. We all enjoy getting fully dressed, but there are times when we get home from work or wake up in the morning and just don't feel like going the distance.

I feel great if I get a chance to get all done up when I get home from work, but there have been a night or two lately where I am just whipped when I get home. May just throw on some guy sweats and a T. Late in the evening I may put on a night gown, but no hose or wig.

[PaulaDallas]

When we're in our pink state, it's natural to still wear things from a man's wardrobe. GGs do it all the time. As long as I have my bra on (which I always do!) there's nothing wrong with wearing a man's sweat, especially on cold days.

Many of us have decided to quit dressing, only to regret it later. If you're not in the mood, I suggest putting the female things in storage. Chances are, you'll be glad you did.

[Karren H]

Pretty sure your crossdressing days are numbered!! You've got all the symptoms.... But I can truly help ease your pain! I'll pm you may address and you can send me all you fem things... That way you won't have any reminder of what was or could have been!! No need to thank me... :D

Ps... What size do you wear again? Lol.

[lmildcd]

I think we have all had our lazy days. We all enjoy getting fully dressed, but there are times when we get home from work or wake up in the morning and just don't feel like going the distance.

I feel great if I get a chance to get all done up when I get home from work, but there have been a night or two lately where I am just whipped when I get home. May just throw on some guy sweats and a T. Late in the evening I may put on a night gown, but no hose or wig.

Actually I do wear night gowns and shirts to bed. I guess I should have mentioned that.

[Marleena]

It's not a big deal really. Even GG's have days where they will just throw on sweat pants, and a Tshirt. Just don't purge because things can change in a hurry for unknown reasons.

[Cheryl T]

Been there and done that....but won't ever do it again.

When I went through that years ago I would toss everything...swear I was quitting and be so relieved. Then a few months down the road...there I was again.
Don't toss anything...give it a chance to even out and see how you feel in a while. We've all regretted that "purge" at one time or another, so just put things aside and see what happens. It doesn't cost anything to wait.

[claudialks]

yea i am going thrue the same thing !!! specialy living with someone that does not know !! and hiding everything all the time !!!

[retrofitme]

I think it's perfectly natural to go through phases - sometimes I want to dress up, other times I could care less. Sometimes I want pizza, other times it's not appealing.

[diannecourtney]

Just got over a malaise do to body break-down (3-4 wks) but Am up and about and attribute this to my lovely lady -fully attired in all but the snuggygirdle and oh so glorius make up. Have no fearenjoy the nighty and shirts. By the by its ok to wear the guys shirts and sweaters, 99% of the GG,s do

[docrobbysherry]

We're ALL THE SAME, Imild! Except that we're ALL DIFFERENT!

I use to fiddle with just a bra, forms, pantyhose, and heels sometimes. Or, a little different combo to wear around the house. It usually made me want to dress up all the way!

Now, if I'm too lazy or don't have the time to dress all the way, I don't bother putting on anything!

Dressing isn't like paying your electric bill or your taxes! U don't have to do it if u don't want to!

[Cabbit]

In my experience, sometimes you just don't feel like it. I don't dress up all the time, but I still feel like it's an important part of expressing who I am.

[Brenda456]

Sometimes you feel like wearing tights and some times you don't!

[Barbara Jo]

I rarely get dressed all the way any more. I hate that "all dressed up and no place to go" feeling.

I wear panties 24/7, a bra daily and usually just add a full slip and/or a feminine robe and slippers.
Sometimes, I will also just wear a casual skirt with a simple top or, a casual "house dress"
Since I live alone, I don't care how l look and wearing the above makes me feel just as feminine but, comfortable

Also, if someone does come to the door, I can quickly put on a t shirt and some jeans.:)

[donnalee]

You have to cut your CD membership card in half; and send the pieces along with anything you may purge, to an address I'll PM you; then you must complete the CD walk of shame from the post office to home. Remember, Big Brother is watching your every move (He really IS) and will know if you don't complete this ritual!
:heehee: Bhwahahaho (laughs evil laugh):devil:

[Raychel]

I think this happens to veeryone now and then. It has happened to me once, That was real scary, I hope it never happens again.

[noeleena]

Hi,

Well nothing strange there. we do it all the time. no make up just normal day wear. & some days just shorts. a top that could be boy or girl , even years ago . i could not be bothered getting dressed up. just shorts & a tee,

I dont get dressed as tho im going down the road every day. & im a woman. & some days its overalls working around.

...noeleena...

[jillleanne]

Just be patient with this whenever you recognize your lack of desire. It's quite normal and we all go through it. Frustrating also as part of us wants to dress and another part tells us to just forget about it. It'll pass so just go do something else in the meantime. Often what would get me motivated would be some some shopping, even if it's just window shopping. Purging is useless and a waste of nice clothing.

[diannecourtney]

Oh I should have mentioned in my earlier reply. But each day I get pinker and pinker as I am hooking the bra up behind my back on the first strike, oh what a feeling!!!

[suchacutie]

Changing gender presentation is not easy! Frankly, if it were it's likely almost everyone would do it!

Every part of our life goes through cycles....every part! Why should gender presentation be different.

Put everything away for a few days and go be a guy. Get it out of your system. Then come back her and explain what you did and how you feel. I'm sure everyone will be interested since we all can relate!

best!

tina

[Danika140]

I've purged just to turn around and start dressing again. If I had kept all the clothes I've gotten over the years instead of purging, I would have a full wardrobe by now.

[Vickie_CDTV]

It is not uncommon for the desire to dress to naturally ebb and flow over time, and there is nothing wrong with that. There are plenty of posts here from others about it, it is common and nothing to be worried about.

[elliemoss]

I get that all the time, I only dress if Im in the mood, its something I dont force on myself. I really love being a guy and wouldnt change it for the world but when I get the heeeby geeebys I love being a girl. Im still kicking myself over some of the dresses, skirts, shoes, wigs Ive thrown out over the last few years, thing to remember is that "urge" always comes back just enjoy being yourself when your in man mode and save your pieces for that pink rainy day!

[Barbara Ella]

It is heartening to read all these posts. I am really new and deep into my first pink fog, and I have a loving wife to moderate me somewhat. Even now, there are days where I dont feel like anything more than panties, which I wear 24/7. I just go with the flow, and realize that the tide will turn, but my boat will still be floating, and there is always that next pair of heels waiting....

Do what feels comfortable when it feels comfortable.

Babes

[BLUE ORCHID]

You know that having fun can be hard work sometimes.

Orchid

[DanaR]

I've been on this roller coaster for the last six years. I know that there should be girl some time, but more often than not I'll past to do something that needs to be done. I haven't thrown anything away; which my wife has been after me to do. It's called too much stuff; which we are trying to down size a little.