LisaKarenAZ
12-11-2011, 08:34 AM
I have been out to the wife for a few years now and she has been totally unaccepting of my dressing, until these past couple of years.
Last year, it was the gift of panties 24/7.
Earlier this year, it was the gift of pedis with clear nail polish.
I started shaving my legs a couple of weeks ago, as well as having my toes painted. She had noticed late last week on both and asked me about it. She said she didn't really care. She has had shifting levels of acceptance over the years, from weak tolerance to freak out wanting a divorce angry. I had reserved excitement about ths because of her past emotional roller coaster, so I was hesitant to show in front of her.
And yesterday was the biggest gift of all.
I got in the shower and shaved the legs. As I was finishing my shower, she came in the bathroom to put her hair up and put on some deodorant. Me not wanting her to see the legs and nails delayed me finishing my shower.
I got out, dried off, wrapped my waist with my towel and shuffled to my sink with the bath mat over my toes. (Not trying to hide as much as not wanting to flaunt.)
She came back in to the bathroom and stood right next to me smiling. She left again and I got dressed, including socks.
I went in to our closet to get a different shirt and she came back in the room, cornered me in the closet, closed the door, and told me that she doesn't want me to be nervous around her any more. She has finally come to peace with this part of me and doesn't want me to hide from her anymore.
She said that she wanted to see my toes and asked what color I had on. I told her and removed my socks. She said that she loved that color.
She then asked me a few more questions about if I had any makeup, clothes, or her stuff.
She then said that she's okay with it if it's just around the house, not in front of the kids, and not going out dressed as a woman.
I then told her that I worshipped the ground that she walks on and that she's the most beautiful woman in the world. (All true)
Oh Happy Day!
Last year, it was the gift of panties 24/7.
Earlier this year, it was the gift of pedis with clear nail polish.
I started shaving my legs a couple of weeks ago, as well as having my toes painted. She had noticed late last week on both and asked me about it. She said she didn't really care. She has had shifting levels of acceptance over the years, from weak tolerance to freak out wanting a divorce angry. I had reserved excitement about ths because of her past emotional roller coaster, so I was hesitant to show in front of her.
And yesterday was the biggest gift of all.
I got in the shower and shaved the legs. As I was finishing my shower, she came in the bathroom to put her hair up and put on some deodorant. Me not wanting her to see the legs and nails delayed me finishing my shower.
I got out, dried off, wrapped my waist with my towel and shuffled to my sink with the bath mat over my toes. (Not trying to hide as much as not wanting to flaunt.)
She came back in to the bathroom and stood right next to me smiling. She left again and I got dressed, including socks.
I went in to our closet to get a different shirt and she came back in the room, cornered me in the closet, closed the door, and told me that she doesn't want me to be nervous around her any more. She has finally come to peace with this part of me and doesn't want me to hide from her anymore.
She said that she wanted to see my toes and asked what color I had on. I told her and removed my socks. She said that she loved that color.
She then asked me a few more questions about if I had any makeup, clothes, or her stuff.
She then said that she's okay with it if it's just around the house, not in front of the kids, and not going out dressed as a woman.
I then told her that I worshipped the ground that she walks on and that she's the most beautiful woman in the world. (All true)
Oh Happy Day!