I have decided, that Not Being Shayla .... for anyone.......is not good for me...

[Shayla99]

I have been single now for 5 months or so, and have dated a little.... but the question arose, what is my best intreest , and would I walk away from this If I had to , ...for a woman... but I have decided..that this has been a life long fantasy, and I could NEVER NOT BE, this DUALITY!!! I am as much Shayla as I am A DJ. .... Or a painter , or a musician or anything else I do.... I will not commit treason unto myself, and sacrifice this... SO this is part of the deal ladies.... It's all of me and proudly too!!

I think I will be no longer ashamed of any part of this... It is a safe way to entertain myself.....

"Die on my own terms surrender......Is the beginning of life!!"
Book of Shayla Chapter 6 verse 8 line 4 :devil:

I must accept myself, and that is the challenge I guess.... For anyone else to accept me!!! It is still a battle some times, but one that I am determined to win, I also believe that the purging nite mares I have read about on here, confirms my ideas that I must and will always be.... another man in a dress!! LOL Kisses Shayla :)

[Cynthia Anne]

It is a great feeling accepting youself! Only then can you be proud of who you are! I think you have made your point very clear! You should be proud of yourself! Congrads! Hugs!

[Barbara Ella]

To thine own self be true. You have found your self, congratulations, now you will fully enjoy what is an integral part of your life

Babes

[Marleena]

Babes said it all for me.:)

[Diana Bain]

Shayla, you have reached a milestone...congrats!!! Acceptance of who you are makes you a better person and will bring you peace.

[DanaR]

Like everyone else had said, when you accept yourself others will too. Maybe not everyone, but the ones that count.

[jillleanne]

Congrats Shayla and welcome to the other side of the wall.

[docrobbysherry]

I'm NOT clear, Shayla! Does this mean you're coming out of your closet? Letting everyone know u dress? Dressing every day?

It is my contention that if u feel your fem side is PART OF WHO U R, and u DON'T let everyone know, you're NOT being honest with everyone else or YOURSELF!

Just MY 2 cents!

[Elle1946]

You are who you are and that is the way to be!!