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Josie M
12-20-2011, 11:14 PM
This is a friend of mine for a very long time and it started to feel weird that she never knew about Josie. She's been cool about it, and revealing it didn't change our relationship. She's a good friend and I'm glad she knows. :)
ArleneRaquel
12-20-2011, 11:16 PM
Jose,
What a heartwarming story. She is a great friend.
Miranda09
12-20-2011, 11:25 PM
It always feels good to let at least one person you trust in on your secret. :)
MarcyHunter
12-20-2011, 11:42 PM
Gone cottin choppin.
Marleena
12-20-2011, 11:48 PM
Great story Josie! I'm glad she is okay with it. I came out to a GG friend recently, at first she didn't believe me, but now she is excited about it. Only my wife and this GG know about me in real life (not online). I think it is easier to tell GG's.
ArleneRaquel
12-20-2011, 11:50 PM
Marleena,
IMHO ladies are more open minded on this subject. Yes I know wives and SO's can be a problem, but in general ladies are more compassionate.
Marleena
12-20-2011, 11:57 PM
Marleena,
IMHO ladies are more open minded on this subject. Yes I know wives and SO's can be a problem, but in general ladies are more compassionate.

Totally agree, Arlene! My SO and the GG I mentioned have given me a lot of confidence to be myself. I'm very lucky to have both of them on my side.
Cynthia Anne
12-21-2011, 12:47 AM
I can say this! She proved she was a good friend! That's what dreams are all about! Thanks for sharing! Hugs!
Brittany CD
12-21-2011, 02:55 AM
Glad to hear it! I plan on doing the same thing myself very soon
kimdl93
12-21-2011, 08:09 AM
That's what friends are for, Josie!
Jenny Doolittle
12-25-2011, 11:43 AM
Josie,

That's what "Good Friends" do..... accept each other for who they are, glad you and she can be so honest.
mrsklm
12-25-2011, 12:21 PM
I came out to a lady friend a few years ago and after thinking about it i recanted and told her it was all a joke before i read her reply .She had told me she was glad i shared this with her and she had no problem at all with me. but after telling her it was a joke she stopped talking to me i really messed up and i dont know how to fix it.I lost a good friend because i panicked
boardpuppy
12-25-2011, 03:02 PM
When picking friends, you normally pick very carefully and over a long period of time. When confiding in a friend about our secret passion, this is only the starting point. I'm so glad you succeeded and found a true ally.