My wife is so awesome

[amber62]

The other night my wife gave me an early christmas present, something she thought i would prefer not opening in front of the kids lol. It was a very nice, cute pair of silk panties...couldnt have picked out a better pair myself.

Shes so supportive of my crossdressing, I feel very blessed, especially when I see the grief many of our members go thru in thier relatiknships.

To show my appreciation, last night after the kids went to sleep I told her I had a surprise for her. I told her to close her eyes...I opened the closet to make her think I was getting stuff to wear as Amber, then I went to the bathroom. I told to come let me in the bedroom when i knocked on the door. After i had changed, i remotely started some suggestive music in the bedroom where she was. I then knocked on the door and when she opened it there I was...in boxers, a leather toolbelt with hammer, tape measure, etc., hardhat and safety glasses on.

I will leave the rest private but needless to say she was so happy and excited. It was a bit of a fantasy of hers. I was glad to be able to show her that even though i love.my feminine side, I like letting her know I am still her "man". Shes been texting mme today telling me how much she appreciated what I did.

[Piora]

That's so cool, Amber! How great to have someone who supports you, and that was a pretty nice thing you did for her.

[jillleanne]

lol, good for you Amber. Sounds like you have many more fun days ahead together with your wife.

[Beth Mays]

sounds like a real keeper to me!

[DanaR]

Very cool. Never forget to tell her how much you love her.

[AllieSF]

Awesome. Tim the Toolman.

[PretzelGirl]

Great idea! Kudos for you for giving her what she wants. That is keeping your mind open.

[Rachel Morley]

That is so sweet of you. IMHO I think it's super important to make sure our wives are happy all the time. Seriously I do. I want to make my wife feel happy and special as often as I can. Why? ... because she deserves it so much just because she is who she is (and that has nothing to do with CDing, she's just awesome anyway). I have often said that if you "give one's wife the guy she married" from time to time, you'll find that your CDing will go a lot further also. In other words, relationships are all about "give" and "take" .. you scratch my back and I'll scratch yours! ... we're a team. Plus we want to do what we do because we love them so much anyway. :)

[ColleenCD]

Nicely done Amber!

Colleen

[KiwiHeather]

I wish mine was just open and perhaps slightly interested. I got some boots a few days ago. She saw the package (I told her I had done it - so no surprises) and asked what it was. I told her and that was it. No other comments. Today I asked her if she was interested in seeing them and she went defensive refused to talk to me. It seems that one step forwards and one back. Wish I had never told her now, but that wouldve meant denying a part of me too. Sometimes life is crappy.

Glad some on here have partners who understands that this other side is just an extension of the one they love and not some stranger. I just wish could be open with my wife, not rub her face in it or dress infront of her but rather not tip toe around her. Dont ask dont tell sux.

[Jessica86]

I did something similar recently. Well, I say recent...but about four months ago. Just before moving. I was packing clothes, and she told me I could wear whatever I wanted while packing and pointed to Jessica's boxes in the closet. I chose a suit hanging up instead (male mode suit), and took her to eat in the middle of the day! Talk about a surprise!

[Claire Cook]

IMHO I think it's super important to make sure our wives are happy all the time. Seriously I do. I want to make my wife feel happy and special as often as I can. Why? ... because she deserves it so much just because she is who she is (and that has nothing to do with CDing, she's just awesome anyway). I have often said that if you "give one's wife the guy she married" from time to time, you'll find that your CDing will go a lot further also. In other words, relationships are all about "give" and "take" .. you scratch my back and I'll scratch yours! ... we're a team. Plus we want to do what we do because we love them so much anyway. :)

Rachel, I could not agree more. It is really important to give our wives and SO's "guy time". There are times when "the girls" go out together, but these are in the minority -- I never forget that I'm the guy Sue married. For instance, I would never fly pretty with her -- it's better to fly as the romantic couple we are! Accepting wives and SO's are special people, and we have to keep treating them that way. I just can't give her enough flowers!

[Jenny Doolittle]

Amber "Tim the Tool Man" Taylor is such a great partner.... Great imaginative gift that I am sure she loved all night long.

[IngeInCO]

That's clever Amber! I'm nicking that one for sure!