kimdl93
12-27-2011, 12:43 PM
Regular readers may recall that I came out to my youngest step daughter back in July. Her opinion then was I should dress as I wished, whether she was there or not. She moved on to a new job, out of state, but returned last week for the Christmas holiday.
The morning after she arrived I was dressed in my typical femme casual style - womens jeans, a red henley top, sandals w/2 1/2" heels and of course foundation garments, forms, wig, etc. She got up after sleeping in late, and I heard her milling about. Rather than switching back to femme, I decided to just be mayself. So walked into the kitchen while she was there, to get a cup of coffee. She, of course saw how I was dressed, but didn't react with the least surprise at my appearance. We went on to have a long conversation about everything going on in her life, and not a word about my clothes. I was relievd that our relationship remained positive and that she was entirely accepting of my dressing.
Later that afternoon, she invited one of her friends over to exchange gifts. He showed up as she and I were visiting by the pool. He didn't react at all to seeing me en femme. We chatted a bit - just normal stuff. After he left she apologized for not giving me a heads up, and assured me that he was perfectly ok with the way I looked. And honeslty, I didn't feel the slightest bit embarrassed or surprised when he came in - so I told her its no problem.
Interesting how easy it can be. Wish every encounter could be so.
The morning after she arrived I was dressed in my typical femme casual style - womens jeans, a red henley top, sandals w/2 1/2" heels and of course foundation garments, forms, wig, etc. She got up after sleeping in late, and I heard her milling about. Rather than switching back to femme, I decided to just be mayself. So walked into the kitchen while she was there, to get a cup of coffee. She, of course saw how I was dressed, but didn't react with the least surprise at my appearance. We went on to have a long conversation about everything going on in her life, and not a word about my clothes. I was relievd that our relationship remained positive and that she was entirely accepting of my dressing.
Later that afternoon, she invited one of her friends over to exchange gifts. He showed up as she and I were visiting by the pool. He didn't react at all to seeing me en femme. We chatted a bit - just normal stuff. After he left she apologized for not giving me a heads up, and assured me that he was perfectly ok with the way I looked. And honeslty, I didn't feel the slightest bit embarrassed or surprised when he came in - so I told her its no problem.
Interesting how easy it can be. Wish every encounter could be so.