Dressing at Home Around Wife

[linda allen]

Several people mention dressing at home around their (accepting/supportive) wives. Cooking, cleaning house, watching a movie, etc.

So I'm curious. When you talk about dressing, does this include breast forms, hip pads, panties, wig, etc. or are you just throwing on a dress?

[Staci Roberts]

If I am going to dress, I am going the whole route. Panties & bra, skirt or dress w/pantyhose or tights, moderate heels, makeup etc.
While I cannot do this all that often, it is a nice treat when I can.

[*ROXY*]

Recently wrap dress and tights, painted toes. Also leggings and off out to next for some stuff for my wife and hopefully me ;-) . Looking for longline tops, tunics or jumper dresses

[Kimberly Long]

I have been living as Kimberly 24/7 for over two years. My SO is very supportive of me. Yes I am totally dressed all the time. The fun part is when the SO ask if she can wear some of my clothing. We do have a great time together.

[shybi]

when i dress with the wife at home it has to be everything if i'm going to dress i have to look my best lol


wendy xxx

[jillleanne]

All of the above w/nails painted.

[Renee W]

Dressing always includes forms and wig. Clothing may be a full outfit or dress, other times it may be just a nice top over some sweats. Never mix in guy shoes when I wear anything femme on the outside. Makeup optional depending on time available and level of outfit.

[NicoleScott]

All the way - complete transformation as glamorous as possible. She understands it.

[KrystalA]

For me, it's the whole nine yards. My SO fully supports my dressing, and she's even been buying me some new tops and skirts. Life is good.

[kimdl93]

For me it does except in the evening when we often watch TV or read - then its lounge wear...sometimes with a wig and sometimes not.

[Cheryl T]

Several people mention dressing at home around their (accepting/supportive) wives. Cooking, cleaning house, watching a movie, etc.

So I'm curious. When you talk about dressing, does this include breast forms, hip pads, panties, wig, etc. or are you just throwing on a dress?

If I am just around the house I don't bother with a padded panty, but I do wear everything else. Most of the time it's just slacks or jeans and a top as I rarely wear a skirt or dress to do housework. Sometimes I don't wear any makeup either, but then that doesn't bother her and since I don't spend time looking at myself in the mirror it's no biggie to me.

[sandra-leigh]

I never used hip pads. I pretty much stopped wearing wigs about 2 years ago (too much trouble to get my shoulder-length hair under them.) Earrings are only taken off when my ears need a rest. Panties full time for (hmmm) more than 5 years now. I have have rarely worn forms since I started HRT. I am perhaps A-cup now, which is enough to show (especially when I am sitting down.)

The only guy clothes that I can think of that I have worn in the last year were some shorts that I was wearing for physiotherapy -- not because they were guy shorts, but simply because my girl shorts do not have enough slack to do the physio work.

[JohnH]

I frequently wear a dress around my wife at home, and at times, with lipstick. I don't need breast forms or hip pads since I have the natural items. My hair is long enough so I don't need a wig. Sometimes I also put on black pantyhose and heels.

Oddly enough my wife never wears dresses, pantyhose, or heels.

Johanna

[DanaR]

I would usually wear everything, except maybe not do my face. I have long hair, so that is easy. In the warmer times, sandals with painted toes is fairly normal. I might even have on a dress, but usually shorts and a cute top.

[angeloftheknight]

My CDing SO wears everything round the house. I kind of expect it now probably to the extent that if he wore just a dress I'd tell him to go dress properly.

[Jenniferathome]

For me, it is all or nothing. I don't like being a "dude in a dress" and I am uncomfortable having my wife see her husband in a dress. So, I go for full conversion, but that is just me.

[RADER]

Since I do not go out; I do not have a wig, nor do make-up. I do wear panties 24/7 for quite a few years.
I most often wear fem jeans from Lane-Bryant, even outside. I wear a bra about 75 % of the time.
Around the house, I wear a shirt type dress, or a long skirt to do house work. My wife is OK with me dressing,
As long as it stays inside. I do not need any more padding on my butt; plenty their already. LOL
Rader

[suchacutie]

Complete transformation. Tina is my wife's girlfriend, not her husband. As time goes on, the separation between my gendered selves becomes greater because Tina is building up her own goals and activities. We really don't mix my gendered selves at all.

P.S. We just decided that Tina will visit all day since we are both in a mood to tidy the house and Tina is just soooo fastidious that it seemed completely perfect. I just finished my nails, will hit the shower and shave, and then completely Tina. My male side would never agree to all this tidying!

[Marleena]

I do dress completely in front of my wife a couple of times a week. She's fine with it. She needs to get used to it as we are going to Vegas where I'll be dressed. The past few Halloweens helped her adjust.:)

[Marcia Blue]

My Wife is uncomfortable with me dressing, all the way, while she is around. She is OK with forms, hip pads, jewelery, nails, and lipstick. No wig, makeup, and dress/skirt. Under dressing is no problem. I also wear gowns to bed.

[gretchen_love]

My SO doesn't mind, other than the change in height when im in heels and she wants a kiss when she get off work...Ill occasionally go without the wig and makeup, but only if im feeling lazy.

[Danielle Gee]

My Wife encourages me to dress in the evening, so after I've I've finished any man-chores I usually don a skirt or dress before starting supper. Unless we're going out,I usually spend most weekends dressed too.

[BRANDYJ]

Since my SO and I are in a temorary long didtance relationship for now, I don't get to dress around her. But when we lived together, I dressed around her often. She has no problem with it and at times even asks me to dress and do the daily chores for her. With or without her with me, I like many want to drss completely. to me, nothing as ugly as a man in a dress...including me. So I want to dress completely with wig, makeup and a nice shirt/top or a dress.

[DAVIDA]

I dress whenever I am home.:D
I don't wear a wig most of the time and I don't do make-up very often.
I have been doing this for years.
The neighbors know and have seen me dressed. I have actually been in their house dressed.:)
Friends know that I will be dressed if they come to visit. They still come.:thumbsup:
If for some reason I am not dressed, Jean will ask me if there is something wrong.:o

[cindybabe]

If we are alone at home with time. absolutely everything, Cindy comes out and may do some house work then settle down to watch t,v and open a bottle of wine with my wife for a girls night in:D

[Tina B.]

Depends on my mood, some days it's just a pair of Capri's and top,other days it's all of it,wigs, pads and make up. It's all about what is to be done that day, and how much I feel like going to the bother of dressing completely, it was the wife that first convinced me that I didn't have to wear it all, just as much as made me comfortable, can be enough.
Tina B.

[kelliT]

Hmmn. Good question for me right now. My wife found Kelli's stash just before Thanksgiving. So she’s still in progress and after reading many SO stories here, kinda taking it easy. But it’s hard. How do I proceed slowly, while not cheapening Kelli? First Since that time she has supported me in keeping shaved and having my toenails painted.
So for now she has bought me some nice feeling material lounge wear capris, which I wear around the house, as just one of my sweats. Panties for sure. Baby steps for sure. But this has been on my mind a lot lately as she’s still soaking in and I don’t want to push. The things I want to branch out in are more feminine shorts around the house, not to noticeable because my legs are my favorite things to highlight. So that’s it for now I guess.

[MrsKali]

If she would like to chat with another wife I am more than willing to talk with her.

[kelliT]

Thank MrsKali, I will keep that in mind. Thanks

[Krististeph]

I'm a bit shy to wear makeup around my wife- I usually go a little to heavy. Clear or neutral mascara & lips, a little powder.

We don't "talk" about CD much, but she is okay with it.

She tells me if i look cute in the outfit i am wearing. When I bought my cheer outfit (left) she was surprised that it was a real outfit- not a cheap costume. She compliments me more when I wear decent quality clothes.

When i got my first breastforms (silicone), she was again, amazed at how real they felt.

Sometimes I'll ask her opinion on what to wear that night.

So... she is cool with it, but not particularly enamored.

[DonnaT]

Not for me. My wife is way more comfortable if I'm not wearing a wig or makeup. Thus I am able to dress anytime I wish.

[kelliT]

Yeah I'm thinking I don't want to rush out and wear full everything. The thing that I am trying to grasp is the mellow dress, of which I don't have too much practice with. Still exploring what mellow means.

[Barbra P]

On average I dress one day a week around the house. We are both retired and my Wife is a stay at home person so yes I dress in front of my Wife. When I dress it is all or nothing, so makeup, wig, under garments including foundation wear, bra and breast forms. Some days it is just jeans and a top but other days I like to wear pantyhose and a dress, or a skirt and nice top. I always wear jewelry consisting of a woman’s watch, some bangles, earrings, rings, and a necklace(s) of some sort – maybe just a gold chain; and some sort of body scent, usually something light.

At some time during the day I will undoubtedly go outside and there is a very good chance of being seen by one of the neighbors and I want to look presentable. This week I dressed twice; on Monday morning I had an appointment with my Therapist and I wore a skirt and I remained dressed until about 8pm although I changed into jeans in the afternoon because of the chores I wanted to do. Wednesday morning was boring and a little before noon I decided I would change and I went casual with jeans and sandals, no hose, and again I remained dressed en femme until around 8pm. A woman who lives around the corner and down that street came by walking her dog shortly after 7pm and we talked while our dogs played. After she went on her way I took my dog for a walk around the block, the second time since sunset, and then it was about 8pm. Why 8pm? Well it takes awhile to remove the makeup, especially the eye makeup, and the fingernail polish and shower. I don’t sleep en femme, my Wife’s tolerance to my dressing only goes so far.

[debbeelee1]

Yep, the whole she-bang once or twice a week. We both look forward to these session!

[PretzelGirl]

I would usually wear everything, except maybe not do my face. I have long hair, so that is easy. In the warmer times, sandals with painted toes is fairly normal. I might even have on a dress, but usually shorts and a cute top.

:thumbsup::thumbsup::thumbsup: Sounds like the way I am. I don't wear padding outside of forms and I have long hair. So the difference between staying at home and going out is fixing up my hair instead of just brushing it out and putting on my make-up.

[Alice B]

At first my wife was accepting, but did not wish to see me dressed at all. Over a couple of years it progressed to my being able to dress when she was home, but she would stay upstairs for the most part. Now it has reached the point where I can be fully dressed in her presence with out fear. I wold like the next step to be dressed all day when she is home and go about normal activities, including fixing dinner and eating together. I think that will happen soon because she has told me she is now fully accepting, without exceptions.

[GingerLeigh]

I have been in front of her, and no not with the full ensemble. Baby steps.

[Acastina]

I guess I'm one of the lucky ones. My wife met and fell in love with the girl first and got the boy as a bonus, so it's never been an issue between us. Once we're in for the night, or the first few hours of the morning, I wear pretty much what I want, which is (IMHO) more the way a GG does: occasion appropriate. I don't have breast forms (several years on hormones, thank you), and my Veronica 2 is for public persuasion. In hot weather (it goes over 100°F here), girl shorts and short skirts, no hose, tank tops or spaghetti-strap tops. This time of year, I just got a couple of turtleneck sweaters at Kohl's ($9 each!) that have become my default, usually with velour lounge pants. Light makeup (powder, blush, lipstick, a little eyeshadow), and usually my hairpiece with my own long hair. A little bling here and there. Perfume.

Pretty much anything more than that is referred to around here as "getting flossy", and I do that when I feel like it (or she hints that it might be fun). Going out depends on the occasion, with a default toward flossy.

[Lea]

Anytime I dress it is all the way.

That does not mean skirt hose and heels all the time. But it does mean wig, makeup and proper under garments. Depending on how long it has been since I dressed it is usually hose and a skirt. But if I have been dressed for a few days or we are cleaning house it will be pants and a nice top.

[t-girlxsophie]

really cant be arsed with hip pads,but other than that I'm fully Femme.On the odd ocassion when we get up ill lounge around for a short period in nightie without makeup or wig.But when the kids are about I dont like going wigless or in half measures.The wig and makeup are a must 4 me,only then is Sophie fully here

Sophie

[Maria 60]

It all depends on what i have in mind to do. If i am going to clean or do some house work i will keep it simple but if i am going to have dinner and relax with the wife and have lots of time i will dress to the nine's.

[MaidJamie]

Once a month... fully dressed in my uniform for our Maid service night...

[Melissa.Lynn88]

Whenever I dress it's all the way. I have to have makeup and my wig on to complete the look. My girlfriend has seen me fully dressed. She is not totally happy about it but she accepts it and lets me be myself. My hope is as time goes on she will become more comfortable with it though.

[Launa]

I go all the way arounnd the house unless its at night watching TV. Then its in some lounge wear. Kids live at home so its hard to do it very often :(

[farmer39]

I have been dressing for over 20 years always with my SOrs help. I am A large man with full beard sholder length hair. At home 4 to 5 nights A week I dress, bra double breast forms always, T-shirt Tank top silk tops. never a blouse. Sexy sleeping tops. Full legenth dressing gowns. All picked out for me by my SO. Recently she shared she wished I would not dress in front of her, she knew I would continue to dress.
We have come to enjoy playing, caught almost caught.
My wife is asleep as I write. I am wearing Black Pumps Black Thigh-high Black Lace bra with Forms, my hair is done, in a full style just as she taught me.
My answer dressing around the wife at home is unbeleivable, always sexual In a sense really nasty. Its wonerful

[larry07]

I dress at home at least 75% of the time, to varying degrees, and my wife is fine with it. Most often I'll wear a skirt and simple knit top. Sometimes women's pants (or shorts in warmer weather). Ocassionally a dress, but I usually find skirts easier, since I often change to pants to go outside the house. Almost always underdressed - bra with forms, panties, stockings and garter belt. Never makeup or wig - I don't have either one and not interested, since I don't try to pass. I don't have a different persona when dressed. I am the same "Larry" to myself and to my wife whether I am in jeans and flannel shirt or frilly skirt and lace top.

[linda allen]

Thanks for all the responses everybody. It seems for most, it's "boy" or "girl", not something in between. I think that's how I would want it if I get to the point where I dress around my wife.

[Rachel Morley]

At home I spend more time my my "girly boy" mode more than anything else, which is girls jeans, tees, cardigans or hoodies with earrings and some eye makeup, but if I am going to dress in something more feminine at home then I always dress "all the way" which will include hip padding and forms, wig full make up etc.