AmandaJ
01-20-2012, 12:59 AM
Just over a year ago is when I told my girlfriend and she was the first person I ever shared my CDing with. Ive kept it a secret for most of my life. Today, I told someone else. Not a family member or even a close friend. Today marked another milestone in my life in year full of extremes. I told a therapist. Well actually, a student.
You see, I just started a program seeking help for depression, as I have dealt with it for most of my life also. I surprised myself when I actually brought it up and siad the words after only a little hesitation. I bet they didn't see that one coming.
I guess the point of this thread was that it feels great to be able to share something that I kept bottled up for so long. But at the same time I still want to keep it private. For me, CDing is sexually gratifying, and it affects only me and my partner. Why is it that I feel the urge to share it with people who cannot relate, may not understand, or doesn't affect? Telling a therapist made sense , but im worried they may suggest something that would flip my life upside down.
You see, I just started a program seeking help for depression, as I have dealt with it for most of my life also. I surprised myself when I actually brought it up and siad the words after only a little hesitation. I bet they didn't see that one coming.
I guess the point of this thread was that it feels great to be able to share something that I kept bottled up for so long. But at the same time I still want to keep it private. For me, CDing is sexually gratifying, and it affects only me and my partner. Why is it that I feel the urge to share it with people who cannot relate, may not understand, or doesn't affect? Telling a therapist made sense , but im worried they may suggest something that would flip my life upside down.