abigailf
01-28-2012, 09:30 PM
So there are 5 stages of acceptance; denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance. However, I am not sure they apply very well to gender variance.
I mean, in my mind I have accepted that I am a transsexual. Heck, I am transitioning and really looking forward to it. But I find that I get quite angry at times. I don't know if it is wallowing in self pity or just being pissed off about the change I am about to endure.
I can't stand that I am a transsexual at times. I wish I was like most everyone else, either a girl in a girl body or a boy in a boy body. Why have I been chosen for this? What did I do to deserve this? Why so long to figure it out (stupid, stupid, stupid)?
Last night in bed my mind was whirling and I started to cry, I wanted to just wail, but I had to hold back because both my daughters had friends over for a sleep over and it wouldn't be right for them to hear me crying.
Earlier that morning I was on the treadmill at the gym. Running has always been my escape. My favorite way to clear my head. But as fast as I could run it wasn't fast enough. At a modest 9.5 minute mile pace I still cried. Fortunately the tears couldn't be seen very well with the sweat.
I have about 3 days before my next estrodiol injection which I take every two weeks. I'm guessing that to be the primary cause for my emotional bouts.
Still, is it possible I haven't completely accepted being that I still get angry at times? Or maybe my order is just different. I mean I don't recall the bargaining stage either. I do recall denial, depression and acceptance. I had anger too, but it comes back. Is that to be expected?
Let's see how I feel after my next dose.
I mean, in my mind I have accepted that I am a transsexual. Heck, I am transitioning and really looking forward to it. But I find that I get quite angry at times. I don't know if it is wallowing in self pity or just being pissed off about the change I am about to endure.
I can't stand that I am a transsexual at times. I wish I was like most everyone else, either a girl in a girl body or a boy in a boy body. Why have I been chosen for this? What did I do to deserve this? Why so long to figure it out (stupid, stupid, stupid)?
Last night in bed my mind was whirling and I started to cry, I wanted to just wail, but I had to hold back because both my daughters had friends over for a sleep over and it wouldn't be right for them to hear me crying.
Earlier that morning I was on the treadmill at the gym. Running has always been my escape. My favorite way to clear my head. But as fast as I could run it wasn't fast enough. At a modest 9.5 minute mile pace I still cried. Fortunately the tears couldn't be seen very well with the sweat.
I have about 3 days before my next estrodiol injection which I take every two weeks. I'm guessing that to be the primary cause for my emotional bouts.
Still, is it possible I haven't completely accepted being that I still get angry at times? Or maybe my order is just different. I mean I don't recall the bargaining stage either. I do recall denial, depression and acceptance. I had anger too, but it comes back. Is that to be expected?
Let's see how I feel after my next dose.