Have you ever expressed your personal crossdressing issues with a fellow member?

[Rebecca W.]

Have you ever on a PM, opened up to a fellow member about how you feel about crossdressing and then in turn opened up a very bad personal experience that they have had? I had a friend on here and I felt comfortable opening up to her as I was a new member at the time and all these feelings just came flowing out because I never had anyone to talk to about it before.

I really opened up so many bad memories with her and she told me how much her dressing has affected her life in a very negative way. Is there is a point in life where there are limits on how much you can express your own desires? And then,are there limits as to when the life changing damage occurs? How do fellow members know when they are reaching those limits?

I have been very careful over the many years that I have been dressing, on and off that so far I have not crossed any major barriers to cause any harm to the people that know me.
I would like to openly dress in public someday and it is the hurt that I may cause that is putting all of those desires on the back burner. My fellow member advised me to tread lightly and to be forwarned that a full expression of your true dressing desires could lead to some very bad events in life.

Thank you,
Rebecca

[Beth Mays]

Yes.
I have open up to a few and not had a single bad experience here... I an mot normally a very trusting person but it seems that a great many of the friends here have been or still going threw the same things.
To KNOW you can talk to someone is sometimes as powerful as the conversation itself.


Beth

[Regan]

I have to agree with Beth I have been very fortunate to meet such wonderful ladies who I can finally open up to. I have not met anyone yet that I feel I can't be open with. Also being able to get all this stuff out of my own head and get honest feedback and assurance is priceless.

[Kate Simmons]

I'm always open to talking with my friends about anything Hon.:)