What to do when your hotter than your date...

[StacyC]

So I just had a date yesterday with a nice gg. The only problem was that she decided to not wear any makeup, didn't have her eyebrows done and appeared to be slightly overweight.

I didn't mention anything as I think personality is more important than looks, but come on! Throughtout the date I couldn't help but wonder, why am I doing this? I could go home dress in a hot pink outfit and look way better in comparison. Lol.

Anyway we ended up not being compatible but it made me wonder whats the point sometimes lol.

[Karren H]

Obviously she didn't think as much of herself as you do of yourself!

[Ava Tryptyk]

Well some girls simply don't put as much time into their appearance. It doesn't mean that they aren't feminine though. I had a girlfriend last year who never wore any sort of makeup and didn't wear particularly feminine clothes (she never wore skirts or dresses; it was always just simple T-shirts and jeans), but I'd honestly say that she was the best girlfriend I've dated. It's kind of a weird thing, because I fantasize about getting dolled up and wearing flashy clothing, but in terms of girlfriends I'd rather be with girls who dress more conservatively in public. I guess we all just have different tastes.

[Kaitlyn Michele]

ok lets see your picture hot stuff

[t-girlxsophie]

I Hope theres not many mirrors in your house,if there was you would never get out the door.

Sophie

[Marleena]

This one of those threads where I'm supposed to say: I have a bad feeling about this...

[kimdl93]

Obviously she didn't think as much of herself as you do of yourself!

or perhaps she wasn't sure you were worth the effort...

[JessHaust]

"What to do when your hotter than your date..." get a new date!

[Krististeph]

ok lets see your picture hot stuff

Seconded! :-)

Stacy; Were you in femme? Does not sound like it. Did you date know you CD?

Yeah, it's kind of hard, but keep this in the back of your mind: Remember that GG's spend their life, 24/7/365/life as a girl, and it can be a little overwhelming or just boring (the FOOLS!) :-)

My point is they do not value their feminine side like we do ours- being a CD has the advantage of being very aware of what you are and what you are not, gender wise- something someone who does not have gender issues simply never stops to think about. (again, they are fools). ;-)

If this was a 'straight' date, she may have been 'testing' to see how you felt about the 'real' her... that's a whole other loaded subject... My wife still gets insecure sometimes- even after 20 years of marriage with my CD disclosure a year prior to tying the knot.

to sum up in one line: Be careful not to read in too much to others' actions and comments- they are rarely as self-insightful as someone who has questioned their own gender.


"What to do when your hotter than your date..." get a new date!

Jess, you know i love you, but sometimes I'm glad you are down in Texas where I don't have to compete with you! (Grinning ducking and running in 4.5" heeled boots)

[PretzelGirl]

I didn't mention anything as I think personality is more important than looks, but come on!

I think you need to re-evaluate this. You just told us you think looks are more important than personality.

[Cheryl T]

Mirror, Mirror on the wall...why should I go out at all?

[Kathi Lake]

I'm wondering if she felt that a date with you didn't require much effort on her part.

:)

Kathi

[Shananigans]

Easy fix...if someone isn't as high maintenance as your would like them to be, don't go on a date with them again.

I once decided not to go on another date with a guy because he had lights on the bottom of his car. It just wasn't my thing.

If you want a high maintenance girl and this is going to be a problem for you, get another date. If finding dates is a problem for you, it sounds like you are OK with being alone.

[Kathi Lake]

I once decided not to date a guy again because he had lights on the bottom of his car.LOL! I know the type and I applaud your decision.

:)

Kathi

[docrobbysherry]

I'm having a VERY DIFFICULT TIME with just this issue, Stacy! I'm dating now, trying to find a compatible lady. Altho I'm meeting some nice women, they ALL make me shudder at the thot of getting intimate with them! Why? Because Sherry is so much hotter and 30 or 40 years younger!

"What to do when you're hotter than your date...?" To answer your question, I quite simply DON'T KNOW what the H to do!

[Bree-asaurus]

Then why bother dating these inferior women? As long as you've got a mirror and your hand's not broken you've got your perfect match!

[BRANDYJ]

So why did you even go on a date with her if you think she is slightly over weight, has eyebrows you don't like, and does not wear makeup? Before I'd ever ask a woman for a date, I would have already thought she was hot...hotter then me. Had you not seen this woman before the date? Why date if she is not to your liking?
One of the most feminine, beautiful girls I ever dated never wore makeup. She was so beautiful and feminine that she didn't need any. When I had the honor of taking her to the senior prom, she wore a pale pink lipstick and to the best of my knowledge, no other make up.
The bottom line is, that I never dated any GG that was not hotter then me. And IF I felt I was hotter then any of them, I surely would not tell anyone; Especially in an on-line forum. It sends a bad message as to how much you think of yourself in the looks department...and more. My guess is she was not thrilled with the date either. No chemistry.

[Tamara Croft]

And you're an idiot.... (someone had to say it)

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