Staying in drab after breast implants

[wilt575]

If you stay in drab after after implants what problems can one face? Would it be legal to be topless doing yard work etc in summer. If not could you wear bikini or halter top in public. Has any one been in drab much after implants? I want the want the bounce weight and stimulation of real breasts, but need to be in drab much of the time at present.

[kellycan27]

And tg people wonder why people think they're weird as F***. What possible kick could you get from showing your breasts in guy mode while mowing the lawn?

[Julogden]

It's been done, click here (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RXqzkRc_EXI&list=FLk0Ous_Tei3eTVu9FHwd7zw&index=87&feature=plpp_video) for a Youtube video telling about a carpenter from the Chicago area who has a second job in drag, and he got breast implants.

This is from back in the 1990's some time and is just an excerpt from a longer video. He seems to be dealing with having breasts pretty well. It all depends on how confident you are, and is certainly not for the shy. :)

Of course, he doesn't go walking around with naked boobs. I think that would get you in trouble whether it's legal or not.

Carol

[RachelOKC]

If you stay in drab after after implants what problems can one face? Would it be legal to be topless doing yard work etc in summer. If not could you wear bikini or halter top in public. Has any one been in drab much after implants? I want the want the bounce weight and stimulation of real breasts, but need to be in drab much of the time at present.

Funny, I just posted the other day about a CD I knew who got implants. Here's a link what I said:

http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?169050-quot-She-Shouldn-t-Be-Transitioning-quot&p=2750765&viewfull=1#post2750765

It's your right to do as you please and I won't judge you for it, but a lot of others will.

Legality of toplessness is most likely going to depend on your local and state laws so start googling. I'm inclined to agree with Carol that trouble may find you if you're topless, legal or not. So what other kind of problems do you think you'll face having breasts while being in guy mode?

[RADER]

Some time ago, a man had a bet with someone on getting implants as a man.
He did, and had to wear them for one year. Now he was not a CD or TG or anything
else but a man with boobs.
After he won the bet/dare, he now has to wear a bra all the time. and he can not go topless
outside, because for the attention he draws.
Rader

[Beth Mays]

If you are ready for inplants, be ready to treat them as "breast". really!
Why mow the lawn topless if you live someplace where others will be exposed to the man with boobs? behave the way you want to be treated in life, respect others and their kids, dog, Mother-in-law, etc... Walking arround in a state of stupid does nothing for anyone!

It may be legal but that does not make it right.

[Alisa]

Here is an insident from a couple of summers ago...

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2010/06/05/transgender-men-go-toples_n_601745.html

Interesting position statement from the city official.

[monalisa]

Do it! Just tell your neighbors you have what ever those 3 dominican brothers have..

http://guanabee.com/2011/08/dominican-boys-develop-full-grown-breast-video-nsfw/

I watched the video but it was in Spanish so I couldn't figure out what they ate to get such nice breasts. They are so lucky.

[sonna]

I watched the video but it was in Spanish so I couldn't figure out what they ate to get such nice breasts. They are so lucky.



scroll down you can read what they got under the video.

[AndreaCD1963]

If you stay in drab after after implants what problems can one face? Would it be legal to be topless doing yard work etc in summer. If not could you wear bikini or halter top in public. Has any one been in drab much after implants? I want the want the bounce weight and stimulation of real breasts, but need to be in drab much of the time at present.

I have a tg friend who has implants. He ( his pronoun choice ) dresses drab much of the time - or "blends", combining femme tops with drab work pants & workboots. He has never mentioned having any issues. But I don't think he goes topless, even though it would be legal here in Ontario.

Personally, if they were my implants, I don't think topless would be an option unless I was somewhere where that would be acceptable (vacation beaches for example).

[BRANDYJ]

And we wonder why our GG members that are here to understand, learn and accept us? If the OP is a CD, he's way to deep in the pink fog. Some things are best left just a fantasy.

[Laura912]

Read the OP multiple times. I think the cart and horse are getting a little side ways. It is stated that there "is a need to be in drab much of the time at present" which suggests that a complete transition may be in the future. If that is the long term plan, put the brakes on on the pink fog mobile and get some professional guidance. Have you even tried some quality silicone breast forms held on with adhesive?
Laura

[Julia_in_Pa]

I started HRT in early 2001 and transitioned in 2006.
Due to having a pair of 38 C's bouncing around I had to use a very long stretchy Ace brand bandage to bind my breasts while having to dress as male.
It took three years for my breasts to get to that size so for a little over two years I had to bind them.

I did not go topless.
I did not wear low cut tops.
Regardless of weather I wore a rather heavy shirt in order to minimize their exposure.

Your hypothetical what if is rather comical and, if serious, rather disgusting.



Julia

[Laura912]

Addendum: this is for the videos from Latin America and probably more than you wanted to know.

wikipedia.org/wiki/Gynecomastia

Laura

[cindi cinnamon]

If you're ready for breast implants, one would think that you're ready to live 24/7. Why would you want to dress in drab ?????? It doesn't make any sense to me.

[DonnaT]

Do as you please, within the law, and if no children will see you topless.

The law can be tricky, however.

http://www.wate.com/story/16039917/morristown-transgendered-woman-says-she-went-topless-to-make-a-statement

[Karren H]

Do as you please, within the law, and if no children will see you topless.

The law can be tricky, however.

http://www.wate.com/story/16039917/morristown-transgendered-woman-says-she-went-topless-to-make-a-statement

She could mow her lawn at night!! :D

[Cheryl T]

I can't see why you would spend the money for implants if you weren't going full time.
I certainly wouldn't want breasts to show off while doing the lawn or gardening or anything else in male mode. Seems counter-productive to me. I can wear my forms and enjoy them when I want to and leave them in the box when I don't. I don't have to spend thousands of dollars to have implants just to show them off to the neighbors in drab.

[Lorileah]

sounds like someone is looking for a reason to be an exhibitionist. It would make a great test case in court as I see that is where it would end up. Personally I don't even like to see ME without a shirt outside. I surely don't want to see my male neighbor with the D cups without his, but then again he doesn't shave his back either.

[RADER]

She could mow her lawn at night!! :D

What about the Mosquitoes; She might get a bite on the tip of her boobs, ouch!
Rader

[Julogden]

For a bunch of people who are always whining about the closed-minded attitude of the public regarding us, I'm surprised at the closed-minded attitudes on display here. While I agree that parading around topless is plainly a bad idea, no argument there, I feel that if someone wants and can afford implants and it makes them happy and they can deal with the fallout, more power to them. No one should be able to keep them from doing that.

Carol

[kimdl93]

I'm curious why you would want to have implants and then present as male. Why would you want to do this?

[Miranda-E]

If you stay in drab after after implants what problems can one face? Would it be legal to be topless doing yard work etc in summer.

http://img16.imageshack.us/img16/4629/thisbe.jpg

Seriously! WTF?

[Karren H]

What about the Mosquitoes; She might get a bite on the tip of her boobs, ouch!
Rader

Maybe she should forego implants and just go for Karren's Mosquito Bite Breast Augmentation System!! Put insect repellent every where but your breasts and go mow the lawn at night!! Wouldn't work in Pittsburgh because we have no mosquitoes... The positive aspect of pollution no one ever talks about on TV!

[RADER]

Maybe she should forego implants and just go for Karren's Mosquito Bite Breast Augmentation System!! Put insect repellent every where but your breasts and go mow the lawn at night!! Wouldn't work in Pittsburgh because we have no mosquitoes... The positive aspect of pollution no one ever talks about on TV!

Karren;
Not to wore, All you had to do was ask, I Will be glad to send some to you free of charge.
Rader

[Karren H]

Karren;
Not to wore, All you had to do was ask, I Will be glad to send some to you free of charge.
Rader

I'll pass. Most of the steel mills are gone but their legacy remains... A few years ago some blew in from WV and I bought one of those skeetter traps... We saw one last year. Really nice going outside at night here!

[Linda St. John]

Carol, I don't think you shouldn't have the right to mow your lawn naked if you wanted to but if you're presenting as a man with female boobs ..there could be some blowback . Afterall, it's simply not that attractive ! you'll be seen as a guy with man -boobs and and most folk wish they'd put a shirt on ...

[RADER]

You are a lucky girl.
I live on a 450 acre lake, nice to go fishing on, but it can be a big bug pond
during the static hot summer nights.
Rader

[sonna]

I'll pass. Most of the steel mills are gone but their legacy remains... A few years ago some blew in from WV and I bought one of those skeetter traps... We saw one last year. Really nice going outside at night here!


(you saw one).lol did it make it in the news papers?

[SometimesDiana]

I have a friend who partially transitioned. Years ago, she took hormones and got implants but she decided to halt her transition. She lives/works as a boy, had short hair and binds her breasts at work. She wears baggy seatshirts year-round, even on hot days and co-workers generally have no idea. Of course... she looks gorgeous when she crossdresses on the weekends.

I can't speak for her as to why she only partially transitioned. She's had the same job for ages and I suspect that fear about transitioning in the workplace played at least some role.

[retrofitme]

Some time ago, a man had a bet with someone on getting implants as a man.
He did, and had to wear them for one year. Now he was not a CD or TG or anything
else but a man with boobs.
After he won the bet/dare, he now has to wear a bra all the time. and he can not go topless
outside, because for the attention he draws.
Rader

The guy's name is Brian Zembic. I saw a clip of him on Comedy Central's "The Man Show" years ago. Supposedly, he still has the implants years later, and even lost another bet where he had to get D's instead of C's.

[Julogden]

Carol, I don't think you shouldn't have the right to mow your lawn naked if you wanted to but if you're presenting as a man with female boobs ..there could be some blowback . Afterall, it's simply not that attractive ! you'll be seen as a guy with man -boobs and and most folk wish they'd put a shirt on ...
Linda, if you would read what I said, you would see that I'm not a fan of her mowing the lawn with boobs on display, but I feel that she if she wants implants, can afford to get them, it would make her happy and she is willing to deal with the consequences, then she ought to get them. I'm appalled at those here who are treating her desire to get implants the same way that CD's get treated by people who don't think they ought to be crossdressing.

Carol

[JohnH]

It's been done, click here (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RXqzkRc_EXI&list=FLk0Ous_Tei3eTVu9FHwd7zw&index=87&feature=plpp_video) for a Youtube video telling about a carpenter from the Chicago area who has a second job in drag, and he got breast implants.

This is from back in the 1990's some time and is just an excerpt from a longer video. He seems to be dealing with having breasts pretty well. It all depends on how confident you are, and is certainly not for the shy. :)

Of course, he doesn't go walking around with naked boobs. I think that would get you in trouble whether it's legal or not.

Carol

I can really identify with John Simms. I can see myself dressing as a woman, and looking like a woman when my figure has filled out totally as a woman's figure. I will still call myself John or Johanna and have the preference for masculine pronouns.

Johanna (John)

[IamSara]

I could careless if a man has boobs/implants or not. At issue with me is going topless in public. IMHO if you have them you should treat them as a lady would treat them, with some simblance of modesty. A man with boobs is out of place in our culture,even though there are some with them, like it or not. Yes I saw the links.
I have got to agree with some of what Kelly has stated, as I am dealing with alot of the same issues with my SO and her not understanding my desire to crossdress and even transistioning.

[wilt575]

Scarlet Rose Not wanting to flash simply to hot in 90+ degree days in summer usually go shirtless, wonder about the legal points as opposed wearing halter or bikini top.


I'm curious why you would want to have implants and then present as male. Why would you want to do this?

Be en drab mostly until move out to new part of the country then plan to start living enfem where no one knows me endrab to see how it works out.

[Lisia]

Regarding Brian Zembic..

He also said that it has ironically been a hit with the ladies for the most part. I wonder how hard he tried to win that last bet? :heehee: Sounds like he is enjoying it.

[Julogden]

By the way, for anyone interested in the whole 36 minute video about John Simms, you can get it here (http://www.mediaburn.org/Home.74.0.html), just go there and do a search for John Simms.

Carol

[5150 Girl]

On "People of WalMartI saw an old guy,with a long white beard sporting implants that ould make Dolly Parton jelous

[Lisia]

On "People of WalMartI saw an old guy,with a long white beard sporting implants that ould make Dolly Parton jelous

Saw that one too, big ole' smile on his face.

[Sammy777]

Let me try this again.

http://s614.photobucket.com/albums/tt230/samanthaM76/open%20album/bbh.gif

[Shananigans]

Well, what type of problems would you expect to face as a man with breast implants? How would you picture your day-to-day life and situations with breast implants? What might you say to people when they ask the inevitable question?

I assume you want to go in drab to be discreet, but do you feel that breast implants are discreet? Would mowing the lawn topless be discreet? What might you think if you saw a man with breast implants mowing the lawn topless?

I would expect quite a few angry mothers if you go downthe topless lawn mowing path. It might not be illegal (I have no idea), but you might wish that you were behind locked bars after a few kids explain to their parents that they saw a man with breast implants mowing his lawn topless.

Also, I would consider your somewhat flamboyant actions and safety....hate crimes have been committed for much less reasons. You need to look out for yourself and have some self-preservation.

[linda allen]

If you stay in drab after after implants what problems can one face? Would it be legal to be topless doing yard work etc in summer. If not could you wear bikini or halter top in public. Has any one been in drab much after implants? I want the want the bounce weight and stimulation of real breasts, but need to be in drab much of the time at present.

What problems would you face?

People will stare and make fun of you.
You can wear a bikini top or halter in public but they will still stare and make fun of you.
You cannot go topless in public unless you're willing to be locked up and then fight it in court. You might win, you might lose. Your story will be on the six o'clock news.

If you haven't figured it out by now, I'll tell you. It's a bad idea.

[Marie-Elise]

I have to agree with most of the other posts in this thread. It's not a good idea, Original Poster, not at all.

[wilt575]

What problems would you face?

People will stare and make fun of you.
You can wear a bikini top or halter in public but they will still stare and make fun of you.
You cannot go topless in public unless you're willing to be locked up and then fight it in court. You might win, you might lose. Your story will be on the six o'clock news.

If you haven't figured it out by now, I'll tell you. It's a bad idea.

Not bothered by by stares etc. they do that now at hips and butt. When it's in upper 90's like to go shirtless , bikini top fine as long won't break law.

[Julogden]

I don't see how wearing a bikini top could possibly break the law unless you're in the Middle East or some other place where there are still backward laws regarding clothing, but I'm assuming you're in North America or the UK somewhere, and nowadays it's legal in those places. Going topless in public may or may not be legal, but I suspect it would cause problems for you.

But as far as getting implants goes, if it would make you happy, you can deal with the attention and you have the money, I say go for it, just wear a cute bikini top when mowing the yard. ;)

Carol

[Jenniferathome]

Why would you want implants if you are not transitioning? Doing this would put you in strangest middle ground I could image. I can only opine that doing this is a mistake.

[JohnH]

There is no way I can be topless publicly anymore, and I don't feel comfortable wearing a white T shirt without a bra. I don't wear bras yet but as the breasts develop the time will come when I will need to wear a bra.

As opposed to Jennifer's opinion I don't see myself transitioning 24/7 to a female presentation in spite of my HRT.

One has to be considerate of the feelings of others, and in the prudish society of the United States I need to take that into account.

Johanna (John)

[DonnaT]

Scarlet Rose Not wanting to flash simply to hot in 90+ degree days in summer usually go shirtless, wonder about the legal points as opposed wearing halter or bikini top.
People often ask why a CD, not transitioning, would want breasts. Well, they're better than forms for a number of reasons.

I know a number of CDs who would enjoy having breasts, but the idea of not being able to go topless when it's hot, especially at the pool, is a stopper. I know of no laws that would prevent you from wearing a halter top or bikini top, especially when compared with the option of going topless.